Why does God love us?

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Magenta

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Does God Love esau ?
The ancient meaning of the Hebrew word שנא (soneh)

שנא (soneh) means “loving someone/something less.” i.e. to renounce one choice in favor of another.
 

Bruce_Leiter

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I cannot fathom why and how our Creator Father loves us. So much that He sent His precious Son to teach us love even to the point of allowing us to crucify Him.

I certainly do not deserve it, sinful and foolish a sinner as I am. What is our soul that God places such value upon it? Just look at what we do - making a living hell of this planet we were given. Attacking and destroying everything upon it, including each other.

I would like to be pointed towards the passages in the Bible, the only truth that I believe in, that clarifies what exactly makes me so valuable that God is doing all He can to save me from the Devil. I know each must come willingly and freely to our Father. That He wants us is the the mystery!
And even then, God enables us to come to him through Jesus. The Bible doesn't give us any reason that God would want to save us. But we know that he must have a reason but has withheld it from us.
 

Magenta

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And even then, God enables us to come to him through Jesus. The Bible doesn't give us any reason that
God would want to save us. But we know that he must have a reason but has withheld it from us.

Romans 11:32
:)
 

ThyKingdomComeSoon

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Quite simply: God decided to love us. And this was decreed, in eternity, before God made man.

The Lamb was slain from the foundation of the world.

This was not an insurance policy in the case that man should sin: God, who knows the end from the beginning, knew that man would sin. So, The Son, who is the expressed image of God, paid the price for man's sin BEFORE man was even on the scene.

The Son, by giving Himself for the sake of another (in this case "all who would believe in Him), became the heir of all of the Father's estate: By this action The Son expressed The Father's character perfectly by willingly giving up the life that was His to give.

The Son gave up His life to the Father so that ALL who receive Him could likewise be included in the Father's estate.

Consequently, God the Father was invested in man without the consent of man.

This was the love He conveyed toward us while we were still sinners. So, it was not because we deserved love that He loved us. No, "We love Him because He first loved us."
perfect answer! thank you!
 

brightfame52

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The ancient meaning of the Hebrew word שנא (soneh)

שנא (soneh) means “loving someone/something less.” i.e. to renounce one choice in favor of another.
Does God Love esau Yes or No ? Rom 9:13

13 As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated.
 

Deuteronomy

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What is our soul that God places such value upon it?
Hello MaryM, God loves us, not because there is something about us that is in any way worthy of His love, but simply because He 'chose' to do love us.

His love for us is like no other love that we will ever experience, and the Bible tells us that it is, "from everlasting" .. e.g. Jeremiah 31:3, just like He is. That means that there was never a time in eternity past when God did not already love you (which also means that He loved you LONG before you could have done anything to "earn" His love, not that it is possible to do so, of course).

Such knowledge is simply too wonderful for us, yes?

I used to believe that wrapping my mind around certain attributes of His, like His omnipresence, would be what principally occupied my thoughts for the rest of eternity, but I am more convinced than ever that it is the depth of His love for us that will take the longest to fully comprehend (if such a thing is even possible in the time that eternity allows for, that is :)).

God bless you!!

~Deutronomy

 

Magenta

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Does God Love esau Yes or No ? Rom 9:13

13 As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated.
Yes, we know you refuse to accept what the words really mean.

You sow discord with your faulty understanding. God hates those who sow discord .:geek:
 

Webers.Home

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God may love you per John 3:16-17 but that doesn't necessarily mean He
likes you, viz: not all love in the Bible is affectionate.

For example: the good Samaritan probably wasn't especially fond of the man
fallen prey to road agents, but he helped the poor guy anyway because it
was the humane thing to do.

"A certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was: and when he
saw him, he had compassion on him." (Luke 10:33)

I grew up taught only the fire and brimstone aspect of God never dreaming
He might have a compassionate side.

* Compassion can be roughly defined as a sympathetic awareness of
another's distress in combination with a desire to alleviate it. (cf. Gal 6:2)
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oyster67

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Why does God love us?


He sees beyond what we are to what we can be in Christ.

I would like to be pointed towards the passages in the Bible, the only truth that I believe in, that clarifies what exactly makes me so valuable that God is doing all He can to save me from the Devil.
Your ability to surrender all to His precious dear Son. Those who reject the Son have nothing to anticipate except eternal hellfire.

John 3:
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.

Let us not forget that the Truth is a double-edged sword.
 

brightfame52

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Yes, we know you refuse to accept what the words really mean.

You sow discord with your faulty understanding. God hates those who sow discord .:geek:
You said yes right in contradiction to the answer Gods word shows us, God didnt love esau He hated him. So next question according to Rom 9:13 did God hate Jacob ?

13 As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated.
 

EricH

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but Esau have I hated.
You might say that Jesus could hate the man who was nailing him to the cross. No matter what Jesus thought about the man with the nails, he still found it in his heart to pray, forgive them Father for they know not what they do.
 

Aaron56

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Limited Atonement is such a scumbag doctrine.
It appeals to the religious, the racists, and those with prejudice.

It's like the KKK version of the gospel.

Let's walk this out.

If God chooses to save some and not others, so what? How would that change the divine imperative for the sons of God to be led by the Spirit of God?

Don't want to go to Nineveh to bless the people who harmed you? So what? You should hope that God sends a fish to deliver you vs. choosing another to go.

You, as an apostle, prefer to be around people of your own race? So what? You should hope that God sends another to oppose you to your face and not simply dismiss you.

But now, Limited Atonement inserts man's reasoning into the mix.

"The people have a history of rejecting God? There is no way God will send me to them."
This person has NO CHANCE to be led by the Spirit in this matter.

"This guy is a Democrat. Everything he says is a lie."
Zero chance God will use you in his life.

If one is led by the Spirit they might even be led to people who will reject the gospel completely. (gasp!)

"What?! God will never waste my time!"

Ha, buddy, if you were really bought for a price you should know that it's not your time to begin with. Obviously God has something to teach you. If you will not be led by the Spirit in faith then you can learn nothing.

Limited Atonement: Such a stupid, stupid doctrine. Ironically, those who use it to quickly cut others off from God's grace are, themselves, cut off from God's Spirit. The way of the sons of God is to be led by the Spirit of God, not by reason. Reason how to cut your lawn and how to make a cake NOT how God distributes His grace.

If you're caught in this doctrine pray that God sends you a big fish or one to oppose you to your face so that you will repent. If you keep going this way you'll turn bitter and be of no use for God.
 

brightfame52

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You might say that Jesus could hate the man who was nailing him to the cross. No matter what Jesus thought about the man with the nails, he still found it in his heart to pray, forgive them Father for they know not what they do.
Did God Love Esau ? Rom 9:13

13 As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated.
 

awelight

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Limited Atonement is such a scumbag doctrine.
It appeals to the religious, the racists, and those with prejudice.

It's like the KKK version of the gospel.

Let's walk this out.

If God chooses to save some and not others, so what? How would that change the divine imperative for the sons of God to be led by the Spirit of God?

Don't want to go to Nineveh to bless the people who harmed you? So what? You should hope that God sends a fish to deliver you vs. choosing another to go.

You, as an apostle, prefer to be around people of your own race? So what? You should hope that God sends another to oppose you to your face and not simply dismiss you.

But now, Limited Atonement inserts man's reasoning into the mix.

"The people have a history of rejecting God? There is no way God will send me to them."
This person has NO CHANCE to be led by the Spirit in this matter.

"This guy is a Democrat. Everything he says is a lie."
Zero chance God will use you in his life.

If one is led by the Spirit they might even be led to people who will reject the gospel completely. (gasp!)

"What?! God will never waste my time!"

Ha, buddy, if you were really bought for a price you should know that it's not your time to begin with. Obviously God has something to teach you. If you will not be led by the Spirit in faith then you can learn nothing.

Limited Atonement: Such a stupid, stupid doctrine. Ironically, those who use it to quickly cut others off from God's grace are, themselves, cut off from God's Spirit. The way of the sons of God is to be led by the Spirit of God, not by reason. Reason how to cut your lawn and how to make a cake NOT how God distributes His grace.

If you're caught in this doctrine pray that God sends you a big fish or one to oppose you to your face so that you will repent. If you keep going this way you'll turn bitter and be of no use for God.
If it turns out that Limited Atonement is the Truth of God's Eternal Plan... Let's see then... Hmmm:

You just called God - a scumbag, a Religionist, a racist, prejudiced and stupid. I hope for your sake you don't have it wrong.

By the way, you used "racist" in the incorrect way, as most of our society does. Race speaks to us as being humans. As humans, we are of the same race. Unless of course, you are not human. What you should have been referring to, is "ethnic" differences. Of which there are hundreds. In the case of God's Word, however, there are just - Jews and non-Jews or Jews and Gentiles. Only two in the eyes of God. (Gee - that sounds a lot like a limited group V. the rest).
 

Aaron56

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If it turns out that Limited Atonement is the Truth of God's Eternal Plan... Let's see then... Hmmm:

You just called God - a scumbag, a Religionist, a racist, prejudiced and stupid. I hope for your sake you don't have it wrong.

By the way, you used "racist" in the incorrect way, as most of our society does. Race speaks to us as being humans. As humans, we are of the same race. Unless of course, you are not human. What you should have been referring to, is "ethnic" differences. Of which there are hundreds. In the case of God's Word, however, there are just - Jews and non-Jews or Jews and Gentiles. Only two in the eyes of God. (Gee - that sounds a lot like a limited group V. the rest).
Sounds like you know a lot about that. I probably can't add much else to the discussion.
 

Webers.Home

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Biblical hate is somewhat ambiguous; for example:

Luke 14:26 . . If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother,
he cannot be my disciple.

The Greek word for hate in that verse basically means to detest, but Jews
are not allowed to detest their parents.

Ex 20:12 . . Honor your father and your mother.

However; that Greek word can also mean simply to love someone less than
another, like this:

" If any man come to me, and not love me more than his father and mother,
he cannot be my disciple." (cf. Deut 6:5)

Could it be that Jesus' intent in Luke 14:26 pertains to loyalty and devotion
rather than fondness and/or affection?
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Blain

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I cannot fathom why and how our Creator Father loves us. So much that He sent His precious Son to teach us love even to the point of allowing us to crucify Him.

I certainly do not deserve it, sinful and foolish a sinner as I am. What is our soul that God places such value upon it? Just look at what we do - making a living hell of this planet we were given. Attacking and destroying everything upon it, including each other.

I would like to be pointed towards the passages in the Bible, the only truth that I believe in, that clarifies what exactly makes me so valuable that God is doing all He can to save me from the Devil. I know each must come willingly and freely to our Father. That He wants us is the the mystery!
I know just how you feel I have often thought of all this many times myself it is like you wrote what I have been thinking lately.

It really is a mystery I mean we are told in scripture why he loves us so much who and what we are to him it can be easy to take this for granted for though we can say he loves us and give the biblical explaination of it but if you actually think about it the kind of unrelenting love he has for us how unreasonably generous he is with us as his children how he adorns us with crowns and even set us up to actually reign with Christ like we are grafted into his family and he loved us unreasonably before we were eeven saved

Like the absolute multitude of blessings and all the good things he promises us and gives us all simply because he loves us because we are his.

It really is a mystery and the part where you asked about the value of your soul that he would go that far well I don't know if this helps or not and feel free to dismiss but what if it is because he already knew you before hand? This is just something for me personally so it may apply to you but the more I got to know him his nature his traits his atributes what makes him laugh what makes him sad angry everything I could learn of him but I started getting this sense that he felt somehow vaguely familiar somehow like something as a long forgotten memory or a dream you can only vaguely recall.