Disagree as I already stated.
Our perfect God and Father in love sent His Son for the kosmos just as God loves His enemies by providing the sun and rain for all Matt5:43-48.
This is part of the reason interpreters have noted the different ways John3:16 can be translated.
Ultimately some in the kosmos will have chosen to be thankful to Him for His provision and sustaining of the elements and for sending His Son to save us. Some won't.
Yes, kosmos needs to be considered in context and some basic word searches and studies show this to be the case for anyone who thinks about what they're reading especially having our great Teacher to sit with and ask questions of and then more studied siblings to interact with.
The starting point is the kosmos is the kosmos with all in the kosmos. In some senses it's best IMO to take it back to its base meaning of order - the created order - in which it becomes a pretty vast topic for contemplation.
What I highlighted above speaks to God's benevolence or beneficent love that dispenses common grace for the benefit and preservation of mankind. After all, how could God save such a large number of elect from this world if he didn't preserve his world by his power every single moment of every single day!? But the love spoken of in Jn 3:16 is a
familial love, which is covenantal love. God cannot possibly love those with this latter type of love who hate his Son because as stated earlier, there are far too many explicit scriptures that teach who God loves with this familial (or filial) love and there are no scriptures in the bible that teach that God loves his haters in the filial sense.
John 14:21
21 Whoever has my commands and obeys them, he is the one who loves me. He who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love him and show myself to him."
NIV
Notice the future tense of part "b" of this text. "He who loves me WILL be loved by my Father...".
And,
John 15:10
10 If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love.
NIV
And,
John 16:27
27 No, the Father himself loves you because you have loved me and have believed that I came from God.
NIV
Furthermore, filial love is a
particular love, as opposed to God's general benevolence that he has toward all mankind. It's a love whereby the recipients are not only
known personally by God and His Son, but as Jesus himself said, he also knows his own sheep by name and His sheep know Him (Jn 10:3, 14). The world at large most certainly does not have this kind of personal, familial, covenant of love relationship with the Father or the Son. Just the three aforementioned passages alone thoroughly refute the Santa Claus drivel of unconditional love!
And lastly and I as I have often stated in the past, Jn 3:16 cannot be understood as God loving all w/o exception because neither God or his Son have ever known the vast majority of the world (if we are to believe Remnant Theology), since God never made a covenant of love with all humanity w/o exception (Mat 7:23). God and his Christ love their sheep, however, in the covenantal sense
because they know each and every sheep personally. But that certainly isn't the case with the people in Mat 7:23. How can they love anyone in the filial sense they NEVER KNEW!? (Of course, Rom 8:29-30 clearly bears this precious and incomprehensible truth out since God predestined, called, justified and glorified only those he personally knew in eternity!)
And this last question goes to the HEART of what the Biblical Christian Faith is all about. IT'S ALL ABOUT GOD RESTORING THE RELATIONSHIP THAT ADAM LOST WITH HIM TO THE DETRIMENT OF HIS PROGENY WHEN HE SINNED. It's all about God restoring the Edenic fellowship with Adam's progeny. But the unregenerated are themselves darkness (Eph 5:8) and can have no fellowship with the Light (2Cor 6:14) unless God
resuces them from that dreadful Darkness of Death as he did with the Colossian church (Col 1:13)!
So...how are you going to spin these great truths? Are we supposed to believe that God explicitly loves in the filial sense all those who love Him and his Son, and at the same time God also loves in the same sense everyone He never knew and who hate Him and his Son? Is that the contradictory horse pill we're all supposed to swallow?