Right. What makes you wrong is your doctrines. What your belligerence does do is make you unpleasant to correspond with.
Jesus is neither milquetoast, effeminate, nor traditional, but he is most certainly a proponent of free will.
I have about 45 years under my belt, and I am convinced from my study of the scriptures that Calvinism is utterly false.
Gen 3:22) And the LORD God said, Behold, the man is become as one of us, to know good and evil: and now, lest he put forth his hand, and take also of the tree of life, and eat, and live for ever:
Man knows both good and evil, and can distinguish between them, and can choose to do good. It is good to believe the Gospel and become saved.
Deut 30:19) I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live:
People can choose between life and death.
Josh 24:15) And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.
We CHOOSE whom we will serve. The offer of salvation is extended to everyone. It's why we are to preach the Gospel, so people can hear it and have the chance to believe it.
There are many other scripture that prove people have free will. Acts 2:37-38; 16:30-31; Rom 10:9; Eph 1:13-14; 1 Tim 2:4; 1 Pet 3:9; and more.
That's too bad.
Isn't that exactly what you do, insist that it's your way or the highway? It would help considerably if you didn't erect so many strawman arguments just so you can knock them down and think you're right.
Good luck with your faith. I hope it gets you where you want to be.
You need to read in context.
For example, Deuteronomy 30 cannot be read out of context with the rest of Deuteronomy.
While Moses commanded that Israel choose to follow God, he plainly indicate that Israel did not have the spiritual equipment to do this, and prophesied about a day when they would have this spiritual equipment:
Deuteronomy 29:4 4 But to this day the Lord has not given you a heart to understand or eyes to see or ears to hear
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Deuteronomy 30:6 6 And the Lord your God will circumcise your heart and the heart of your offspring, so that you will love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul, that you may live.
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Deuteronomy 30:15-20 15 “See, I have set before you today life and good, death and evil. 16 If you obey the commandments of the Lord your God that I command you today, by loving the Lord your God, by walking in his ways, and by keeping his commandments and his statutes and his rules, then you shall live and multiply, and the Lord your God will bless you in the land that you are entering to take possession of it. 17 But if your heart turns away, and you will not hear, but are drawn away to worship other gods and serve them, 18 I declare to you today, that you shall surely perish. You shall not live long in the land that you are going over the Jordan to enter and possess. 19 I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live, 20 loving the Lord your God, obeying his voice and holding fast to him, for he is your life and length of days, that you may dwell in the land that the Lord swore to your fathers, to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob, to give them.”
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By the way, you will find this theme throughout Scripture. So, quoting the Scriptures you referred to simply won't prove your point.
God commands obedience. This command informs the sinner that he falls far short of God's righteous commands and needs God's grace. Then, the Holy Spirit gives spiritual life through the receipt of a new heart that produces faith and repentance in this man, who has been informed of God's righteous demands.
So, in essence, you have a disconnected view of salvation that actually resembles Pelagianism. You think unsaved man already has what he needs to respond to God, and he does not. He is spiritually dead. He cannot come forth into spiritual life until God enables this response by giving him a new heart. He responds in faith and repentance, and is united with Christ at that point. This union justifies him, because God views him legally as one with Christ, sharing his righteousness. Additionally, due to his union with Christ, he begins to produce spiritual fruit, just like a branch produces fruit because it is now joined with the vine.
And, that is why mankind cannot boast about his salvation.
By the way, I know my view is correct. It all fits together well. Other views are defective. It is defective to claim that a man who has not received a new heart can produce spiritual fruit, including faith and repentance. This is the ONLY WAY a spiritually dead man can produce this fruit.
But, this would mean that God causes salvation from beginning to end, which is something a free-willer simply will not accept. He hates this view because it puts everyone at God's mercy and his sovereign grace.
I suggest that folks read these verses and take them SERIOUSLY. They are very plain...and free-willers must work really hard to explain their way around them. They show clearly that the unsaved man is spiritually dead, and that he requires a spiritual resurrection (being raised and made alive again). They also show that the whole package regarding salvation is something God gives, including the faith, and that it is not their doing; it is God's doing.
Notice that when it comes down to it, these guys will give themselves the credit, and not God..that ultimately is what happened. For example, Leighton Flowers, their most prominent defender, claims that God chooses those who ultimately believe because they are "choice meats" and deserve salvation, basically. They are someone who is attractive to God, so God chooses them based on some characteristics they have which are positive...but a simple reading of 1 Cor 1:26ff refutes this. God chooses weak people to make his glory more apparent. he is like the star athlete who chooses the fat, clumsy kids who can't walk very far without falling on their face, in order to make his grace and power more evident. He doesn't choose the "choice meats" like Leighton Flowers claims.
Ephesians 2:1-10 1 And you were dead in the trespasses and sins 2 in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience— 3 among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind. 4 But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, 5 even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— 6 and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, 7 so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. 8 For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, 9 not a result of works, so that no one may boast. 10 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. (ESV)
1 Corinthians 1:26-31 26 For consider your calling, brothers: not many of you were wise according to worldly standards, not many were powerful, not many were of noble birth. 27 But
God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise;
God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; 28
God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, 29
so that no human being might boast in the presence of God. 30 And because of him you are in Christ Jesus,
who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, 31 so that, as it is written, “Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.”
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