I think some people are 'single for a reason' and that reason is not always 100% from God. For example: We sin, we are prideful, we have issues that turn into obsessions or hoarding or BIG personality quirks - the kinds of things that (at least a healthy person) drive people away. We let our sin take control of our lives (either privately or publicly) and it makes us 'single for a reason'.
I know I am going to get pushback from some on this.
Sometimes WE choose to be single (in obedience??? ) and sometimes God wants us to be...and if the latter is the case and we obey Him then we are living out our life the way God wants us to.
I asked last year. Got a dream again which turned out to be from my own brain.So I immediately tell that guy who didn't hurry up hey what do you want now. Then I texted a collegue that I was madly in love with him. He picked it up really nice. And then I decided to stay away from guys, Facebook and dating sites and just post here instead. Then with New Year I was so desperate and God did not want to give me someone, so I said it's Your fault. I can't help it. I am desperate and now I crush on You. Then I got such a great dream of a Prince on a white horse. It's not good for me to even talk about the subject. Just let me crush on someone from Australia who isn't interested anyway. My crushes ain't that bad. It's just nonsense, like when I was a kid. The next day I can crush on another and I don't have to be afraid I'll get in trouble for it. I felt alone when the kids are with dad, so I bought rabbits. I think it's best to be a single mom. My ex remarried, now they need time together. The kids need attention. Maybe when they're 18. Who knows? Or not, I don't care. If God wants me to marry I will, only if he doesn't fight because I absolutely hate fights and also don't want to be a doormat. Why on earth would you when you're finally free do it again? Obey mr so and so. I want this. I need that. The house has to be clean. No only if some unicorn exists maybe, otherwise no thanks.
