Why men HAVE to do the ''first move''

[DragonSlayer]

That sounds familiar. . .
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I don't even know who is that woman.

Yes, ma'am, you don't know who I am, and you don't have any logical reasonment to prove otherwise. And I don't find funny at all you're mocking me right now ! Do you even care what people feel when you post so much hatred ?
Apparently not !

 

[Misty77]

"your mistake to call one of your brothers " troll ", which is not a christian thing to so, but a worldly thing."

Allow me to explain with a few simple "if, then" statements.

IF something is not a Christian thing to do, THEN it is implied to be wrong.
IF someone says that you are doing something that isn't Christian, THEN they are stating that they think what you were doing is wrong.
IF someone is stating that you are doing something wrong, THEN they are accusing you of wrong-doing.
THEREFORE, my statement of your accusing me of wrong-doing is accurate.

I'm not hateful, simply logical.

 

[IloveyouGod]

OK, the woman has to be a Lady! with a graceful, humble loving look on her face that makes her sweetness shines as a true Christian woman. Someone like that has to be appreciated. Has to deserve the sacrifice to be approached first by a real man. If he's too scared of rejection or doesn't wanna be in a relationship for some stupid reasons, then BELIEVE me, you're way better off without him. He doesn't deserve you, period.

IF you want, you can give him the green light to approach you. But he must have the guts to do it anyway, otherwise how is he gonna deal with more intimidating situations in future if he can't do this first step???

 

[Praus]

Sister Mysty, you cannot imagine how much you hurt me ! First off, do you know who I AM ? For if you don't know who I AM you cannot say YOU ARE ! If you said " you seem to be " that would not have hurt me at all. You don't know me, and you were very quick to assume you know me from a couple messages on the net and you never met me in person.

Well, I'm certainly not a follower of Martin Luther....

Now I will answer no more to your messages. I need to keep my head clear from any confusing and irritating heresies from this false doctor Martin Luther and his indoctrinated victims.

 

[SanPedro]

I'd like to know your point of view about why men should do the ''first move'' and how would they do it... Thank you... God bless!

I am a man who has always lead in matters of courtship. My confidence comes from Christ's love for me, and I fear no man (or woman). Mind you, I am never forceful nor overbearing, and I lead with respect and honor. A woman is a jewel, and if kept in her proper place (submissive to her husband etc.) she is a jewel in Christ's crown. The role women play in submission to Godly men is irreplaceable in the Kingdom, and God honors a woman who has His Word written on her heart. She who is unswayed by the world's ever changing trends, and who holds fast to the teachings of the Master, is most prized by her Father. Courtship is a model for marriage, and if God-given boundaries and roles are not honored while courting, then the marriage will most likely fail. 2cents.

 

[rachelsedge]

The role women play in submission to Godly men is irreplaceable in the Kingdom

Just for clarity, do you mean submission to Godly men in general or to her godly husband?

Women aren't told to be submissive to men in general. Just within a marriage and within a spiritual context.

 

[Liamson]

"Wives Submit your husbands"

 

[SanPedro]

Just for clarity, do you mean submission to Godly men in general or to her godly husband?

Women aren't told to be submissive to men in general. Just within a marriage and within a spiritual context.

Thank you for seeking clarification. I was speaking specifically about a woman being submissive to a Godly husband, but I was also alluding to women being submissive to Godly male authority figures in the church (I would include men in this submission as well). God has given women and men differing and unique roles to play in His Kingdom, and it is always best to do what we see the Father doing.

edited for spelling correction

 

[Grace-Like-Rain]

"Wives Submit your husbands"

Oooh, I like those chanclas.

^_^

 

[IloveyouGod]

I like this joke example!!

Not 100% certain what you mean by "the first move", physically or emotionally? Finding out if a girl likes you isn't really that hard, just look at how they react to your flirting and your "jokes". There is a bit of truth in every joke, which makes it a common way for people to express things they aren't sure they should express. For example, if you make a joke that subtly says, "Let's run away together" and she jokingly says back, "Let's!" there is a good chance she is interested, as opposed to if she says, "But what about my job?" or just "No!" which would imply she might not be so interested.

 

[IloveyouGod]

Well said!! thank you!!

I am a man who has always lead in matters of courtship. My confidence comes from Christ's love for me, and I fear no man (or woman). Mind you, I am never forceful nor overbearing, and I lead with respect and honor. A woman is a jewel, and if kept in her proper place (submissive to her husband etc.) she is a jewel in Christ's crown. The role women play in submission to Godly men is irreplaceable in the Kingdom, and God honors a woman who has His Word written on her heart. She who is unswayed by the world's ever changing trends, and who holds fast to the teachings of the Master, is most prized by her Father. Courtship is a model for marriage, and if God-given boundaries and roles are not honored while courting, then the marriage will most likely fail. 2cents.