What do Christian women REALLY want in a man...and is it any different than worldly women?
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That means I'm a hunka hunka burnin love... 
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Some of us have enough experience to know exactly what we NEED in a relationship/marriage.
He must be a God loving role model and leader for his family.
A man who gets his strength from the Lord.
A man that takes care of his wife and family as they need to be taken care of.
Gentle when they need gentleness.
Firm when necessary but kind.
Patient.
Responsible.
Humorous.
Always loving.
Its not about how attractive on the outside he may be. I care about how he treats me as his wife and best friend. A true partner.
Some of us have enough experience to know exactly what we NEED in a relationship/marriage.
He must be a God loving role model and leader for his family.
A man who gets his strength from the Lord.
A man that takes care of his wife and family as they need to be taken care of.
Gentle when they need gentleness.
Firm when necessary but kind.
Patient.
Responsible.
Humorous.
Always loving.
Its not about how attractive on the outside he may be. I care about how he treats me as his wife and best friend. A true partner.
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I prefer assertive..a lot of men dont even know how to ask a woman out and plan a date..anyway..we have gotten so far removed from the original question..if christian women are different than non christian women in regards to what they want and are looking for....i see a lot of "wants and looking for" but not a lof of answers about being different?
That question probably isn't going to be answered by noon Christian women on a Christian site...
I can tell you that when my eyes weren't on Jesus I married a man I would not marry today.
We were together for over twenty years. There was a lot of pain and sadness. He was the cool guy... the bad boy...great looking. That's most of what I got...the drinking, pot smoking, cheating boy that changed into a drinking cheating man.
I think maybe worldly females and inexperienced young females might go for those types of men...but when youve been in a few of those relationships, if you're smart, you learn to steer clear.
I'm finding it's better to be alone than subject myself to that kind of life.
I can tell you that when my eyes weren't on Jesus I married a man I would not marry today.
We were together for over twenty years. There was a lot of pain and sadness. He was the cool guy... the bad boy...great looking. That's most of what I got...the drinking, pot smoking, cheating boy that changed into a drinking cheating man.
I think maybe worldly females and inexperienced young females might go for those types of men...but when youve been in a few of those relationships, if you're smart, you learn to steer clear.
I'm finding it's better to be alone than subject myself to that kind of life.
K
What Christian women want is probably a man that can read them internally and out. A guy who doesn't need to ask how they're feeling and can read between the lines of how their partner is really feeling and support them. Women test men a lot and many prefer to get chased, Why? It shows how much you care. Physical attraction is also very important, women don't like to be rude, they are all about fairness. So if you walk up to one and ask them the kind of man they prefer they would almost all say personality over sexual attraction. Which is definitely not the case. Both are very important, both emotional and physical attributes. A women wants a nice guy who is also dominant and masculine. Someone who is good with them in the bedroom, and good at touching their hearts.
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I have wondered and prayed about that question. We all have things we are fond of and attracted to, as well as character traits and skills. That I believe goes for both men and women, Godly and worldly.
I know what I would enjoy in a man. I know my character and what would complement who I am and my weaknesses. ( help meet) as well as how I would complement and benefit his weaknesses. I do feel for folks that truly live for the Lord, they will seek a mate that has a heart that also truly seeks the Lord. (not perfect) but a solid root system in the Lord. (biblical)
Being a Godly woman, I would not choose a mate that is all about riches, partying, power, and other worldly desires. I will seek a mate that lines up with the bible. (equally yoked).
It is correct that we all are attracted to different looks, traits and skills. We are all uniquely made. What separates us from the world is our Love for the Lord and the desire to be obedient children. Oil and vinegar don't mix unless beaten together then separates quickly after. Just as worldly and Godly don't mix.
I know what I would enjoy in a man. I know my character and what would complement who I am and my weaknesses. ( help meet) as well as how I would complement and benefit his weaknesses. I do feel for folks that truly live for the Lord, they will seek a mate that has a heart that also truly seeks the Lord. (not perfect) but a solid root system in the Lord. (biblical)
Being a Godly woman, I would not choose a mate that is all about riches, partying, power, and other worldly desires. I will seek a mate that lines up with the bible. (equally yoked).
It is correct that we all are attracted to different looks, traits and skills. We are all uniquely made. What separates us from the world is our Love for the Lord and the desire to be obedient children. Oil and vinegar don't mix unless beaten together then separates quickly after. Just as worldly and Godly don't mix.
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