sorry to bother. i’m looking for a wifey 🙃

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melita916

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He hasn’t posted since he started this thread. Either he was just hasn’t returned, was banned, or he found his wifey. Who knows!
 

NotmebutHim

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#22
He hasn’t posted since he started this thread. Either he was just hasn’t returned, was banned, or he found his wifey. Who knows!
He hasn't been banned (yet), but I wouldn't be surprised if that happens.
 

Lynx

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Folks, I did some digging and I think its possibly a real post. If it's a troll they're pretty good and consistent to boot.

https://www.instagram.com/zubairskazi/?hl=en

https://twitter.com/zubairskazi?lang=en

https://uk.linkedin.com/in/zubairskazi

https://www.facebook.com/zubairskazi


There's more, but just the basics shows that if this person is trolling they're committed to building a profile.
A friend of mine in chat, running I think on instinct, also said it seemed genuine. Perhaps it is.
 

Subhumanoidal

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Folks, I did some digging and I think its possibly a real post. If it's a troll they're pretty good and consistent to boot.

https://www.instagram.com/zubairskazi/?hl=en

https://twitter.com/zubairskazi?lang=en

https://uk.linkedin.com/in/zubairskazi

https://www.facebook.com/zubairskazi


There's more, but just the basics shows that if this person is trolling they're committed to building a profile.
That doesn't actually prove sincerity. It suggests rather than a troll a possible scammer. He is, after all, trying to connect off site where he's free from the restrictions of a web sites ToS.
Or even possibly a human trafficker. Anyone gullible enough to fall for this is likely an easy target.
 

Subhumanoidal

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Tabin, thank you for asking this.

As soon as I read the part about not believing in birth control and "making lots of babies," I was immediately wondering about a way to support them, too. Now, please excuse me for a moment because I'm used to seeing women get slammed if they ask anything about a man's job or livelihood -- "She's only out for money!"

But if a guy says he's a homebody, doesn't believe in birth control, and wants to make lots of babies -- how, exactly, does he expect to pay for them? Does he expect the woman to support him and the kids while he stays at home? Maybe he works at home and has an awesome job? And I have known a few couples in which the wife worked and the husband stayed at home, which is great if it works for them.

But this is what drives me crazy about dating profiles, whether it's a man or a woman -- they're all unicorn dreams of "I want this, I want that," without any talk about what kinds of solid contributions they would make to the relationship, and no hint of responsibility as to how they plan to make all those wants come to pass.

The other question that burns in my mind when I see profiles that specify race or skin color is, "How white is white enough for you?" What about someone who has mixed racial heritage but is light skinned (I was thinking of the singer Halsey, whose father is black but she can easily pass as white,) a Caucasian woman with darker skin, or a woman of another race other than white who just happens to have light skin?

I understand that everyone has preferences, but having known some people who weren't actually of "white" heritage but could topically pass as white, I always wonder if someone writing a dating profile like this would reject them as soon as their true ancestry was shared.
Homebody doesn't mean they don't work. I've only ever heard it in reference to how one prefers to spend their leisure time. Rather than going out to parties, or the movies, etc.. they prefer staying home.
Introverts and people with jobs where they're always around people tend to be this way.
 

seoulsearch

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#27
Homebody doesn't mean they don't work. I've only ever heard it in reference to how one prefers to spend their leisure time. Rather than going out to parties, or the movies, etc.. they prefer staying home.
Introverts and people with jobs where they're always around people tend to be this way.
I understand what you're saying about a homebody. People would call me a homebody as well, even when I was in school and had 3 jobs.

I'm not a member of any of the sites he posted his address for, but I was able to catch a glimpse of several of his posts over the past several months.

I'll just say, for the sake of not speaking for anyone else... His opinions are interesting, to say the least.
 

Subhumanoidal

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I understand what you're saying about a homebody. People would call me a homebody as well, even when I was in school and had 3 jobs.

I'm not a member of any of the sites he posted his address for, but I was able to catch a glimpse of several of his posts over the past several months.

I'll just say, for the sake of not speaking for anyone else... His opinions are interesting, to say the least.
I'm a homebody as well. I've become even more of one in recent years.

His OP already showed some interesting views haha. I wasn't aware he posted previously. Huh.
 

seoulsearch

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I'm a homebody as well. I've become even more of one in recent years.

His OP already showed some interesting views haha. I wasn't aware he posted previously. Huh.
Clarification: the posts I read were on another site, not this one. 🤓
 

Lanolin

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#30
uh.
Lost and Found isnt here.
sorry cant help. Maybe go to the police and report if shes gone missing. A christian name would be good.
I dont actually know anyone called 'wifey'.
 

EnglishChick

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#34
here’s my bio...

“I’m British but raised in India. Baptist christian since 2018. I’m ex-Muslim (the rest of my family is Muslim). I believe in Libertarianism but usually vote Conservative. Also you better be talkative cuz I barely talk. I’m a homebody and I appreciate intellect. I think contraception and abortion are sins. Looking for a pretty white girl to make lots of British Indian babies with.”

social media @zubairskazi

What are your hobbies? Surely a good start would be to join a club or group specialising in your interests? Or a social club? Mixed sports team?
 

Subhumanoidal

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What are your hobbies? Surely a good start would be to join a club or group specialising in your interests? Or a social club? Mixed sports team?
This guy likely isn't coming back. He posted his request and left his social media to contact him.
We see this on the site, particularly men from Middle Eastern countries.
Personally I think he gave all the information about himself that's necessary. He wants a smart, pretty, white baby factory that will keep him entertained while he makes no efforts himself.
The line "you better be" leaves a threatening and demanding connotation.
Not to mention the selfish list of expectations.
He claims ex-Muslim, yet there's not much in his "dating profile" that sounds "ex" to me.
He sounds more like he's car shopping than looking to make a close, personal connection with another human being.
 

EnglishChick

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#36
This guy likely isn't coming back. He posted his request and left his social media to contact him.
We see this on the site, particularly men from Middle Eastern countries.
Personally I think he gave all the information about himself that's necessary. He wants a smart, pretty, white baby factory that will keep him entertained while he makes no efforts himself.
The line "you better be" leaves a threatening and demanding connotation.
Not to mention the selfish list of expectations.
He claims ex-Muslim, yet there's not much in his "dating profile" that sounds "ex" to me.
He sounds more like he's car shopping than looking to make a close, personal connection with another human being.

Much better.to go out and meet people and get to know them as a friend before anything else, anyway

But yeah i suspect.troll. Normal people don't need to date strangers online. Troubled people often do though. You don't want someone who is damaged goods
 

cinder

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I know some normal (for a given value of normal, ie they don't make you think they need years of therapy after a short acquaintance) people who met and married online. In some ways I rather like the idea of perusing the bios and spec sheets of people before choosing to interact (probably because I'm introverted and of the rational bent that would like info to go on before I let my emotions get involved), but I also know that sometimes the people you click with are the people you never thought you would (and sometimes that's awesome and sometimes you wonder how you ever got into such a mess).

But it's kind of a moot point since, I'm so not interested in getting married that the cost of dating sites is prohibitively high for me and a stranger would be hard pressed to generate that level of interest in passing. Well and now I've got a dog that wants to attack and chase away everyone she doesn't know.
 

GiveThanks

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Much better.to go out and meet people and get to know them as a friend before anything else, anyway

But yeah i suspect.troll. Normal people don't need to date strangers online. Troubled people often do though. You don't want someone who is damaged goods
What do you consider to be damaged goods?
 

tourist

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here’s my bio...

“I’m British but raised in India. Baptist christian since 2018. I’m ex-Muslim (the rest of my family is Muslim). I believe in Libertarianism but usually vote Conservative. Also you better be talkative cuz I barely talk. I’m a homebody and I appreciate intellect. I think contraception and abortion are sins. Looking for a pretty white girl to make lots of British Indian babies with.”

social media @zubairskazi
Seriously?