Sinning by NOT having Sex?
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He's constantly falsely accused of crimes by the atheist homosexual crowd. They get first place by the Goober search engine while his channels have been deleted. When someone brings up such accusations of crimes or outrages, you have to consider the source.
I just got done with dinner and decided to listen to one of his latest sermons. The topic of forcing sex, or rape is a big part of the sermon. I like to check source materials whenever possible, rather than railing accusations from Christ hating homos. I'm not saying you or Andrew believe it, but it's more than common that is likely where that gossip originated. Decide for yourself.
https://www.kjv1611only.com/video/02preaching/Sermons_Pastor_Anderson/Absalom_Part_1.mp4
I just got done with dinner and decided to listen to one of his latest sermons. The topic of forcing sex, or rape is a big part of the sermon. I like to check source materials whenever possible, rather than railing accusations from Christ hating homos. I'm not saying you or Andrew believe it, but it's more than common that is likely where that gossip originated. Decide for yourself.
https://www.kjv1611only.com/video/02preaching/Sermons_Pastor_Anderson/Absalom_Part_1.mp4
Here's a sermon that will be clear what Brother Anderson thinks about this issue.
Andrew brought something up that like began with one of the hatethiest blogs. They are constantly making railing accusations.
Here's what Anderson says about the subject. He uses the Bible term "force."
https://www.kjv1611only.com/video/02preaching/Sermons_Pastor_Anderson/Absalom_Part_1.mp4
Andrew brought something up that like began with one of the hatethiest blogs. They are constantly making railing accusations.
Here's what Anderson says about the subject. He uses the Bible term "force."
https://www.kjv1611only.com/video/02preaching/Sermons_Pastor_Anderson/Absalom_Part_1.mp4
I never concern myself with the wailings of heathens, or their lying accusations.
I dont know this Anderson fellow. Never heard of him until I read this thread.
My only point in the discussion is to say; Christian regardless of legality may not use physical force with their wife.
Also its not in common for a man and his wife to have different sexual desires. If the difference is so much that one feels as though their needs are being neglected, its time for some help. Preferably a good pastor.
I dont know this Anderson fellow. Never heard of him until I read this thread.
My only point in the discussion is to say; Christian regardless of legality may not use physical force with their wife.
Also its not in common for a man and his wife to have different sexual desires. If the difference is so much that one feels as though their needs are being neglected, its time for some help. Preferably a good pastor.
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Glad you listened.
I recalled the thread here and thought that it might be fitting for the subject when he was singled out to us.
I was reminded of some important things that I wish I heard as a teenager too. I let a crime a neighbor committed against my family members make me regretful for over a decade. I regretted having not seen justice against a very evil man, wishing I had been allowed to do something. I didn't let it go to God, the Just One.
Did he seem to be clear about the issue of rape/ "forced" sex in this message?
I recalled the thread here and thought that it might be fitting for the subject when he was singled out to us.
I was reminded of some important things that I wish I heard as a teenager too. I let a crime a neighbor committed against my family members make me regretful for over a decade. I regretted having not seen justice against a very evil man, wishing I had been allowed to do something. I didn't let it go to God, the Just One.
Did he seem to be clear about the issue of rape/ "forced" sex in this message?
Sure, but I never thought that he advocated any such behavior. Usually any pastor who preaches on the hard messages and is tough on sin is gonna be accused of all kinds of stuff. People will pick one phrase out of a message and twist it to fit thier agenda.
This message has a good multiple message, one dont commit evil acts, and two dont let the evil of others turn you evil., and also dont keep sly folks as company.
This very thing is how evil multiplies, and ruins so many. Ever hear the phrase,"hurt people, hurt people"?
Now days, I pray that God protect His from evil, and that he drive evil folks by what ever means to repentance. By kindness or harshness it dont matter. What ever brings one to repentance.
This message has a good multiple message, one dont commit evil acts, and two dont let the evil of others turn you evil., and also dont keep sly folks as company.
This very thing is how evil multiplies, and ruins so many. Ever hear the phrase,"hurt people, hurt people"?
Now days, I pray that God protect His from evil, and that he drive evil folks by what ever means to repentance. By kindness or harshness it dont matter. What ever brings one to repentance.
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The other thread started on this subject in the Family Forum, in which I was slandered and had someone loose it because I suggested that folks (Christian married people so let's not go off on another rabbit trail and thank you kindly) had sex because they loved each other, was pretty much sent in all different directions like this one is.
I do see how one person is basically accusing the op of things that are just ridiculous. Face it. Some people cannot be factual or participate without immersing themself into the discussion in a way that is highly personal and not pertinent to the facts. We are all different, and turning the thread into an argument (typical I know) because that is what is occurring, is harmful and ignorant.
I doubt there are animals in the thread or men walking around tripping over the tongues when they see a beautiful woman. Why bring in all the nuts and bolts of your personal experience(s) when the Bible is really and actually very simple in what it states regarding sex?
I will never put out my personal biz anywhere and I find it questionable as to motive, when people think we all have to listen to someone screaming because they had a bad marriage. Hey you should have seen my first marriage. I'm lucky to be alive...well luck is not the right word...but we ALL have stories is what I am saying.
As my brother says, there are reasons for everything. If a person cannot be objective in a discussion about what the Bible states, then maybe they should just listen.
I do see how one person is basically accusing the op of things that are just ridiculous. Face it. Some people cannot be factual or participate without immersing themself into the discussion in a way that is highly personal and not pertinent to the facts. We are all different, and turning the thread into an argument (typical I know) because that is what is occurring, is harmful and ignorant.
I doubt there are animals in the thread or men walking around tripping over the tongues when they see a beautiful woman. Why bring in all the nuts and bolts of your personal experience(s) when the Bible is really and actually very simple in what it states regarding sex?
I will never put out my personal biz anywhere and I find it questionable as to motive, when people think we all have to listen to someone screaming because they had a bad marriage. Hey you should have seen my first marriage. I'm lucky to be alive...well luck is not the right word...but we ALL have stories is what I am saying.
As my brother says, there are reasons for everything. If a person cannot be objective in a discussion about what the Bible states, then maybe they should just listen.
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If we take into account how a Christian should conduct themself and being filled with the Holy Spirit and the passage on love in I Corinthians, I would conclude that rape is not the preferred method for sexual intimacy between 2 believers (or anyone but we are not discussing the world here)
So I agree with what you are saying here. I wonder how it could even be a question
So I agree with what you are saying here. I wonder how it could even be a question
You're right. I didn't bring him up or ask you that because I thought you advocated that he said that. I just wanted to bounce that question off a couple people in this thread since the possibility of marital rape was raised by another.
I read the beginning of the thread and someone else said,
"I'm not sure of Anderson's position on this, but he does not recognise marital rape."
I just wanted to put that question to rest and not give the devil an inroad to shoot down the grace gospel that he preaches, a presentation that I post time to time for those interested.
I've seen enemies elsewhere take a question and turn it into major accusations of crimes, so as to attack the cause of Christ. Again, I agree that you have not done this nor the others.
About that message,
There's some sly folks that infiltrate most groups and churches sooner or later. A lot of damage can be done by the time the leadership becomes aware. I've seen churches destroyed from within by one or two people. For instance, I noticed that some churches are so accepting of volunteers that they aren't always selective. I've seen over half a dozen examples, so it's probably a common problem.
I read the beginning of the thread and someone else said,
"I'm not sure of Anderson's position on this, but he does not recognise marital rape."
I just wanted to put that question to rest and not give the devil an inroad to shoot down the grace gospel that he preaches, a presentation that I post time to time for those interested.
I've seen enemies elsewhere take a question and turn it into major accusations of crimes, so as to attack the cause of Christ. Again, I agree that you have not done this nor the others.
About that message,
There's some sly folks that infiltrate most groups and churches sooner or later. A lot of damage can be done by the time the leadership becomes aware. I've seen churches destroyed from within by one or two people. For instance, I noticed that some churches are so accepting of volunteers that they aren't always selective. I've seen over half a dozen examples, so it's probably a common problem.
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I don’t think it’s actually “ sinning “
I think it’s sort of guidelines for a good marriage that if we take it seriously is going to help prevent either partner from beginning to look outside the marriage to fulfill thier carnal needs.
a lot of the things in scripture are like a good guideline that’s going to bless our situation like in this case marriage , it’s better for them easier to avoid any fornication or adultery of thier needs are being met in the confines of thier marriage
sometimes it’s not a hardened line of “ sin “ but it’s a thing we should follow nd really is wisdom that’s going to bless us later in keeping us from sexual sin or thinking outside of our marriage och can also lead us away
I think it’s sort of guidelines for a good marriage that if we take it seriously is going to help prevent either partner from beginning to look outside the marriage to fulfill thier carnal needs.
a lot of the things in scripture are like a good guideline that’s going to bless our situation like in this case marriage , it’s better for them easier to avoid any fornication or adultery of thier needs are being met in the confines of thier marriage
sometimes it’s not a hardened line of “ sin “ but it’s a thing we should follow nd really is wisdom that’s going to bless us later in keeping us from sexual sin or thinking outside of our marriage och can also lead us away
