I don't "brush off" any verse. I explain them. It's up to each believer to have the discernment to understand the verse.Please explain why the scriptures listed are not commandment for baptism. Don't just brush it off.
Water baptism is a symbol for our identification with Christ in His death, burial and resurrection. That's what it is. 1 Peter 3:21 says it is a symbol. Go to biblehub.com and see the 28 English translations and just count now many have "symbol" in it.
All dry baptisms are real identifications. Like the Israelites being baptized INTO Moses, and IN the sea. (They didn't get wet. Ask the Egyptian army their experience with immersion!)
All wet baptisms are symbols of being identified with something else.