Oh sorry, you are right...I didn't read all your other posts. If it is ok, I am going to share a little about my story.
When I was 18, almost 19, I was raped by 6 boys around my age at that time. It rocked my world, in such a traumatic way that sometimes still haunts me. Anyway, I jumped into a marriage before my 19th birthday because I was a mess. My hubby ended up molesting my daughter when she was 3.5. He plead guilty when I was pregnant with my second daughter. I got a divorce and boy did I go down a rocky road for awhile, taking my daughters with me. I kept making things worse, so many poor choices. I am so guilty. I finally ended up living in sin with a guy that beat me up, and I felt I deserved it. Close to 15 years ago, I fell to my knees, asking God for mercy. Boy did He help. I walked away from drugs, and almost 7 years ago with men. The abusive relationship lasted a few years more, but God helped me to walk away. I put an imaginary out of order, (so much baggage) sign in front me, and devoted my life to God. I was a mess and still reep some of what I sowed when I see my daughters trying to heal. We are very close today. I am in awe still today how restorative my Lord has been. I love that verse in luke 7 about how much forgiveness can lead to a greater to capacity to love. I'm sharing all this because I get it, plus it is my testimony so I feel it important to share because I know first hand how glorious His mercy and healing are. I now have a full life, trying to give back and to serve, basically to be an ambassador for Christ, my Lord and Savior.
I apologize for not reading all your posts and I understand your anger. I think the despicable darkness in this world is unforgivable outside of Him.
I take comfort serving a God so full of compassion and mercy that He gave up His son to forgive us enough to come live within us, enabling our capacities to extend mercy. Not for the sin, but for the sinners. You may not be as guilty as me, sister, but I know I am so very guilty. I am beyond humbled by how generous and forgiving He has been with me.
Thanks for reading and I hope that it is ok that I share. I am currently seeking professional Christian counseling to deal with stuff, which had I done that, years ago...well anyway, i recommend your friend get help, sooner than later.
Maybe you are being called to a ministry to help others in this area. It seems you have a heart for victims. I remember that the devil is the initial perpetrator of all darkness in this fallen world and will be dealt with in time as will all who side with Him.