I have found this is important to keep in mind for other people as well. People do what they have found works, even if they know it will ultimately be self destructive. The alcoholic mother has found she can get some relief, at least for a while, from the bottle. The husband who beats her has found it makes him feel like the man he wishes he could be. The crabby old lady has found it's easier to push people away by being a jerk.We do our best with what we have to work with at any given time.
I'm sorry, I didn't understand this part: "getting up and brushing ourselves off is easier when you start to realise the dirt isn’t even ours to remove and so trusting being thrown becomes a priority, and any dirt just falls away by itself". What do you mean by the dirt isn't ours to remove, and trust being thrown?I really like this thread.
I’m not usually a profound thinker. But today I sat and thought, and actually realised something, and come up with what I typed below. (Which also just happens to come from a life experience.)
We do our best with what we have to work with at any given time. And when our actions don’t live up to our own standards, or anyones else’s for that matter, and we are thrown off course; getting up and brushing ourselves off is easier when you start to realise the dirt isn’t even ours to remove and so trusting being thrown becomes a priority, and any dirt just falls away by itself