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First you have to understand what's occurring, the epistemology driving it, what the ultimate goal is, and the true costs involved to all Christians in the replacement of ethical theism with modernism/postmodernism. The very assertion the homosexual lobby and the left is wielding against Christians is the very goal they intend to accomplish against Christians as per their epistemology. But few even understand what's happening and why it is, in fact, NOT fair nor desirable to them and their progeny and what seems "fair" actually is a real step toward repression for them and their progeny. One time through the New Tolerance by Josh McDowell and what I'm saying will make sense. You'll have a proper understanding.
I think there's a fine line between being assertive in your belief in what's right and shoving your ideas down someone else's throat. I don't think the intension of either side of the argument is ultimately to force people to do anything, but rather to try and change people's minds about a particular subject. The problem there of course being that once a person has made up their mind about a particular subject it is very difficult to make that person see things from a different perspective, or to admit to flaws in their argument, hence all of the anger and frustration.