Great question Enril!
I'm glad you asked the question here instead of the immature boys on the football team. I'm tired so I won't go into a bunch of details. If I'm short, it's not because I'm mad or anything, I'm just trying to hurry so I can hopefully get to sleep.
First, I found a good sermon on
>Tattoos<
If You aren't attending a good church where the preacher preached on subjects like these, I hope you and your parents will consider one sometime soon. You need this kind of Bible preaching, just like I do.
1. When I was 4 or 5 years old I asked my Dad what was on his arm.
He told me that when he was young and foolish in the army, he and his friends got tattoos. His was a bald eagle because he really liked them at that age. It was on his shoulder. He said it looked really bad and faded because they do that over time. They only look good when you first get them. Then you are stuck with it.
He told me a couple reasons why I should never get a tattoo.
2. On girls, they are not at all pretty. Someone will say they are because they don't want to hurt their feelings.
What guys are wondering is, I wonder if she's still that impulsive?
Ink on a girl is a distraction from natural beauty. At best it's neutral,. Most of the time they give the impression that the person is immodest.
A friend of mine was excited about marrying his girlfriend. He got her the ring, graduated from college and gave her the ring. Then he saw her barefeet. She had some tat on her ankle. He was really upset and nearly called off the wedding. Some guys don't care, but some do. I can't speak for girls, but if you don't get one, that increases opportunities.
I'm not talking to those who already made that mistake. I'm talking to a young person who needs to know this before they get around a group of foolish young guys that are drunk or acting stupid.
3. Gangs traditionally got them in prison or to look tough. I don't think it makes them look tough. It makes them look like they were trying to look tough when they were young and trying to overcompensate for weakness. I don't disrespect my Dad or anyone for their Bald Eagle on their shoulder. I'm just giving the "Dad talk" because what looks cool or tough now will look dumb later.
If you used to see a bunch of Tattoos on someone, you'd first think, Hell's Angels or Pagans. These days a bunch of college girls line up at tattoo parlors to get irreversible beauty DEhancers.
4. Everyone changes but the ink remains. I've got scars from old injuries, bites, tears, and dealing with wild toothy animals with big claws. They really aren't a distraction when talking to people. When you talk to someone, like the cashier or waitress at a restaurant, how many times have you found your eyes going from theirs and wondering to that word on their hand or something.? Or they have a nose ring (septum?) and you are trying to not stare at the ornamental nose booger thing. Those should not be there. Who was the fashion artist that started that trend? They need to be fired.
HEY LOOK EVERYONE AT MY PRETTY RING IN MY NOSTRILS! 😄
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