Not so. That involves an impersonal force. The whole human race fell in Adam. All we condemned. We were born condemned already. The elect were just as as wicked as the non-elect. There was nothing in them that moved God to save them. You said He elected those He knew would be willing to be saved. He saves them based upon what they do, not what He did through His Son.If he who believes in Him is not condemned but he who does not believe is condemned already.. (John 3:18) then any other reason would be fatalistic determination.
God knows the beginning from the end in regards to election and receiving a free gift isn't about doing something that merits eternal life. Christ saves us through faith based on the merits of His finished work of redemption alone and not based on the merits of our works. (Romans 3:24-28; 4:5-6)
Yet, you keep saying His election is based upon those He knows will be willing. Yes, Christ saves us through faith, but this faith is a gift of God that is given at the point of regeneration (so is repentance) and they exercise them and are saved. You’re saying they exercise faith and are saved. The bible says they are saved and exercise faith. These happen simultaneously.
Believers need to repent or perish? No, unbelievers need to repent or perish. "Toward you" is addressed in general. John 3:16 reads "whosoever believes in Him" shall not perish, but have eternal life and not whosoever was fortunate enough to be elected based on God's mysterious purpose shall not perish, but have eternal life.
Towards you is written to believers my friend. That was Peter‘s target audience.
In context, we see that Jesus is directing this parable to the Pharisees and scribes who complained, saying that Jesus receives sinners and eats with them, while failing to recognize because of pride and self righteousness that they were sinners themselves. The main point of this parable is the absolute importance of finding the one lost sheep -- there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine just persons who need no repentance. In Luke 19:10, we read - "for the Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost."
That parable shows how He actively seeks out His lost sheep.