It's not your accusations. You're entitled to your opinion. It's you harassing me that is wrong. Wake up, dude, stop holding a grudge. You are walking in unforgiveness.
and you think it is your place to judge everyone. so, why don't you take that plank out of your eye, and see that while you are busy lecturing folks about being righteous, you are doing something Jesus directly said not to do- judging.