Marriage question

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You've been married five times. Will you please give a reason for each time you married. I think you were widowed one time but not sure about the other four times you got married.
Apparently you never paid attention. My first wife abandoned me and our 15-month-old daughter. She took the money for rent and our only car. She moved out of state to be with another man. Shall I go on?
 
Apparently you never paid attention. My first wife abandoned me and our 15-month-old daughter. She took the money for rent and our only car. She moved out of state to be with another man. Shall I go on?


Yes, if you please. I'm curious about the other four times.


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Sir, with all due respect, you just don't understand. She's not coming back. There is no point in answering your question because it's irrelevant. I waited FOUR YEARS IN SILENCE for her to come back. She doesn't care if I mail her something. She won't respond. There is no point in doing so.

Then you are correct: I don't understand why you mentioned her,
and you don't understand the song, which makes the point that
both people probably contributed to the failed relationship.
Thus, you should not remarry until you have learned how to promote a one flesh commitment.
 
Then you are correct: I don't understand why you mentioned her,
and you don't understand the song, which makes the point that
both people probably contributed to the failed relationship.
Thus, you should not remarry until you have learned how to promote a one flesh commitment.

You done? I hope you got it all out this time.

If our Lord Jesus Christ couldn't bring my wife back and heal our marriage, I don't think mailing her the lyrics to a Monkees song will do it either.
 
By convincing them that they can't remarry or they would be living in continual sin.


How about putting God first and honoring what He says about divorce and that there are only two legitimate reasons for remarriage?

Some Christians keep forgetting that God can help them in their singleness to live a happy godly life.


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How about putting God first and honoring what He says about divorce and that there are only two legitimate reasons for remarriage?

Some Christians keep forgetting that God can help them in their singleness to live a happy godly life.


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How about putting God first and not misrepresenting what scripture says? I'm married and I put God first.
 
How about putting God first and honoring what He says about divorce and that there are only two legitimate reasons for remarriage?

Some Christians keep forgetting that God can help them in their singleness to live a happy godly life.

I don't disagree with you.

But, how is it fair in God's eyes for a woman to marry a man, divorce him, and then hold him hostage to the Scriptures for his entire life by preventing him from moving on and possibly having a fulfilling, godly marriage with someone else? Like, if a woman does something like that out of hate and vengeance (or extreme mental illness), is that man still bound to that woman when she broke her end of the covenant by getting a divorce and abandoning the marriage? (and refusing forgiveness or reconciliation)
 
I don't disagree with you.

But, how is it fair in God's eyes for a woman to marry a man, divorce him, and then hold him hostage to the Scriptures for his entire life by preventing him from moving on and possibly having a fulfilling, godly marriage with someone else? Like, if a woman does something like that out of hate and vengeance (or extreme mental illness), is that man still bound to that woman when she broke her end of the covenant by getting a divorce and abandoning the marriage? (and refusing forgiveness or reconciliation)


You're trying to appeal to me but I have no power to bless or condemn a possible third marriage for you.

It should be God that you talk to about this matter. But you know what He will say to you. And I guess that's why you're asking us.


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