Godly guys finding purity attractive?

[Theron]

i also enjoy bringing other young ladies to christ that way, i can see God work on someone im close too right in front of me, im not really big on looks or body but to be 100% honest if they have a cute face im fine with it (i hope that doesnt make me look like a butthead) but young ladies who over do the dress and show to much turn me off
im what you call a backwards guy

a backwards guy is a coined term for simple guys
say if a lady was to walk in on me naked ,and try to get me to agree to lay with her i wouldnt wanna mess with her, or if she was to wear lingerie or fancy foreplay type chlothes, i wouldnt be attracted to that but, say a lady walks in on me in a tank top and some shorts, then id have to battle my flesh to find a way out lol

when laides show too much outdoors its a turn off im a virgin and i wanna be suprised when honeymoon night takes place

i dont want it to be like

me: are you coming out?

her: yes i am
(walks out with robe on)

her:tadaa!
(flips off robe)



me: o,..... i saw that on our 2nd date sorry, its kinda not new

i wanna be like God this is what you blessed me with (faints)

most guys like to guess what you look like under clothes we could possibly get bored with you easier and or quicker if we see your body all the time its happened to me before

 

[NodMyHeadLikeYeah]

i also enjoy bringing other young ladies to christ that way, i can see God work on someone im close too right in front of me, im not really big on looks or body but to be 100% honest if they have a cute face im fine with it (i hope that doesnt make me look like a butthead) but young ladies who over do the dress and show to much turn me off
im what you call a backwards guy

a backwards guy is a coined term for simple guys
say if a lady was to walk in on me naked ,and try to get me to agree to lay with her i wouldnt wanna mess with her, or if she was to wear lingerie or fancy foreplay type chlothes, i wouldnt be attracted to that but, say a lady walks in on me in a tank top and some shorts, then id have to battle my flesh to find a way out lol

when laides show too much outdoors its a turn off im a virgin and i wanna be suprised when honeymoon night takes place

i dont want it to be like

me: are you coming out?

her: yes i am
(walks out with robe on)

her:tadaa!
(flips off robe)



me: o,..... i saw that on our 2nd date sorry, its kinda not new

i wanna be like God this is what you blessed me with (faints)

most guys like to guess what you look like under clothes we could possibly get bored with you easier and or quicker if we see your body all the time its happened to me before

No joke, this was an awesome response!! loved it!

 

[PARADOX_1]

i also enjoy bringing other young ladies to christ that way, i can see God work on someone im close too right in front of me, im not really big on looks or body but to be 100% honest if they have a cute face im fine with it (i hope that doesnt make me look like a butthead) but young ladies who over do the dress and show to much turn me off
im what you call a backwards guy

a backwards guy is a coined term for simple guys
say if a lady was to walk in on me naked ,and try to get me to agree to lay with her i wouldnt wanna mess with her, or if she was to wear lingerie or fancy foreplay type chlothes, i wouldnt be attracted to that but, say a lady walks in on me in a tank top and some shorts, then id have to battle my flesh to find a way out lol

when laides show too much outdoors its a turn off im a virgin and i wanna be suprised when honeymoon night takes place

i dont want it to be like

me: are you coming out?

her: yes i am
(walks out with robe on)

her:tadaa!
(flips off robe)



me: o,..... i saw that on our 2nd date sorry, its kinda not new

i wanna be like God this is what you blessed me with (faints)

most guys like to guess what you look like under clothes we could possibly get bored with you easier and or quicker if we see your body all the time its happened to me before

You are truly blessed homie, nd i hope God gives you the stregnth nd wisdom to continue to live that way..
ive already treatd this temple like trash and i feel ive ruined what you spoke about for myself..dnt cave in homie.
God bless.

 

[godsbluesman]

I am just going to come out and ask.If a girl has had sex but has asked
God to forgive her would a Chritian guy still like her in that way?[

well....If God can forgive her and she is washed clean by the blood,then absolutely!
We have all done things in our lives that are regrettable-but thats why Jesus died=We are all unworthy,but Jesus makes us clean.so,yes

 

[Kelseybear]

well....If God can forgive her and she is washed clean by the blood,then absolutely!
We have all done things in our lives that are regrettable-but thats why Jesus died=We are all unworthy,but Jesus makes us clean.so,yes

So if I liked a guy and he like me should I be up front about
me not being a virgin

 

[lightbliss]

So if I liked a guy and he like me should I be up front about
me not being a virgin

The "secrets" or details that can possibly cause someone to turn from us are usually the ones we should be upfront about.

But I don't think it has to be like "Hi my name is __________ and I'm not a virgin, how 'bout you?"

I think it's best to go into a "romantic" relationship knowing about a person than to find out later on because sometimes (with knowing after you've gotten "cozy" with a person) it can change the entire way you see someone and possibly ruin the relationship.

With relationships (friends, parents, etc.), topics as such naturally occur in their own timing but if you initially feel the need to bring it up, then do so and let him tell you about himself as well.

 

[Kelseybear]

The "secrets" or details that can possibly cause someone to turn from us are usually the ones we should be upfront about.

But I don't think it has to be like "Hi my name is __________ and I'm not a virgin, how 'bout you?"

I think it's best to go into a "romantic" relationship knowing about a person than to find out later on because sometimes (with knowing after you've gotten "cozy" with a person) it can change the entire way you see someone and possibly ruin the relationship.

With relationships (friends, parents, etc.), topics as such naturally occur in their own timing but if you initially feel the need to bring it up, then do so and let him tell you about himself as well.

Lightbliss thank you for the help.
God bless you sister

 

[eugenius]

I prefer girls who are good, kind, moral people with a strong faith in God, to girls that sleep with 30 guys a week and worship vanity and looks. So do most other normal guys. There is nothing super hard about being attracted to these qualities for guys who are true Christians. True Christian guys want no other qualities.

 

[TheTruthWillSetYouFree]

I know its super hard for guys at this age to find pure girls attractive. Maybe there are some out there who think that it is, if so thats great! If there are guys out there who find purity attractive, give me feed back, comments

The fleshy, worldly part of me wants to me to be with a *ahem* very unpure (sexually) lady. Hopefully I'll find this temptation weaker in years to come, but that's the flesh of me.

My spirit, however, absolutely adores being with other pure girls. I don't find pure girls physically attractive, but I do enjoy their company and would rather be with pure girls than unpure girls.

In terms of dating, I would never even consider someone who wasn't a Christian; an honest Christian. Not a "Christian".

 

[TheTruthWillSetYouFree]

I don't care for the scantily clothed. I don't care for the foul mouthed. I don't care for the materialistic. I don't care for the "prim and proper". As far as looks. I'm simple. Easy to please. I really don't care what a person looks like. Once, a young girl in my Speech class was giving her "hook", went sometihng like this...

Her: "Have you ever looked at someones face and thought, they are just ugly?"

Me talking outloud, but not blurting: "No, I'm not that shallow" This was rude of me, and I admit it.

A few kids in the class: "AHAHAHAHA! Yeah! Dude?!!? What is with you!??!" What shocks me looking back, was that these kids were the loser,nerd, atheists, and agnostics... I sometimes wonder if many Christians are more concerned with appearance than the soul.

She continued her speech, about how to apply what I call "fakeup".

Case and point, big expensive houses, new cars, expensive cars, expensive showy clothing. Can't feed and clothe the poor, if you are spending huge amounts of money on your house, cars, and clothing.


I actually was "attracted" to Christianity, originally because of a small Faith Baptist Church near where I live. The women and girls dress modestly, and don't "over-do" the fakeup. Personally, I see no problem with not putting on fakeup. I wish we could just accept each others bodies for what they are. Instead, we have to "prep", before going out into the world. I should stop here before I rant.

I'm going to call it fakeup now.

 

[TheTruthWillSetYouFree]

In most cases that I have heard of, the person who is trying to convert the other ends up falling away from God.

My mother is an example of this.

 

[candymyne]

hey! chicky! XD I totally do!

 

[Crazy4GODword]

I am godly but i am not looking for a girlfriend, but a friend. I find God very attractive to me