Maybe u need to stop worrying about being able to attract a partner and maybe just focus on getting yourself as well as u can ? Women can sense desperation and for most it's a turn off , also a man that presents himself as vulnerable and needy is maybe attractive to some women , up to a point but , it shouldn't b the first thing they notice about u . A lot of women , do not want to b with someone that they feel they have to look after right from the start of the relationship . Once u live someone u will do anything for them but , if they c that u need a lot of care from the get go , that can put many women off . If a woman feels that u r looking for a carer instead of a girlfriend , that can put them off . That's why I suggest , getting your symptoms under control , get some good therapy , get to church , read your Bible , sort yourself out so u can present yourself as a genuine , kind , gentle Christian man , strong in his faith . This may take u a while so u have to b prepared to work on yourself so u can b the best version of u , so u can b a strong faithful partner . That's much more attractive to a woman than a man who is a bit needy from the beginning .
