Does the sovereignty of God nullify the grace of God?

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Cameron143

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You mean he'll blame God.... again?
I don't blame God for anything, and never have. That's your poor understanding of what I'm actually saying.
From Romans 1 we know mankind is without excuse before God. In Romans 9 we find it is man who fits himself for destruction. So to say I blame God is false.
Further, the Bible teaches that when salvation does take place, it is God who has instigated the process in a multitude of ways.
What I am asking, and what few seem to want to explore, is since God could save everyone, what does it mean that He doesn't? And in each person's opinion, do they believe it would be better for some to be saved or all?
No one is under any compunction to answer. I'm just asking questions. But I do find it curious that those who do respond belittle, make false assumptions and accusations, imply simplicity, and yet, somehow, never actually answer the question.
 

ForestGreenCook

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That's true, and you are welcome, Forest, but that verse does not address the fact that the natural man is incapable of loving God in that he is hostile in his mind toward Him - an enemy. We both acknowledge that God must move first, and Jesus draws all men to Himself, though I think on that second point you hold to it only being the elect who are drawn, while I hold to it being whosoever will believe, for the gospel goes out to all, and though men (and women, too, of course) may acknowledge and/or see God's handiwork in creation, this does not in itself expose them to the gospel message, nor guarantee they know the One True God. So while some say, what is the point of preaching if God has already chosen whom He will save, I believe people are seeking Truth in their own way, and even Pilate wondered what was truth, while faced with the Person in Whom it is embodied. And to those who diligently seek truth, God will reveal His Son, and the message of the cross. Now at what point a person's heart is circumcised is little spoken of here, but that needs to happen before we can love God and truly submit our will to His, even after having sincerely sought and had revelations and Divine interventions. I may have left something out? I just got home from work and grocery shopping... and tomorrow is another work day for me...

Always good to read your comments about the scriptures Magenta. I did a career carrying the mail, and have been retired longer that I worked. I did not have a knowledge of the doctrine of Christ until I was 62 years old. I am now 89 years old. With that said, I will try to commit on your statements.

There are many people, I believe, in this world, that do not believe that there is a spiritual God. they are, probably from all walks of life, some being very educated in worldly things, such as astrologers, scientists, etc, that believe humanity evolved from the ape, others believing in the big bang theory, etc.

I believe people, such as these, comprise the natural man, and do not love a spiritual God that they cannot discern, thinking it to be foolishness.

My understanding of the scriptures is that believing spiritual things is a product of having been born again of the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, and not the cause of the natural man believing in spiritual in order to be born again.

I think Eph 2:1-5 makes it clear that the natural man/woman is spiritually dead at the time that God, by his grace, quickens them to their new spiritual life.

This question comes up frequently about "why is preaching necessary if God has already predestined them to be adopted as his children, and promised the an inheritance of eternal heaven"

To explain this, will involve quite a few more scriptures, so bear with me, if you have the time.

I believe the scriptures to teach that Jacob/Israel (God changed Jacob's name to be called Israel, Gen 32:27-28, and I believe that Jacob/Israel is spiritual Israel.

Spiritual Israel, at one point, turned away from God and began to worship idols, resulting in God blinding their eye's to understand the truth of Christ's doctrine, but they can be grafted back in by repenting, and coming unto a knowledge of doctrine truth. Disobedient Israel did not lose their promise of an eternal inheritance of heaven, but they did lose their fellowship with God, until they repent. I believe only those people whom God has exchanged their heart of stone to a fleshy heart that can be "pricked" to feel spiritual guilt, will repent.

Zeph 3:11-13 explains this fact that God left in the mist of disobedient Israel, (lost sheep of the household of Jacob/Israel) a remnant of Jacob/Israel, that he has revealed the truths about Jesus, and what he accomplished for his chosen people. Thus the reason for preaching is to the lost sheep of the household of Jacob/Israel in hopes that some of them might be saved (delivered) from their ignorance of righteousness of God.

I believe that Acts 2:37 has a part in this, and also Rom 10:1-3. along with many other scriptures.

Sorry about my lengthy post. I hope I didn't lose you, or confuse you. I love to defend, what I think is the same doctrine that Jesus taught, and am willing to discuss it with you further.
 

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Because the Lord want you to choose life, many reject Christ unfortunately. All hangs on the choice we make. we have free will to choose good or evil.
I appreciate you taking the time to answer. I'm not asking about what someone believes concerning salvation. I'm asking if you believe it is better for some to get saved or all to get saved.
 

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The slave has the freedom to desire/will/thelein whatever s/he wants to desire, and his/her master can't stop them from desiring whatever they choose to desire/thelein.
I see some sense in what you have said, but the fact remains, that the natural man has no desire to know anything about spiritual things, in fact, he cannot know them, and thinks them to be foolishness.
 

ForestGreenCook

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To make so great a salvation available to all who can be regenerated by willing to believe in the saviour is more loving than making it inevitable for a few who don't even need to believe to be regenerated and saved.
You still need to rightly divide the salvation(deliverance) scriptures. Most of those who have been born again and are saved (delivered) eternally, need to be saved (delivered) from their ignorance of a knowledge of the truth, while they are hear on earth.

Preaching to the natural man would be preaching to someone that does not have ears to hear spiritual things, because they are not God's sheep (John 10:26-29)
 

ForestGreenCook

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You can desire to fly to the moon all you want, but you will not get there. You cannot will yourself to the moon.
The same can be said to be true of many things you may desire or try to will into existence. You simply cannot.
Moreover, the will is constrained by many factors, so many in fact, that I cannot see it as being free at all.
Please note that these constraints do not nullify people's ability to make choices. Yet our options are limited.

Well said.
 

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@ForestGreenCook I did read your reply and will think on it a bit as I get ready for work, and respond to your well considered points later when I have more time. Wow, you have been retired a long time! I was involuntarily laid off with the covid closures, after having just turned 65 and received my cancer diagnosis. The timing was perfect, thank you God. Went through chemo, radiation, multiple surgeries, months and months of wound healing, infections, etc, and then when all was said and done (I am in remission), my boss needed someone and called me back to work three days a week, six hour days. It is perfect: gets me out and about, and provides a good income with the raise he gave me combined with my Canada Pension Plan and Old Age Security (every citizen gets the latter after 65, and CPP I paid into the entirety of my adult life, cuz I was fairly steadily employed doing lab work, which I started on my 21st birthday, and have had three jobs in all that time. I am still at the third one after starting there forty two years ago) .:D
 

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The greatest exhibition of love would be to affect salvation to the maximum number of people.
[By salvation I mean] Eternal life.
Jesus defines eternal life as to know the true God and Jesus Christ whom He sent. John 17:3

If God makes His true self known through His sacrifice of Himself on the cross, and someone rejects that revelation as a revelation of the true God, they reject salvation. Even a child can understand the sacrifice of Jesus for sins on the cross. God has not made faith difficult because He wants all to know Him, i.e. to have eternal life. But not all take an attitude to that sacrifice that reveals God and Jesus to them in it, so that they begin a relationship with them.
 

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I don't blame God for anything, and never have. That's your poor understanding of what I'm actually saying.
From Romans 1 we know mankind is without excuse before God. In Romans 9 we find it is man who fits himself for destruction. So to say I blame God is false.
Further, the Bible teaches that when salvation does take place, it is God who has instigated the process in a multitude of ways.
What I am asking, and what few seem to want to explore, is since God could save everyone, what does it mean that He doesn't? And in each person's opinion, do they believe it would be better for some to be saved or all?
No one is under any compunction to answer. I'm just asking questions. But I do find it curious that those who do respond belittle, make false assumptions and accusations, imply simplicity, and yet, somehow, never actually answer the question.
You said the person who ends up in hell for rejecting the revelation of God's true self in Christ on the cross would at that point wish God had saved him without his consent. That person is blaming God for their now being in Hell, because He did not unilaterally make Him believe that the cross and Jesus reveals the true God. That assumes a determinist God, God is not a determinist though.
 

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God has not made faith difficult because He wants all to know Him, i.e. to have eternal life. But not all take an attitude to that sacrifice that reveals God and Jesus to them in it, so that they begin a relationship with them.

I agree with most of your posts, but I have a concern about your statement in this post. Are you saying that God wants all mankind to have eternal life?
 

ForestGreenCook

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You said the person who ends up in hell for rejecting the revelation of God's true self in Christ on the cross would at that point wish God had saved him without his consent. That person is blaming God for their now being in Hell, because He did not unilaterally make Him believe that the cross and Jesus reveals the true God. That assumes a determinist God, God is not a determinist though.

Sorry, you need to ignore my post #270. I thought I was addressing Cameron.
 
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I couldn't understand any of that. Could you explain less cryptically what you see as preterism and futurism, and why preterism is more biblical than futurism.
I couldn't possibly defend a doctrine introduced by a mad man in the 1800s 😬
 

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@ForestGreenCook I did read your reply and will think on it a bit as I get ready for work, and respond to your well considered points later when I have more time. Wow, you have been retired a long time! I was involuntarily laid off with the covid closures, after having just turned 65 and received my cancer diagnosis. The timing was perfect, thank you God. Went through chemo, radiation, multiple surgeries, months and months of wound healing, infections, etc, and then when all was said and done (I am in remission), my boss needed someone and called me back to work three days a week, six hour days. It is perfect: gets me out and about, and provides a good income with the raise he gave me combined with my Canada Pension Plan and Old Age Security (every citizen gets the latter after 65, and CPP I paid into the entirety of my adult life, cuz I was fairly steadily employed doing lab work, which I started on my 21st birthday, and have had three jobs in all that time. I am still at the third one after starting there forty two years ago) .:D
So sorry to hear of your battle with cancer. My wife had breast cancer 40 plus years ago, and thank the Lord, she has been cancer free sense then. God has richly blessed both of our lives with longevity. About 5 years ago my wife was told by her doctor that he had detected a growth in her chest that measured so much in with and length, and wanted her to come back the following Monday to take a closer look.

We, along with the church, prayed for her situation, and when Monday's procedure took place, there was no sign of a growth, Thank the Lord.

I pray that your healing will be speedy, and with comfort.
 
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@ForestGreenCook I did read your reply and will think on it a bit as I get ready for work, and respond to your well considered points later when I have more time. Wow, you have been retired a long time! I was involuntarily laid off with the covid closures, after having just turned 65 and received my cancer diagnosis. The timing was perfect, thank you God. Went through chemo, radiation, multiple surgeries, months and months of wound healing, infections, etc, and then when all was said and done (I am in remission), my boss needed someone and called me back to work three days a week, six hour days. It is perfect: gets me out and about, and provides a good income with the raise he gave me combined with my Canada Pension Plan and Old Age Security (every citizen gets the latter after 65, and CPP I paid into the entirety of my adult life, cuz I was fairly steadily employed doing lab work, which I started on my 21st birthday, and have had three jobs in all that time. I am still at the third one after starting there forty two years ago) .:D
I'm glad you've made it and I know what you've been through.

well I haven't said as much to anyone here. but I've just spent 9 months nursing my wife who got diagnosed with cancer.

Yesterday she was told the cancer is gone.

For 6 weeks leading up to chemo and radiotherapy I kept her in ketosis, and for 6 weeks during chemo and radio therapy everyday I kept her in ketosis, so a total of 3 months i kept her in a moderate state of ketosis

Where by the body converts food in to ketones. And not glucose.

Well she's just had the 3 months scan after the treatment finished 3 months ago and the scans confirms it's gone 😊

So now it's happy days 😊
 

Cameron143

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Jesus defines eternal life as to know the true God and Jesus Christ whom He sent. John 17:3

If God makes His true self known through His sacrifice of Himself on the cross, and someone rejects that revelation as a revelation of the true God, they reject salvation. Even a child can understand the sacrifice of Jesus for sins on the cross. God has not made faith difficult because He wants all to know Him, i.e. to have eternal life. But not all take an attitude to that sacrifice that reveals God and Jesus to them in it, so that they begin a relationship with them.
Eternal life isn't dealing with the mechanics of salvation, but the purpose and condition of salvation. And it is not what you described. Knowing God is much different than believing things about God. It is knowing God intimately and experientially.
To show the difference, I'll share a story. In the old west in the US, there were multiple times more men than women. So "mail-order brides" came to exist. And one might imagine someone sending off for a bride and sending a letter asking the young lady about herself. And perhaps her reply was that she was a good cook, she keeps a clean house, and she loves nature. So now the gentleman knows some things about his future wife.
The day comes when the young lady arrives, the two are married, and hurry back to the ranch to consummate their nuptials.
The next morning, the man awakes to a cornucopia of delightful aromas. He goes to the dining table to find a plate loaded with eggs, bacon, sausage, and biscuits, and a hot cup of coffee. His wife had said she was a good cook, but now he KNOWS she is a good cook, having experienced it for himself.
He grabs a few biscuits, kisses his wife, and heads out to the back forty. Upon returning home that evening and walking in the door, his jaw drops. The house is pristine. His home had never been so clean. She had said she kept a clean home, but now he KNEW it was so because he had experienced it.
After dinner, the newlyweds went for a walk. She comments on the beauty of the land and stars, her enjoyment of the fresh air and wide open space. She had said she enjoyed nature, but now he KNEW it to be so because he was witness to her enjoyment.

Reading things in a letter didn't provide knowing. Knowing is the experimental confirmation of what is written, whether that is in a letter from a perspective bride or from God. Eternal life is KNOWING God intimately through experience. It isn't that things are said to be true, but experiencing the things that are said to be true.
 

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You fail to understand, just how filthy a child of God can be, when they are walking in the flesh, in which we all practice, at times, because for our lust of worldly things.

Isaiah 64:6 - But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousnesses are as filthy (Strong's concordance= menstrual) rags, and we all do fade as a leaf, and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away.

Psalms 34:18 - The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken spirit, and such as be of a contrite (crushed, destruction) Spirit.

Psalms 51:17 - The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit and a broken and contrite heart.

Isaiah 57:15 - For thus saith the high and lofty one that inhabiteth eternity, whose name is Holy, I dwell in the high and holy place. With him also that is of a contrite and humble spirit, to revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite ones.

Isaiah 66:2 - But to this man will I look, even to him that is poor and of a contrite spirit, and trembleth at my word.

If the scriptures do not harmonize, you are not understanding the truths of the doctrine that Jesus taught.
I do not fail to see anything especially your sad attempt at claiming Romans 1:19- are about Christians. If you think people can follow God + be in a classification as an abomination to God is enough for me to realize you don't understand much of anything concerning our God.
 

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Eternal life isn't dealing with the mechanics of salvation, but the purpose and condition of salvation. And it is not what you described. Knowing God is much different than believing things about God. It is knowing God intimately and experientially.
To show the difference, I'll share a story. In the old west in the US, there were multiple times more men than women. So "mail-order brides" came to exist. And one might imagine someone sending off for a bride and sending a letter asking the young lady about herself. And perhaps her reply was that she was a good cook, she keeps a clean house, and she loves nature. So now the gentleman knows some things about his future wife.
The day comes when the young lady arrives, the two are married, and hurry back to the ranch to consummate their nuptials.
The next morning, the man awakes to a cornucopia of delightful aromas. He goes to the dining table to find a plate loaded with eggs, bacon, sausage, and biscuits, and a hot cup of coffee. His wife had said she was a good cook, but now he KNOWS she is a good cook, having experienced it for himself.
He grabs a few biscuits, kisses his wife, and heads out to the back forty. Upon returning home that evening and walking in the door, his jaw drops. The house is pristine. His home had never been so clean. She had said she kept a clean home, but now he KNEW it was so because he had experienced it.
After dinner, the newlyweds went for a walk. She comments on the beauty of the land and stars, her enjoyment of the fresh air and wide open space. She had said she enjoyed nature, but now he KNEW it to be so because he was witness to her enjoyment.

Reading things in a letter didn't provide knowing. Knowing is the experimental confirmation of what is written, whether that is in a letter from a perspective bride or from God. Eternal life is KNOWING God intimately through experience. It isn't that things are said to be true, but experiencing the things that are said to be true.
I agree. Knowing God is much deeper than believing things about God.

But they would never have met to deepen that "knowing about" into "knowing" unless the bride had described herself to the potential to-be husband and he had valued the qualities she revealed she had. If he had valued these less than the ability to make money or fix broken machinery, he would have rejected from the start developing a relationship with her.

Regardless, your question was essentially whether it is more loving to A. give the bride the choice of her husband, or B. for the would-be husband to kidnap the bride without her consent in order for him later, after consummating the marriage, to win her over. I would say option A.
 

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I agree. Knowing God is much deeper than believing things about God.

But they would never have met to deepen that "knowing about" into "knowing" unless the bride had described herself to the potential to-be husband and he had valued the qualities she revealed she had. If he had valued these less than the ability to make money or fix broken machinery, he would have rejected from the start developing a relationship with her.

Regardless, your question was essentially whether it is more loving to A. give the bride the choice of her husband, or B. for the would-be husband to kidnap the bride without her consent in order for him later, after consummating the marriage, to win her over. I would say option A.
The first part is an assumption. God doesn't pursue people because He finds something in them that is desirable. The opposite is true. He pursues them in spite of what is true of them. His love is unconditional.
The example I gave was only to lend understanding of eternal life. It wasn't meant to be inclusive of all that eternal life consists in. And it was merely in response to your line of questioning.
Second, your characterization of my question implies things into my question that weren't there. My question wasn't about forcing anyone. You came up with that all on your own.
Did God force you to repent and believe? Why would it be necessary for God to compel anyone in saving everyone?
So my question again is...is it more loving to save some or save all?
You don't have to answer. In fact, I prefer that to you giving answers to questions I haven't asked or changing my question.
 

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The first part is an assumption. God doesn't pursue people because He finds something in them that is desirable. The opposite is true. He pursues them in spite of what is true of them. His love is unconditional.
The example I gave was only to lend understanding of eternal life. It wasn't meant to be inclusive of all that eternal life consists in. And it was merely in response to your line of questioning.
Second, your characterization of my question implies things into my question that weren't there. My question wasn't about forcing anyone. You came up with that all on your own.
Did God force you to repent and believe? Why would it be necessary for God to compel anyone in saving everyone?
So my question again is...is it more loving to save some or save all?
You don't have to answer. In fact, I prefer that to you giving answers to questions I haven't asked or changing my question.
I didn't mention anything about "forcing" anyone. Why are you offended by a response I did not give?