Dating with Age Gaps

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H&H- Cinder has a lot of energy on this.
I trust she means well.
We are so very far from God's plan to receive His healing from Him many here don't grasp that man made medicine can become idolatry, how many committed Christians respond to any sickness, disease, illness, etc., with "I gotta go to the DR." when He was clear we take all things to Him FIRST to receive and walk out His guidance.
bless you brother:)
 
2ndTimeIsTheCharm said:
I don't date but if I was, I wouldn't want to date a guy with a significant age gap from my own. I would estimate maybe 6 years plus or minus at the most. I'm thinking generationally men within this age-range would have the same experiences as I have had so we would understand each other better.


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I go along with your age gap standards. My wife and I are the same age, so like you have stated, we have had similar experiences and have watched the same TV shows and listened to the same music. We are usually on the same page regarding most matters. This definitely helps in understanding each other.
 
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Seeking and walking out His direction for dating and everything else is His plan.
best wishes
 
HealthAndHappiness said:
I had a girlfriend who was significantly older than I. She misled me to believe that she was a good candidate for marriage at the time.
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Perhaps she was a good candidate for marriage for someone else, someone who is less judgmental and harsh. You probably did her a favor by breaking it off. She certainly did not seem to be whorish. How was it that you allowed her to be misled by you?
 
Texasgal said:
Age gap…hmm…anyone who can take me out on a seafood restaurant, hold the door open for me, pull out the chair, pick up the bill and, lastly, fully accept that I’m in fact no more than 29.😂
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In such a man's eyes you probably would be no more than 29 years of age.
 
" How was it that you allowed her to be misled by you"
"you allowed her to be misled by you"???:unsure::(
 
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tourist said:
Perhaps she was a good candidate for marriage for someone else, someone who is less judgmental and harsh. You probably did her a favor by breaking it off. She certainly did not seem to be whorish. How was it that you allowed her to be misled by you?
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Ooooh you have done stepped in it now! Now he's going to call you hateful and stupid too. For thus be the fate of all who dare disagree with him.

But... At least you will be in good company.
 
tourist said:
Perhaps she was a good candidate for marriage for someone else, someone who is less judgmental and harsh. You probably did her a favor by breaking it off. She certainly did not seem to be whorish. How was it that you allowed her to be misled by you?
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You are real funny tourist.
What devil has gotten into you?
 
"Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self control."
"Every though, word and deed"
Learn a lot from you H & H, thank you for being here.
blessings, brother:)(y)
 
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Lynx said:
I called it!
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Nun uh. You said hateful and stupid. Tourist got accused of having a devil in him. Makes me think we need to try harder to achieve the same level of insults. I mean right now it's like one false perception of me got replaced with another fake me. Soon there will be so many fake me's that I'm going to have trouble spotting the real one when she turns up.
 
shittim said:
" How was it that you allowed her to be misled by you"
"you allowed her to be misled by you"???:unsure::(
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Dear Shittim, go back and check. Isn't that is lying misquote?

I make a lot of mistakes my friend. This quote you cited was from tourist, not mine. He lied to mislead you.
He has achieved his goal in sowing lies, confusion and discord.
Tourist and lynx were shown mercy before and they are now responding with this. Wonder why? It's not coincidence anymore than incendiary cinder.
I already wasted too much time on these shameful people.

My statement was NOT his statement quoting me. He obviously and intentionally lied to say what he did. Don't fall for these devils (tourist and lynx) bait. Remember the multiple demons that attacked us the other day? Is it a coincidence that these have done likewise in unison with those spirits?
It's happening locally as we speak too.

I will not waste my time and energy on wicked men like them.
I said my piece and they continue to throw cat turds as they are known to do. They lie and have shown their wicked colors by false accusations, defending the wicked and as you correctly pointed out, narcissistic behavior.

We are children of the King and these devils or excuses for "men" are not worth my time. I have Nothing to prove to such .
 
HealthAndHappiness said:
Dear Shittim, go back and check. Isn't that is lying misquote?

I make a lot of mistakes my friend. This quote you cited was from tourist, not mine. He lied to mislead you.
He has achieved his goal in sowing lies, confusion and discord.
Tourist and lynx were shown mercy before and they are now responding with this. Wonder why? It's not coincidence anymore than incendiary cinder.
I already wasted too much time on these shameful people.

My statement was NOT his statement quoting me. He obviously and intentionally lied to say what he did. Don't fall for these devils (tourist and lynx) bait. Remember the multiple demons that attacked us the other day? Is it a coincidence that these have done likewise in unison with those spirits?
It's happening locally as we speak too.

I will not waste my time and energy on wicked men like them.
I said my piece and they continue to throw cat turds as they are known to do. They lie and have shown their wicked colors by false accusations, defending the wicked and as you correctly pointed out, narcissistic behavior.

We are children of the King and these devils or excuses for "men" are not worth my time. I have Nothing to prove to such .
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Now I also am elevated to the status of devil!

Try hard cinder and someday you too can join our august, and apparently infernal, ranks.
 
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