The thing is, I haven't been in the chats since 2018 when this site switched formats. I tried to download the new app but without success as that is one glitchy app.
There are two basic types on this site, the chat peeps and the forum peeps. Forum peeps rarely frequent the chats and the chat peeps rarely frequent the forums. I guess that I'm basically a hard-core forum peep. Even when the chat was available to me I hardly ever went. In my opinion the forums have the best on-going conversations in the various threads and give ample opportunity to see really see who the peeps are and what they are about.
I met my wife in the forums shortly after I joined in 2014 and we were married later on in the same year. You just never know who you are going to meet. Maybe you will spend some time in the forums and join us.