So what is God allowing here ?2 Thessalonians 2:10 KJV
"And with all deceivableness of unrighteousness in them that perish;
because they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved."
I think the verse speaks for itself.
However, if you need me to walk you through what it already says in plain English, I am happy to help.
2 Thessalonians 2:10 KJV tells us that the reason those who perish face destruction is because they refuse to receive the love of the truth, even though they might be saved if they accepted it. The responsibility for their perishing is on their refusal to receive the love of the truth so that they could be saved, not because God did not choose to regenerate them against their free will.
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And Is this your definition of God allowing a person to reject his ways,
The only thing i can see that God is allowing, is his punishment to happen for them rejecting Him.
Which in Thessalonians 2 all the people who have rejected his ways all get decieved by the devil and believe the devil.
Did God allow that to ?
Nope God gave his one and only son to free people from the devils snare.
You've very much got scripture backwards