I understand what you believe. I still am not sure whether you believe they were saved when Paul met them. Can you just answer this question: were they saved when Paul met them?I do not believe they were born again ... however, they had been baptized unto John's gospel (Acts 19:3) ... the purpose of John's gospel was to prepare the way of the Lord (John 1:6-7).
I believe Paul then taught the people the way of the Lord more perfectly ... same as what Priscilla and Aquila did when they met up with Apollos ... who also knew only the gospel of John (Acts 18:24-26).
The Ephesians had not rejected John's gospel so they were prepared to receive the gospel of Christ, which when Paul had taught them then they were born again of Holy Spirit.
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