A question for the men...
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Imo, probably just inability to carry a conversation and a general disinterested/disengaged demeanor. That being said, I'm sure there are good reasons why women act like that, but if they don't say why then no one else will know. The assumption is they probably don't like other people, are not friendly, interesting, or fun to be around. That's unattractive to me.
Bullying, self centeredness, hates the 2nd Amendment, supports abortion, a supporter of the modern feminist movements who have grown hair everywhere, also female appearance at a distance but up close is actually a dude then that is a huge unattractive trait when a man likes biological females. So the moral of the story is, the more I grow close to Christ, the more of what God sees as immoral becomes what is unattractive.
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As an introvert, I don't fully agree with that for obvious reasons to those who are actually introverted to some degree. Again, if women won't say why then no one will know. My point is that introverts aren't poor communicators because they're introverted, but rather poor communicators if they lack social skills.
I'm not into small talk so I don't go for chit chat really. I'm looking for someone who doesn't see a question like "How's the weather?" as small talk, but rather a segue into a deeper discussion about atmospheric phenomenon, climate, and weather forecasting. Just an example.
I'm not into small talk so I don't go for chit chat really. I'm looking for someone who doesn't see a question like "How's the weather?" as small talk, but rather a segue into a deeper discussion about atmospheric phenomenon, climate, and weather forecasting. Just an example.
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I have a habit of zoning out if a topic is not interesting (especially if the topic has been exhausted), and then suddenly unintentionally changing the topic. It could be I have a lack of attention span sometimes. I have been asked if I have ADD/ADHD.
Other times I prefer to just listen and won't contribute to the conversation if there is nothing to add. I have been asked why am I being quiet/is everything all right, etc., which is a surprise because I felt totally fine. One thing I would look for in someone (friends included) is if we are comfortable in silence together, because I wouldn't want to assure them all the time that I am fine, etc.
Other times I prefer to just listen and won't contribute to the conversation if there is nothing to add. I have been asked why am I being quiet/is everything all right, etc., which is a surprise because I felt totally fine. One thing I would look for in someone (friends included) is if we are comfortable in silence together, because I wouldn't want to assure them all the time that I am fine, etc.
Entitlement. This goes into what I was going to answer on this thread. My answer is their heart. You can see the inner beauty of a person permeating their outer beauty. A physically attractive woman (by societies standards of beauty) who is ugly on the inside is repulsive. There is just a… nastiness to their “appearance.” You can see it in their countenance.
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Arrogant people can also be confident and vice versa. Seems like there isn't much of a difference to me.
It's more like someone is called confident when they're agreed with. When they are disagreed with they're called arrogant. One is a compliment and the other is a slur. It just depends how you decide to view it.
To prove that, you may believe someone is arrogant and I may believe someone is confident. Which one of us is right? Me of course. Jk
It's more like someone is called confident when they're agreed with. When they are disagreed with they're called arrogant. One is a compliment and the other is a slur. It just depends how you decide to view it.
To prove that, you may believe someone is arrogant and I may believe someone is confident. Which one of us is right? Me of course. Jk
To prove that, you may believe someone is arrogant and I may believe someone is confident. Which one of us is right? Me of course. Jk
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