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Lo I said I am not lusting. I don't enjoy it if you can't understand the problem it's ok. Thanx for trying to help though.

Wowww lol why are you both taking the term beauty now. Beauty isn't the problem here. And I said you cake example can't be used for this because desiring a cake is stealing but woman is different. Just don't try to change the topic.

I never talked about girl's beauty. Idk why you're totally Changing the topic. A beautiful girl isn't the problem here, you literally suported girls going topless. That is the problem don't divert from the subject.

And dear brother/sister you definitely can't use tribes and ancestors as an excuse to support being topless and carry no guilt. There are tribes out there which don't have any idea what marriage relationship is they will literally do intercourse like animals and there are tribes which practice...

Yes one person can make another person sin by posing temptation. That's what satan has been doing all the time duh!.. he tempts believers to do something if they yield sin. Let's make it clear with your cake example. You said you made the cake tempting the intention of that cake is to tempt the...

Well to me if a man of God is falling because of a women's dressing no matter what her culture defines modesty to be she has been a cause of sin and she will carry guilt. There's this man of God in my state who literally sees every girls as his own daughter, such a sweet person once went to USA...

Yes that's what I'm saying. It's on man's nature to fall for these things and I don't think women can ever understand that.

I have no problem with appropriate dressing.

You know that dressing is not like this a decade ago in our country. It has been changed by following films and celebrities. You know how good Indian women dressed back in days. And I don't see any reason for changing our cultural dressing but still things have changed and it changed in a bad...

I'm sorry but I think provocative dressing is wrong whether someone do it intentionally or not. What you are saying is "when a woman from Brazil come to India she'll draw lot of attention that's not her issue because it's ok in her country". That's a nono because she is making someone else...

One more tiny teeny help. You said you notice if a guy is looking. What do you think about that guy and does all guys do that or like 50/50?

Hey that sounds soooo much relieving. This is exactly my situation. I wasn't lusting, It's out of my control and I don't get anything out of it. But if a woman faces this too then this is not my problem any more. Thank you so much God helped me through you.

Well I have no idea how men's dressing affect women. And the bible did not ask men to dress modestly. So i thought women had no problem about men's dressing. A women on television once said we have no problem looking at men being half naked (without shirts or in shorts) why does our dressing...

Actually there is an incident in Bible where a woman mentored a great man Apollo. Refer to the verse: And he began to speak boldly in the synagogue: whom when Aquila and *Priscilla* had heard, they took him unto them, and expounded unto him the way of God more perfectly. Acts 18:26 KJV (kindly...

checking on it.

I think dressing becomes sinfull when the woman dress-up to draw attention with her body. Anyways who are we to judge let God do it. Thanx for your suggestions though.

Praying to the Lord with the verse will definitely help me thank you and yes praise the Lord for CC and caring people in this community.

Lol that sounds very much convincing but these are women I know they don't get mad but are getting into a confused state when this happen because they care for me too. But by God's grace I have gotten many advice in CC and I'm pretty sure it will help me to overcome this problem.

Yes I get it John but you know even though modesty vary from place to place there is one modesty according to God because once in Christ all woman dress in a way that won't provoke another man. What everyone is saying here is the culture of people that accepts half exposed dress and not bothered...

Very thoughtful and useful words there. I totally forgot about the carnal man and beating this up on myself. Could you give some more advice on how to overcome carnal nature. I mean demons just go away in Jesus name but you have to crucify the carnal man.