Maby you read with a certain glass?
If you ignore the scripure, like 1.Tim 3 ore Titus 1, ore 1.Tim 2, ore Genesis 2+ 3, then I could understand your view.
But you neclecting clear scripture and prefer speculation and manwisedom. How then is to help you?
F.e. when Genesis 3 and 1.Tim 2 is...