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  1. love_comes_softly

    Kindness

    That one challenges my soul sometimes. Lately, some of the kindest people I know have been treated so poorly. Inside I hurt for them and so badly want to call these people out on their behavior and actions, but deep down I know that the Lord wouldn't want that. Thank you for sharing the scripture.
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    Help for the soul

    I love this post! There is no better place to go for encouragement than the word of God. The Lord really brings a lot of peace through it. Tonight I heard this song on the radio and it made me cry so much. It reminded me that the things that we go through, though not always fun or easy, there...
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    Streams of Consciousness & Thoughts~~~

    Why do people repeat the same mistakes?
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    Women deserve respect

    I agree, women should be shown respect, but I think men do as well. That respect may be shown in different ways, but both equally should receive it.
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    What would your wedding be like if you got married

    Selfishly, I would love to just sign the papers and then live happily ever after. However, I'd settle for a simple wedding that was God centered. :love:
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    Flowers

    My favorite flower is the Daisy. :)
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    Flowers

    Me too! :) I LOVE wildflowers!
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    How Many More People Would Be Married Right Now If It Wasn't For Long Distances?

    I think long distance can work, but only for so long before it either ends in marriage OR just completely ends. If you WANT a relationship, long distance for any length of time makes the unlikeliness of it happening increase. I should say, I think couples that live in the same area that delay...
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    Responding to "How are you?"

    Thanks for making me laugh. :-) IF I think about myself asking people I know and even asking strangers how they are doing, I actually do care and intend on listening. When I hear "getting by", I naturally want to know more. :) Like is something wrong, what's bothering you?
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    Responding to "How are you?"

    That's exactly what I was thinking. What about with people you do know, those you work with, family members, friends, neighbors? I typically still have the same response. I'm right there with you, if it is a lie. :-)
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    Perceptions! How do you perceive yourself vs. How others perceive you.

    Anyone that knows me in person thinks that I am good and do everything right. ----> This is not only A LOT of pressure, but it's so unrealistic. It really makes me be very careful in what I share about those I know, my perception of them. I think our perception is going to be different than...
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    Perceptions! How do you perceive yourself vs. How others perceive you.

    You are more than oridnary, that's for sure. :)
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    Responding to "How are you?"

    I had a random thought tonight, while walking through the store. Someone that knew me (I have no idea who it was) asked me how I was doing. I answered the way that I always do, "good, thanks and you?" It's pretty rare that I respond any other way, even when that's not how I actually feel. I...
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    Would you be willing to wait for the person you like/love for 10 years?

    My initial thought is, yes of course I'd wait, but I don't know if that's true. I suppose the thought that makes me second guess myself is, "why wait?". IF you know who that person is and it's guaranteed that you'll be together, why is there a waiting time? I think knowing who it is and...
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    Developing relationship skills

    Very interesting thread. :-) It's had me thinking a lot. I'm at a point where I'm not "preparing" for dating/marriage. I don't feel like that's where the Lord wants my attention. I think we should all improve our relationship skills in general, but I think that's done by being around people...
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    You take legs/thighs and I will take wings/breast...

    I tend to get quiet when something bothers me. I’d like to be with someone that is vocal when it comes to issues.
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    You take legs/thighs and I will take wings/breast...

    I am quite fond of hot showers (I may use all the hot water), so someone who doesn’t mind cold ones would be a bonus.
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    Apparently I can't get married

    You are right. :) It is wrong and her thoughts aren't biblical. I wouldn't worry about it, sounds like she may have her own issues.
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    Streams of Consciousness & Thoughts~~~

    I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this. I pray that the doctors will be able to help with the wisdom and healing from the Lord. Hoping comfort and peace will fill your room as you wait for the next step. God bless!
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    God is so good🙏🏼

    Welcome to CC!! I hope your time here is blessed! 🙂 Indeed, God is so good!