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Actually, I’m discussing myself. I have no jurisdiction over others. It’s impossible to speak for everyone. We can articulate our circumstances or recall experiences we’ve had with other couples. But we can’t apply a one-size-fits-all philosophy given the varieties in demographic and customs...

Container gardening is the popular approach for those who rent. Setup is easy and it s mobile. Some access shared plots similar to Victory gardens common in wartime. Aquaponics and vertical gardening are other options.

As a US resident, I think I’m capable of speaking for our demographic. The comment was in relation to US citizens not other countries. No, I don’t know anyone forced to grow food for their survival. And since the practice isn’t common for our citizenship, your assumption is incorrect. Just...

US nursing homes are staffed by men and women who need employment to support themselves and their loved ones. Some are Christian. Many aren’t. Changes in nursing education and the addition of nurse practitioners to the market mean Magnet hospitals and better facilities attract the best...

Gardening is a hobby in the US. Few do it as their primary source of food save homesteaders, urban gardeners and others who can’t afford organic food. The majority with green thumbs prefer to grow flowers. It requires time, planning, and maintenance. I spent a season on an organic production...

That’s hospitality in action. :-)

I had a very large group of friends before I returned to God (50+). We connected frequently. I don’t have the gift of hospitality. Entertaining is very different. And I wouldn’t have a group of strangers. Familiarity would enabled deeper sharing and authenticity. Especially with those who may be...

I’d pay little heed to words and focus on the challenges he’s grappling with. Especially at work. I’d want to see how he handles adversity, disappointment, and whether accolades are evident or barely given. If his world is devoid of respect and appreciation for his contribution and he isn’t...

Women have it significantly easier in today’s culture and men are constantly maligned. If you’re kicked in the gut you’ll look for respect elsewhere. Or demand it. The king of the castle can swiftly become a tyrant. Fathers must prepare their daughters to handle the challenges men face. They’re...

I think the OP is reiterating the necessity of planning and putting things in place before health or circumstances force the issue. And firsthand accounts are always best. Many are uncomfortable placing loved ones in other’s care long-term. The disparity in care for better facilities and those...

That’s correct. Hopefully, their partners will understand God’s meaning and not apply their own.

Mothers may spearhead it or help the couple. Many hire a planner if they can afford it and let them deal with the headache. I would do the same. It’s too stressful. The last royal weddings have been funded by a combination of money from the queen and taxpayers.

Barring serious illness (some plans have caps on certain conditions) and prudence in lifestyle and investments; it would be enough to live comfortably. The lump sum amount in the US is less than the pot. Taxes are taken out immediately. And you’d need legal and financial assistance. Sudden...

Is this the case with you too? Have you become pickier or more lenient with age? I’m discriminating. We were taught there’s two ways to learn: observation and hands-on. I don’t need to undergo trauma or put myself in unhealthy situations. I can learn the lesson through others. This has...

I’ve been feeling a desire to host gatherings with groups of friends and unsaved people for lunch or dinner in my home. Where conversation, laughter and sharing will cultivate genuine fellowship. I love to entertain. For me, the draw is mutual investment. The encouragement and support are...

I’m uncertain where these platitudes come from. Proposing that God requires us to be at a certain place spiritually overlooks the frequency of marriages at earlier ages (in the past) between less mature persons. And how do you justify telling someone the Lord is preparing their companion who...

Some people are very tied to their homes or country and that’s okay. Moving away or overseas has its challenges. A casual viewing of House Hunters International (though it’s staged) reveals an important truth. Few moves are authored by the employer. Oftentimes the other partner has given up...

I love golf, equestrian sports and cycling. On the spectator side, golf, horse racing, show jumping and sailing regattas are favorites. I’ll watch a few events from Olympic games and tennis on occasion.

We have a close knit family. They’ve supported my calling from the start and encourage its pursuit. I’ve lived on my own as an adult and that’s my preference. But it hasn’t diminished our relationship. My mother’s sister is one of my closest friends. My relationship with my daughter is similar...