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Moody is the most affordable option. They cover the tuition and fees for all their students after grants are applied. The money comes from a fund the alumni support to educate future generations at little cost to them. The yearly Founder’s Week event is their fundraising arm. The students...

The presence of children is the tipping point. If it was a question of cohabitating alone the answer would be different. But destroying a family in deference to faith (without other tangibles that were not mentioned) is inappropriate. The honorable solution is marriage and the patient labor for...

Given the trend with men forgoing college and some leaving the workforce (as shown in this article) and the rising cost of living and expense of rearing a family. Few will be able to live on one income without a plan and intentional steps put in place prior to martiage. Just because a man is...

I was engaging with someone many years ago and used the term ‘dance’ in our discourse and his response blew me away. After the swooning ceased I realized the wisdom of its dispense. I fine tuned my stance and tested it on others who approached. They were utterly unnerved. ;) The majority are...

There’s a line in the Hobbit trilogy which comes to mind. Thorin approaches the dwarves and poses a question. He says, “I have no right to ask this of any of you. Will you follow me one last time?” In that simple statement lies the heart of my dilemma. I’m not looking for Gandalf. The super...

I think the whole idea of vetting a prospect is determining whether the connection meets our needs. Guarding our hearts is not akin to locking them away. It’s exercising discernment regarding intimacy. I look for visible evidence of compelling with the opposite sex. A mutual yearning for...

I’m single and never married. I’ve raised a child, have no desire for more, and retired from the workforce at 35 (I worked in wealth management). My companions are single, self-employed or executive men who are unmarried. I prefer companions without children. It makes things neater with less...

Are you a body builder? My partners are 6 feet or greater and 180-220 is their norm. What are you doing to bulk up? My companions share your sentiments and I appreciate their input. I’m comfortable with behavior modifications if the results are good. Can you expound on what you mean by “care...

I think He brought the word through my friend for that reason. We fit well and he said the same. He wasn’t opposed to a power couple dynamic. But I knew his heart underneath. He’s a provider and laid everything out. While it can be difficult to relinquish promising partners—and I don’t think it...

We all have different things which tick our box. Some are aesthetically driven. Others desire athletes or companions who share their passions to the same degree. There are those who insist on intelligence or a partner who’s very spiritual or religiously oriented. What one person esteems the...

Derek’s relationships are definitely interesting. I usually regret knowing this when I tell the Lord someone is not an option and my mind recalls his experience. :LOL: I did encounter someone younger than my norm. He sought my input on how to find a woman with a disposition like the one I...

You’re welcome. :) I neglected to include two things that deserve mention since I’ve addressed them on other posts. The women I mentor are an exception to my standard in respect to tenure. Some are friends but others aren’t. The key in these connections is something I observe in their person...

My friendships are structured hierarchically. This isn't the norm for my sex. Women usually prefer flat structures where everyone is equal. But I’ve found that’s rarely the case in matters of the heart. While we may care for them and desire God’s best. Our comfort and experiences are influenced...

I believe we’re fearfully and wonderfully made. If God made you spontaneous, He has a reason and the tools to accomplish His will through your spontaneity. While I recommended a resource in my initial post. I’m reluctant to tell someone to adapt behaviors that may contradict their makeup. I...

Many people who emphasize planning are very goal-driven. The thrill of accomplishment is part of its attraction. Planning is a byproduct of drive and that’s what fuels me. I’m attracted to growth and excellence. That doesn’t mean there’s no spontaneity. I’m judicious with my time since I left...

I think it’s important to surround yourself with edifying companions who exhibit gentleness, discretion, and grace. They will have an impact on your vernacular and mindset for good or bad. You need people who will speak the truth in love who’ll nudge you towards betterment and not apathy or a...

Thank you for the kind words! :-) If going overseas is a desire of your heart leave it in God’s hands. Rest assured, it won’t arrive in the guise you expect. Thank you for the compliment. I will do so as the Lord leads.

I noted the impact the home and childhood experiences can have in an earlier post. :-)

It takes a lot of courage to admit your shortcomings openly. But it’s an important step for moving beyond the shame and dejection. It happened. You can’t get around that. But now it’s time to turn the page. You’ve dwelt in that valley long enough. Something better awaits and you can’t receive it...

I don’t do relaxation exercises. I emphasize a lifestyle where peace and joy are constants. The bible gives you the formula: You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you. - Isaiah 26:3. You could implement this by downloading a flashcard app and adding...