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The fact that I am trying to help from different perspective to you does not mean that it’s okay for you to be rude to me. I don’t like the way you are speaking to me; it’s actually disrespectful. The conversation is between the OP and myself, I didn’t address you and would prefer you not to...

He needs truth not his ears tickling. It seems like you are projecting what happened to you onto his situation. I’m sorry if you were treated badly by someone but as far as I’m aware this person is at risk of destroying his marriage and family.

It’s easy to judge... and I noticed some one else throwing that ‘Jezebel spirit’ label around too... which isn’t even scriptural actually... what about an ‘Ahab spirit’ or a ‘Nabal’ one lol? 🤣😂

Husbands present your wives to yourselves without sin or spiritual defect... this takes a lot of time spent together... a lot of love, grace and understanding... I know a couple like this... they love the Lord and His Word. They are working it out together as ‘heirs of the grace of life...

Buckle did not say he was battered??

Why not??

Buckle, you must repent of the thing that is making you hate yourself. This is very likely an underlying reason for a lot of her behaviour. It’s a divided heart. If you are doing stuff that would destroy her then the truth is that there are spiritual things at work through you to destroy her...

Hi Buckle I’m wondering what your wife’s age is... hormones can have a huge impact on whether she can concentrate or not, stress can also do this. One thing I must say though, is that, her being like this is no good reason for you to sin. If you’re saying what I think you are, then your response...

Loneliness can come from a narcissist treating you so badly. Treat yourself well dear sister. Those thoughts creeping back in sound like symptoms of trauma- and this is totally understandable, because the way you are being treated is traumatising.

I’m so saddened to hear that you would allow anyone to treat you like this. Also, what is it teaching your children? Surely your example says that they too should accept to be treated like this by a future spouse. The Bible clearly says you are free to leave. Protect yourself and your children...

They became one flesh, that was the marriage... the word ‘marriage’ means this... however, God established His rules, in His time and wisdom.

Sex before marriage is sex outside of marriage

Love your avatar 🥰💕😍❤️

God established plenty of laws after Adam and Eve... this is no justification for sex outside of marriage.

Remember you said this, “Once we get there, he calms down, has a good time, and is smiling when we leave.“

He’s trying to manipulate her with guilt, to get his own way.

This is so true. If my parents had not been too weak when I was 12 years old, I would be a good pianist now 😟 and would have had a very good education. I have had issues with self-discipline which has hindered me in life and before I was a Christian my character was a mess. Thankfully God did...

Stick to your boundaries Mama. If he succeeds in moving this one to suit his own will, where will it end? He needs to respect what you say, don’t allow his intimidation tactics work, if you don’t establish respect and reinforce your boundaries by carrying out the consequences ( eg. gaming ban)...

Wow BM, thank you for sharing! Congratulations and God bless you both and all the family 😊

Hey GN that’s some sense of humour you got there lol... I have actually had nights like this... I’ve been thinking recently about how I have been in Narcissistic relationship all my life and how it’s at the heart of why I have felt so lonely. I never thought that self-love was a valid thing lol...