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I imagine God knows every possible future, and every consequence of an action taken. This is why the Lord can say if a person would’ve done that, then this would’ve happened or if you do this then this will occur. He sees the dominos fall and where they lead. He can also divinely intervene to...

It’s funny, in my household my father has always been the cook. Actually when my father was first getting married to my mother, my mom’s mom said to my dad, “Are you sure?? She doesn’t cook... don’t bring her back.” 😅 I also cook. It’s a good skill for a man and a woman to have.

Come on @Nehemiah6 🥺 🙃

That’s a little blunt Tourist, lol.

A useful point on the preparation part of the discussion. This is why I asked if people felt there were areas they need to grow in for marriage. Personal responsibility, yes. 🙂

I appreciate the way you worded this to leave room for things running perfectly smooth. It’s one of my pet peeves when people define the way things are (in their opinion), based in their experience or misfortune. I don’t say this in a haughty way, but sometimes people say “marriage is hard work”...

Oh oh oh, Mr. Nehemiah is a catch? 😁 😄 Good job Nehemiah. 👍🏻 What went through your mind before your marriage? Did you think or know you were ready? Did you have worries or concerns? Were you nervous? Were you confident in knowing you could meet her needs? Did you feel marriage was definitely...

I’ve seen my parents have disagreements and essentially it comes down to “You’re lucky I can’t stay mad at you.” 😂 It’s cute, because they love each other and also, my mom needs my dad to make her coffee exactly how she likes it. 😋 ☕️ People realize they were being silly, unreasonable, and...

I see that you’re married (according to your profile) and in accordance with the topic, have you found yourself marriage material? Do you have the traits to have a lasting covenant? Is your wife happy? 😄 Are you happy? Has your marriage shown you things you excel at and other things you need to...

Cuddling is good for marriage too! 😁 lol

I think there is a strength in being confident in who you are, knowing who you are and being satisfied with yourself as a person. You go into the relationship whole. Since you’re whole, what can you do but give? 😉 It’s also important to receive however, and you might be surprised at how much...

You haven’t observed that one being natural? Have you ever fought with your siblings and it just gets swept under the rug? It’s nothing, you know you still love each other. I find not all wrongs need an apology and some do need to be addressed, especially if amends need to be made. There are...

I like that you emphasized the Lord in your answer. I always hear people quote that a “threefold chord is not easily broken.” Our amiability and the way we conduct ourselves is dependent upon God, because He sanctifies us. He helps us to walk in love, and He, if we open the doors of our heart...

It sounds like you may be wounded or you’re making a joke. Lol It does take an honest evaluation of yourself, good qualities and things you may need to work on or have God sanctify. There definitely are traits that make a person fit for marriage, of course the greatest of these ultimately can...

I think the preparation part is God defining and refining our character and who we are. Of course other more material aspects of life as well, success and independence. But, yes, preparing who we are as a person who walks in love and therefore walks in peace. God’s word says that “love never...

Do you feel that you were made for marriage? Are you of the right temperament? Do you feel like you are lacking something for marriage or do you feel that you are equipped for marriage? For myself I feel like I need to accomplish certain things beforehand. If I am being honest before all of...

I’ve shared your perspective many times, where the enemy made God out to be the enemy. The enemy, through deception, tried to get me to question the goodness of God, doubt it as you said. “If God really cares, why I am going through what I am?” The thing is, you have to believe the truth...

Well, facts. 😅 But, I don’t mean to offend you. You said that you didn’t say what I quoted you on, and so I had to prove it by finding your post. Maybe my understanding of what you’re saying is faulty? If I read what you’re saying at face value, you don’t think the majority experiences racism...

Did you really just make me go through your posts to find it? 🙃 I put in bold where I am quoting you from in my recent post. I am just pointing out, that you have said things that are patently false, especially in today’s climate.

No, but the majority is suffering at the hands of the minority based upon a false narrative. Btw, I hope you aren’t trying to hide your exact words on racism not being experienced by the majority. You making this statement here doesn’t cause your previous statement to disappear. Unless I am...