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  1. Aephus

    ❤What type of person do u like ❤

    Mm, this is a good question. I want someone who is kind and genuine. Someone who loves me for who I am and will stick by me. Someone who loves others and is confident in herself. Not in a headstrong kind of way, but in the Proverbs 31 kind of way (“she perceives that her merchandise is good”)...
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    Scientists say you don’t grow up until your 30s

    I guess to bring clarity to my previous post, I’m 28.
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    Scientists say you don’t grow up until your 30s

    I’ve always felt 30 would be one of the best years of my life. I still don’t feel completely adult. I’m not sure I ever will. But that’s okay :)
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    Please suggest good Christian movies

    Faith like potatoes
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    What Do Women REALLY Mean When They Say, "I Want a Man Who is a Provider!"?

    My post has nothing to do with what women mean. Lol.
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    What Do Women REALLY Mean When They Say, "I Want a Man Who is a Provider!"?

    I view it as the man should do whatever it takes to make things work (granted it isn't anything shady). I think the role of provider isn't just financial, but also includes spiritual and emotional needs. Being there for the family, being present in the kids', if any, lives. Providing direction...
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    It's the Singles Forum Oldies/Newbies Mingle! (How can we best blend the old user/new user crowd?)

    I don't know if I can stick around really often. Maybe periodically. But that's all. I work in IT, which sometimes can be crazy hours. I also serve in the church I go to, and we have something going on 3-4 days a week (Sundays included). I still need to learn how to balance everything. And...
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    It's the Singles Forum Oldies/Newbies Mingle! (How can we best blend the old user/new user crowd?)

    I've always had difficulty with forums :T, though it is nice sometimes to check back periodically on a thread I've created with a question to see what people have to say. I sometimes miss the days where I'd sit on AIM and have some good conversation. Everything seems to have happened so fast...
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    It's the Singles Forum Oldies/Newbies Mingle! (How can we best blend the old user/new user crowd?)

    I'm always the silent viewer :) lol Unless I'm really stirred to respond, or if I need prayer.
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    Need Prayer

    Hey everyone, I’m in some need of prayer. I’ve gotten off track recently and have been having difficulty getting back in the swing of things. I’ve felt my heart isn’t where it once was and I’ve basically turned from where God wants me. My prayer life and study life is seriously lacking and I’m...
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    Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens....

    1. Fruits! Almost all of them. They’re so tasty! 2. Sushi! Especially anything containing salmon and/or avocado. 3. Worshipping God freely/experiencing the tangible presence of God. 4. Intimacy in relationship. 5. Clouds. Definitely clouds. 6. Hiking! 7. French Vanilla ice cream :)
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    Needing Prayer

    Hey everyone; Could you pray for me? I had one of the best monhs spiritually in December but I made a few mistakes and I’m out of sorts. Im having a hard time moving along in my relationship with Him. Since this, I’ve recently dabbled in playing video games again. Personally, I don’t really...
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    Leadership and Correction

    Thank you everyone who has contributed so far, it's all been good :giggle:
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    Leadership and Correction

    Thank you much, this really helps out. I truly appreciate it.
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    Leadership and Correction

    Why is it sometimes difficult to bring correction? (This kinda goes with the dealing with conflict post I opened on the young adult forum a little while back). I notice in myself not really liking to rock the boat. But I know sometimes I need to. Today I had a situation where I was hanging out...
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    Lack of Love for God

    All the advice given so far is excellent, and I agree with it all. Remember this is a spiritual battle. We won’t drift into a place of fervency or zeal, rather we have to be intentional about our relationship with God, and in doing so the fervency/zeal comes. Sometimes it is hard when we’re not...
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    Prayer for Healing

    Hey everyone, One of my friends, Max, had to go to the hospital because he had a lot of pressure behind his eye. It got to the point where he was losing sight out of that particular eye. They found that the optical nerve was swollen and also said it was because his immune system is...
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    How to identify if you are being tested by God or being punished by Him?

    Mm.. I hear you. One thing I do know and hold onto when times are tough or things don’t make sense is Romans 8:28 (NKJV) And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. I know that no matter what, because I love...
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    How Often Do You Give/Receive Hugs?

    I really like hugging people. I would say it happens most at church, but it also happens if maybe someone comes over to visit or I go to hang out with someone/a group of people, almost like a greeting or, when I leave, a bid farewell. I also like to hug people to encourage them and sometimes I...
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    Christian Hip-hop

    Eshon Burgundy Datin Beautiful Eulogy All are very good.