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I have never used an app or dating site. But if I did it would be a service whose cost and vetting would weed out the dross. There is no way I would subject myself to random messages from every person who called themselves a Christian. That isn’t a wise use of time. Oftentimes you get what you...

I think it’s a mark of maturity and dignity to admit your shortcomings and make an effort to improve and overcome them. As-is mentalities are the antithesis of sanctification. We’re supposed to grow and mature. The person who proactively does the same for themselves is more likely to help you...

I am unlikely to make an investment of time and self-denial for a gentleman I don’t know intimately and whose bones I don’t understand. That takes a lot of years of interacting and seeing them at their best and worst. I don’t have that tenure with any Christian men. I would need a clear word...

Understanding your purpose is a game changer. It frames your decisions in a different light. A prospect may appeal to my senses while being ill-suited for the realities of my calling. I recollect a story Billy Graham shared. His wife wanted to be a missionary to Tibet. But he told her that the...

You’re correct and it isn’t the right situation for everyone. :)

I have never encountered a man (Christian or otherwise) with a fixation on virginity. Most men don’t enter marriage in the same state. But I’ve certainly engaged with men who desire a partner who respects and honors their companion. And more than a few acknowledge the difficulty of finding...

Every generation says the same. But our behavior lacks the urgency and intention that’s evident when you know the end is near. The only difference in the current age is the absence of censure for behavior that was formerly condemned or shamed. It still occurred but it wasn’t openly tolerated...

Distance isn’t an impediment. What do you define as being a "long distance", and have you or would you try to make a long-distance relationship work? A suitor who resides in a different state or country. I’ve had 3 long distance relationships and a lengthy connection. One resided on the west...

Must Haves... Understands his purpose and is seeking to accomplish a shared vision Self-aware and able to admit mistakes, challenges and ask for help Ethical leader with vision who owns his decisions and outcomes Knows his limitations and continues to learn and grow Communicates well and is...

I ❤... French food, clothing, and handbags. And I keep Valrhona and champagne on the ready. Beautiful things, people, places and experiences. Fashion and interior design, sewing, and historical costumes. White attire and decor and I’m crazy about mint green. Homemaking, decluttering...

My natural style is elegant and feminine. When I came home I began to dress more casually. But finally the Lord addressed it and told me I needed to resume my former look. My sewing classes started shortly after and I eventually developed a custom style and wardrobe plan. My desire for makeup...

I have never been stalked. But I encountered someone on a forum who became irate that I wouldn’t accept his advances and turned him down. He joined every group I was in and spent 6 weeks raging publicly about me and women as well. My friends finally got rid of him. He was booted from the groups...

He can weave the desires of your heart into your mission. I’m not surprised that’s the case. When I saw your location, I figured He was up to something. :cool:

I am well acquainted with MGTOW and its kindred ideals. I’ve known my share of men who have similar opinions and have spoken at length with them on this and related subjects many times. Do you know any MGTOW men (or women who are pro-men's rights)? Have they discussed their views? I know both...

Texas is beginning to change due to the influx of liberals. Many residents have complained to no avail. I haven’t seen the residency requirements in quite a while. You’re well spoken. Why don’t you start a blog instead? You don’t need to seek an employer, You could work for Him instead. So...

The worst experience I’ve ever had was with someone who wouldn’t stop eating. The place we went to had healthy portions. He ate his food and half of mine. I didn’t offer it! We stopped at Starbucks afterward. The manager at our neighborhood store transfered to care for her aging mother and I...

Texas is being inundated with Californians! You’ll get the best of both worlds at a cheaper price. ;) Why is it impossible? Do you think moving you is too hard for God?

You met him on a dating site and began interacting. That frames the nature of your discourse. If friendship was the aim your conversation wouldn’t move in the direction it did. Yay or Nay are your options. When you admitted your incompatibility the matter was settled. To propose friendship at...

My father advised me against it in my teens. I posed the question and his advice was sound. It stuck and I always dated men my age. But I’m in a different season and have more in common with the childfree aspiring nomad who’s slightly younger. We get along well. And I’ve noticed increasing...

I would live in Paris. The food and culture are my favorites and London isn’t far behind. I’ll be staying in both for school. Overall, I prefer a vibrant place with a demographic where the arts, entertainment, and mental stimulation are well represented. And water is a must. I love riding...