Midnight Confessions

I have always had a soft spot in my heart for puppies.

Especially when they're babies.

Yeah, basically the same thing. Cute when small, then the grow up and start causing problems of some sort.

we are not allowed to use any type of rug on the floor because she pees them, lol.

I think I've realized that although I hope to marry again, it terrifies me.

Sounds like you have been sorely missed by your old boss.

I told him I would have to think about it, though full time would be out of the question for me,
and he agreed that three days a week would be fine, @ six hours days, since they are all on a
reduced-hour day. He called just after ten this morning and at first I thought, whoa, no way! LOL.
I like being retired. But I also need a reason to get dressed on any day and walk out my door. Plus,
I did really enjoy my work. There was always that So I called him back and said "Yes" after making
sure my pension and security payouts from the government will not in any way be affected

I may miss my afternoon naps

I work 4 days a week after taking a year off during the move from Florida to Tennessee. Not really desperate for the extra money but it does come in handy. Darlene and I are both of Social Security, plus I have a small pension from a previous job, so we are doing OK. I miss the afternoon naps too.

I was going to confess, I can be direct but I think its better to be honest and risk coming across as being rude, than lie and be insincere.

Also, it is not wrong to say 'I think this' or that, for Im just one mind and dont refer to myself as 'we' or assume all others will think the same as me. Everyone is free to think their own thoughts, and I dont want to think for them.

But it can get me in trouble when people take it the wrong way, which is never my intention. However people often do not realise their own condescending rudeness toward me. I can forgive that, but its the deliberately rude ones that are like 'Lanolin doesnt know blah blah blah' as if talking about me as if I dont exist when its obviously written for everyone to see is just kinda dumb.

if you have a problem with me, you just say it direct rather than tell tales thinking oh it will get back to me or she doesnt know it. I can handle it. Dont sugar coat it and call me sweetheart darling honeybunch as if Im a little girl who needs to be coddled.

I was thinking of the narrowpath on CC who was involved with Robertt. I have this to say.

.. the guy that cheats on a girl and hides it or covers it up by pretending she wont find out...or what she dont know wont hurt her cos shes too dumb...is stupid.

If you going to cheat on someone, why not just say to the girl whos going to be cheated on...Im going out with xx now. If you wanna come with you can so I can see two girls at once but if you dont want to go with me anymore thats fine too.
Give her the option and satisfaction of dumping you. Be the man.

Coincidentally, puppies probably have soft hearts.

Of course, they have soft everything. Except for teeth.

Sounds like my species.

This Robert guy is simply bad news. Sobs 'cause he can't get a girlfriend, finally finds one and then proceeds to cheat on her. Sad. I feel bad for her.

The guy has made all sorts of bizarre posts. I am frankly stunned that no one else has noticed this. He appears to be a man who does not take his Christian commitment seriously. I know we all have our struggles and our battles. But, they should be battles.

I believe the posts were noticed by some here.

I'm glad someone noticed. Sheesh. This guy posts the most oddball stuff.

For sure. He was an odd one.

Regarding on-line romance, unless you have the wherewithal to possibly leading to marriage you should not even attempt to pursue initiating such a relationship. These are real people here and not virtual. People can really get hurt and suffer loss and heartbreak. You cannot in good conscience simply delete them if things go south. That's not right. What this member did was unconscionable.