I was going to confess, I can be direct but I think its better to be honest and risk coming across as being rude, than lie and be insincere.
Also, it is not wrong to say 'I think this' or that, for Im just one mind and dont refer to myself as 'we' or assume all others will think the same as me. Everyone is free to think their own thoughts, and I dont want to think for them.
But it can get me in trouble when people take it the wrong way, which is never my intention. However people often do not realise their own condescending rudeness toward me. I can forgive that, but its the deliberately rude ones that are like 'Lanolin doesnt know blah blah blah' as if talking about me as if I dont exist when its obviously written for everyone to see is just kinda dumb.
if you have a problem with me, you just say it direct rather than tell tales thinking oh it will get back to me or she doesnt know it. I can handle it. Dont sugar coat it and call me sweetheart darling honeybunch as if Im a little girl who needs to be coddled.
I was thinking of the narrowpath on CC who was involved with Robertt. I have this to say.
.. the guy that cheats on a girl and hides it or covers it up by pretending she wont find out...or what she dont know wont hurt her cos shes too dumb...is stupid.
If you going to cheat on someone, why not just say to the girl whos going to be cheated on...Im going out with xx now. If you wanna come with you can so I can see two girls at once but if you dont want to go with me anymore thats fine too.
Give her the option and satisfaction of dumping you. Be the man.