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Beckie

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She has issues with me being there for my family...but does it really matter??? What matters is my wife and kids...I know that a man should leave his father and mother and become one with his wife...but if your family needs help...should you not help them???
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You would need to tell me what that means before I can answer it? But it was only my opinion. If you don't like it, offer your own instead of questioning mine.
This person went around earlier blasting almost a dozen threads with comments about this Genesis 2:17 stuff... but with no explanations.
 
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You would need to tell me what that means before I can answer it? But it was only my opinion. If you don't like it, offer your own instead of questioning mine.
Fine. Didn't Adam and Eve disobey God by choosing the knowledge of good and evil which made them feel guilty of remaining unclothed in God's most holy presence? Do you believe Jesus delivered you from the knowledge of good and evil as in Romans7:4?
 
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kaylagrl

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Not really...I just feel that things have gotten stale and I have talked to her about going to therapy and it never worked out... I'll admit that I had to do some things like borrow money from others and didn't tell her about it till after the fact..but it was for my family and I did apologize and was regretful about it...but it shouldn't be something that should cause you to leave
But are you certain that is her reason for leaving? Did she tell you that? Something that may not bother one person may really bother another. Marriage is a partnership. I'm not blaming you, or her for that matter. I'm just wondering if she was clear about the reason for leaving.
 
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kaylagrl

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To start with, shouldn't people be suggested to confess the sin of violating Genesis 2:17?


Please respond to the first poster and do not derail the thread. They are asking for opinions and insight. If you have a message you want to preach, start your own thread. It's rude to derail someone elses.
 

GardenofWeeden

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Fine. Didn't Adam and Eve disobey God by choosing the knowledge of good and evil which made them feel guilty of remaining unclothed in God's most holy presence? Do you believe Jesus delivered you from the knowledge of good and evil as in Romans7:4?
Your question has nothing to do with my opinion on the op's question. Instead of trying to derail this thread with your questions about Gen 2:17, go to the Bible discussion forum and ask your question in a brand new post. Yes, Adam and Eve disobeyed God, but, other than the general "all things are connected, and had Adam and Eve behaved themselves, life would a gooey bite of creaminess all the time, " logic, it has nothing to do with the op's questions. The ones in the Bible discussion are better equipped to give an opinion on this, since they debate the Bible more often.
 
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Your question has nothing to do with my opinion on the op's question. Instead of trying to derail this thread with your questions about Gen 2:17, go to the Bible discussion forum and ask your question in a brand new post. Yes, Adam and Eve disobeyed God, but, other than the general "all things are connected, and had Adam and Eve behaved themselves, life would a gooey bite of creaminess all the time, " logic, it has nothing to do with the op's questions. The ones in the Bible discussion are better equipped to give an opinion on this, since they debate the Bible more often.
So what is the origin of frustration if not the disobedience of humans to God's command in Genesis 2:17?
 
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Please respond to the first poster and do not derail the thread. They are asking for opinions and insight. If you have a message you want to preach, start your own thread. It's rude to derail someone elses.
What is the origin of all frustrations if not disobedience to God's command to not choose the knowledge of good & evil?
 

GardenofWeeden

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So what is the origin of frustration if not the disobedience of humans to God's command in Genesis 2:17?
I am done playing your game...you obviously have something to say, so just say it and stop wasting mine and everyone else's time with your game.
 
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Oblio

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Hey, the thread is called, "Frustrated." :mad:
 
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kaylagrl

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What is the origin of all frustrations if not disobedience to God's command to not choose the knowledge of good & evil?

You've been asked more than once to stop derailing the thread. If you have something you want to say, go start your own thread. Stop being rude. This poster has asked for help not for you to derail the thread.
 
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You've been asked more than once to stop derailing the thread. If you have something you want to say, go start your own thread. Stop being rude. This poster has asked for help not for you to derail the thread.
Without addressing the basic problem how can you help? Do you want to give a temporal solution without addressing the eternal destiny?
 
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kaylagrl

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Without addressing the basic problem how can you help? Do you want to give a temporal solution without addressing the eternal destiny?
Have you never been on a forum before? Do you not know how they work?! Answer the OPs question and stop derailing the thread. Start your own thread to talk on eternal destiny.
 
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Have you never been on a forum before? Do you not know how they work?! Answer the OPs question and stop derailing the thread. Start your own thread to talk on eternal destiny.
So you are living not to proclaim the gospel? You don't want to please God?
 
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ChristianTonyB

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good morning.... I was wondering if it is wrong to mad or frustrated about a situation that you have prayed to god about for a while to change or at least to let help you get through the situation and nothing has happened????? I have tried to reconcile my seperated marriage.... she decided to leave with the children after things got bad with her and my family and she moved back in with her mother, its been almost a year and she has talked to me about the children.... but that's all.... I have prayed about it and asked god if I should stay even though I have tried on MULTIPLE occasions to try to work on things like counseling and group prayer but she wants to have nothing to do with me.... I have contemplated wether to stay or leave... I have prayed about it For Months and have gotten NO ANSWER!!!!!! anyone have any ideas on what I should do about this situation??? Any advice would help......


thank you very much
Do you belong to a church group overseen by a wise pastor? If so, I would confide in him.

Continuing to pray to God for wisdom in dealing with the situation is good. Maybe try fasting too. I did that for a week, with prayer, and I saw God put checks (stops) in front of my ex to try and turn her head. God was faithful of course, and did everything He could, but her heart had hardened beyond hearing. She eventually divorced me, which set me free. There were two young children/daughters involved, but I had to let them go. God took me on to follow Him. I’m not suggesting that this is what may pan out in your life, just giving an anecdote of what happened in mine as an example. My ex and I were not Christians when we separated (she was Church of England heritage, I was Catholic), I became one not long after. She divorced me about a year and a half after she left me.

There were financial problems that put a lot of stress on the marriage, and she had more than one affair. I’m not looking for sympathy in disclosing what happened to me, just putting up a scenario which may, or may not, give some pointers to you.

I hope all things work out to the good of you and God.
 

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The OP came here seeking help regarding his marriage. There's no need to lecture him (or anyone else in this thread) about what happened to Adam & Eve in the Garden of Eden.

@kaylagrl is right.
 
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We're done. You're not going to use me to derail the thread. Period!!
Proclaiming Christ sacrificed Himself to deliver us from the forbidden knowledge of good and evil that led to death (eternal separation from God)? Is this derailing?