Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

I suggest then that you hear about successful online dating stories.

These would be outnumbered by the failed online dating stories

Well people have cheated on their spouses before the internet was even around…

But was less common. Especially for women.

Perhaps your problem could be boiled down to poor male role models.

What ?

Your recent posts show you understand that, generally speaking, men have a poor record of fidelity.

Do you have positive male role models in your life?

Men who are not constantly lusting after women?

But was less common. Especially for women.

WHAT?!?

Boy do YOU not know anything about history!

Still not understand. What do you mean by "positive male role models" ?

Youth who have positive role models have higher rates of school success, and
learn to develop healthy, functional life skills, engaging in less problematic/high
risk behaviors (e.g., drugs, drinking, promiscuity, violence) than those who don’t.
Did you experience some trauma that now propels you to seek solace in fantasy?

It is a truth.

Seriously bro are you here to waste eveeybodies time?
Things are just going round and around in circles and you don't seem to fully appreciate people making time to be emphatic towards you and give you options.
You haven't even answered many of the various questions I have asked you in my last to comments here either..
It seems that you just basically want to draw attention to the fact that you longing for a partner and have idolised the whole thing in your heart...and this provides you some measure of comfort/forfillment/satisfaction...but at the same times increases the yearning.Yet any thing that comes close to a solution yet seem to disregard or give reasons why it cannot be done.
Many of us have gone through life and are even older than you and some are still single and have gone through difficult times too yet are still able to function on life thus far.
So the actual situation you are in has itself
become a kind of idol coz I cannot see you showing much appreciation for many of the advice given to you and I even asked you fundamental questions which you just bypassed.🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
In life what can define a person is not so much the difficulty they are in but their attitude towards it..this can often reveal something about their real character regarding their problem.
Here's some advice mate..if you really want a change in your situation I suggest you go back and re read many of the kind wisdom filled advice and support sent to you this far and value the wisdom,kindness and discernment show in them..then the rest is up to you..
There has to be a point where you have to he told the status quo and i have just told you it..

I will answer your questions tomorrow Encouragement.

I know Im not a very kind person. Im rahter cold. But I simply, I simply cant do anything about it. Its my character. Its in my blood. I know you want to be friendly with me.

Kauko, if you scroll down the thread lists, you will find about a million other people in your situation. Maybe read the other threads for more self help?!?!

But no one from Finland. In other countries the situation with relationships is not as hideous as here in Finland. For example, in many countries, including the US, younger females tend to be more religious than younger males, but this is not the case here. In Finland the exact opposite is true. Finland has also one of the lowest church attendance rates in the world, which is another big drawback.

You are not willing to move and you are choosing to stay in Finland, and pretty much wrote off American woman on match making sites; So you made your bed, so sleep in it.

This is just a pity party at this point. Maybe seek professional help (psychologist) to help get you passed, your mental block.

Magenta's new shoes seem more interesting at this point.

I know Im not a very kind person. Im rahter cold. But I simply, I simply cant do anything
about it. Its my character. Its in my blood. I know you want to be friendly with me.