Those two ways are the only way of understanding that doctrine, there is no third way.
Let me address this ^ here briefly with a question of my own. Do you believe Jesus [presently, ascended/exalted]
STILL does not
"know" (the following)? :
Mark 13:32 But of that day and that hour
knoweth no man, no, not the angels which are in heaven,
neither the Son, but the Father.
Matthew 24:36 But of that day and hour
knoweth no man, no, not the angels of heaven, but my Father
only.
I hear it repeatedly, that if you don't believe Jesus STILL does not
"know," then you are calling God a LIAR! Because THESE VERSES SAY SO! (these are
the ONLY two options the person allows for).
If you answer "yes, He still does not 'know'...," then I would say I disagree with you.
Here's my explanation of why:
--the CONTEXT is His Second Coming
to the earth (not our Rapture--though there IS a Rapture as well, this
context is not covering that subject)
--"know" is in the "
perfect tense," which means that it is true up until another truth UPDATES it with further-info/any-changes
--in the Matt22 passage, verses 7-8 supply a specific SEQUENCE, with verse 7 referring to the events of 70ad ('burned up their city') and verse 8 telling of what happens AFTER THAT, "
THEN SAITH HE to His servants"... Jesus was in Heaven during the "after 70ad" events, recall... yet this passage states "
THEN SAITH HE to His Servants...". What we have in The Revelation, is (as stated in verse 1), "The Revelation of Jesus Christ WHICH GOD GAVE UNTO HIM, TO SHEW
UNTO His servants things which must come to pass [4:1]
IN QUICKNESS [noun]..." [not events over the course of some 2000 yrs], and there He discloses FURTHER INFORMATION on THAT very subject
... therefore (and without explaining in detail, for lack of time), I believe Jesus has "known" ever since His resurrection/ascension/exaltation
... and later [95ad] gave FURTHER INFO on THAT very subject, which (especially for those living IN that future specific time period [see "
servants of our God" in 7:4, for example]) ought to be able to come to "know"/understand, as well, if they will heed His Word (or those who are bringing it, at that time--We see the "a great multitude... of all the nations" in 7:9,14 who have responded favorably to the particular message of that future time period, for example). The thing is, we are told that many will disregard His Word at that time (just as in Noah's day... ).
[in the case of the Revelation (95ad) and the "
THEN SAITH HE to His servants" v.8 of the Matt22 passage. From there, one can view what the earlier part of the passage says, and who and what THAT previous part is specifically referring to...]