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Just because you forgive your fiancé, that does not mean you have to stay with her.
You can walk away. That's also an option.
You don't need to be stressing yourself about her relationship with God. You worry about your salvation.
Make yourself strong in the Lord, and wait on Him. Seek ye first the kingdom of God then all other things will be added (Mathew 6:33).
There is more joy and peace in the Lord, than stressing yourself over a person who you can't trust.
Walk away, and give no thought to marrying this person.
You can walk away. That's also an option.
You don't need to be stressing yourself about her relationship with God. You worry about your salvation.
Make yourself strong in the Lord, and wait on Him. Seek ye first the kingdom of God then all other things will be added (Mathew 6:33).
There is more joy and peace in the Lord, than stressing yourself over a person who you can't trust.
Walk away, and give no thought to marrying this person.
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I just got out of a worldly relationship years ago Brother I encourage you to just Focus on Jesus And let go of that area of life focus on your Goals first then when the time is right and your serious about that area of life then Pray, God will bless you I have a Beautiful wife waiting for me today but I'm focusing on my Purpose first before I enter that area in my life.
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I would say, you can forgive her, and when you are in Christ you must do so. It doesn't happen over night, but then again, her choice to betray you didn't either.
Having said that, she's your girlfriend, not your wife.
You can forgive and let go. The choice is yours. The one question you may wish to ask yourself is, do you trust her?
Take a while to find that answer given what the question entails. Do you trust her: Not to cheat again, not to lie to you, not to betray your trust again.
If the answer is no, move on. That's my advice. If you can't trust someone you can't truly like them. If you can't truly like them you can't love them. Like comes before love, and trust is woven into both.
God be with you.
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Sin has consequences, our choices lead us to them. The one question to yourself is " Will I miss the person, or what we had?"
pride or love? Ive asked myself the same many times, in various forms.
Time will sort it out. So understand this will hurt for a long time, dont rush. You will feel different in a year
one way or the other.
pride or love? Ive asked myself the same many times, in various forms.
Time will sort it out. So understand this will hurt for a long time, dont rush. You will feel different in a year
one way or the other.
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Naturally, when you love someone, you'll miss them or you'll miss certain aspects of the relationship even if it was a bad one. Being alone isn't easy, so walking away is hard. But you have to do what you have to do.
And to OP: walking away doesn't mean you can't still maintain a presence in her kids life- if she agrees.
And to OP: walking away doesn't mean you can't still maintain a presence in her kids life- if she agrees.
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