The Backsliding church

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That's all in my first post. I'm looking for another church right now.
I am asking everyone if they are noticing the same things in their area.
Fair enough.

No, I am not seeing the same things here. My community has several vibrant congregations and the usual aberrant groups.
 
1Peter 4:17For it is time for judgment to begin [m]with the household of God; and if it begins [n]with us first, what will be the outcome for those who do not obey the gospel of God? 18AND IF IT IS WITH DIFFICULTY THAT THE RIGHTEOUS IS SAVED, [o]WHAT WILL BECOME OF THE GODLESS MAN AND THE SINNER? 19Therefore, those also who suffer according to the will of God are to entrust their souls to a faithful Creator in doing what is right.

This is the reason I am saying that it's easier to backslide today. The unfaithful have already fallen away, & where many churches are shallow at best, IF we aren't careful we will be just as shallow & therefore closer to the line of no return.
I believe we need to press harder than the shallow church in order to make it in. I don't want anybody lost because of the trends in modern churches of wanting to be entertained with their P&W, playing the MEism card.
I also believe many christians are going thru trials to get them ready for the coming of Christ because they're not ready.
We can't keep saying that Jesus is getting His church ready & not go thru anything. I already have, & it took years to be changed. I understand the righteous will be tested because I have been.
 
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I see..... I see why members don't post due to instant judging.
You don't even know me or my church & yet you have this to say?
It might be better to quit this site due to the instant judgment. In here it's worse than it is out there.
I was just wanting to know if anyone else saw this in the church. Sheesh!

I see you don't see that citing Scripture against being judgmental is NOT being judgmental.
Sheeesh!
 
I believe that since we're in a generational decline that many believe there will be an end-time revival, possibly the biggest so far with all it's excitement we're used to.
However, I believe the tested christians will go thru either renewal or backslide.
I used to think I would like to be alive when Jesus comes, but now I would rather go home now than go thru everything the church would face before Jesus comes. My family is going thru things right now, and I'm praying & are hopeful they will make it. But what if they don't? Job didn't have that guarantee. I'm hoping the better covenant with better promises will help with that. I've see teens of christians go buck wild against Christ, esp. PK's. And what about grandkids that are going crazy? I dont want to go thru that, do you?
Come quickly Lord Jesus!!
 
Are there any others that would share their own story of this?

My story is that backsliding occurs when people do not judge themselves before judging others (Matt. 7:1-5) in accordance with
advice from Paul, such as 1Tim. 5:1, 2Tim. 2:24-25, Eph. 4:15, Rom. 12:18, 14:1, 10, 19, 22, 15:1, 5, 7 (cf. Phil. 1:15-18), which is edifying
when accepted/heeded.

Again, I happen to prefer/find more edifying the old hymns in which each verse teaches biblical doctrine
more than the mindless repetition found in many current P&W songs, but bad taste may not be a sin.
 
My story is that backsliding occurs when people do not judge themselves before judging others (Matt. 7:1-5) in accordance with
advice from Paul, such as 1Tim. 5:1, 2Tim. 2:24-25, Eph. 4:15, Rom. 12:18, 14:1, 10, 19, 22, 15:1, 5, 7 (cf. Phil. 1:15-18), which is edifying
when accepted/heeded.

Again, I happen to prefer/find more edifying the old hymns in which each verse teaches biblical doctrine
more than the mindless repetition found in many current P&W songs, but bad taste may not be a sin.
That's not the only scenario where christians backslide, is it? Your story isn't the only story.
Those that don't forgive won't be forgiven....that's another right there.
 
That's not the only scenario where christians backslide, is it? Your story isn't the only story.
Those that don't forgive won't be forgiven....that's another right there.

That's not the only scenario where christians backslide, is it? No.

Your story isn't the only story. Yes, no one's story is the only story.

Those that don't forgive won't be forgiven....that's another right there. True, but this should not be construed as abetting sin.
God does not forgive the unrepentant.
 
I also believe that as we see the end approaching we should be more careful towards God. After all, we have slid back quite a bit.

1For this reason we must pay much closer attention to [a]what we have heard, so that we do not drift away from it. 2For if the word spoken through angels proved https://biblehub.com/nasb_/hebrews/2.htm#fnunalterable, and every violation and act of disobedience received a just [c]punishment, 3how will we escape if we neglect so great a salvation? [d]After it was at first spoken through the Lord, it was confirmed to us by those who heard, 4God also testifying with them, both by signs and wonders, and by various [e]miracles and by [f]gifts of the Holy Spirit according to His own will.
 
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I also believe that as we see the end approaching we should be more careful towards God. After all, we have slid back quite a bit.

1For this reason we must pay much closer attention to [a]what we have heard, so that we do not drift away from it. 2For if the word spoken through angels proved unalterable, and every violation and act of disobedience received a just [c]punishment, 3how will we escape if we neglect so great a salvation? [d]After it was at first spoken through the Lord, it was confirmed to us by those who heard, 4God also testifying with them, both by signs and wonders, and by various [e]miracles and by [f]gifts of the Holy Spirit according to His own will.

Yes, and your post prompted me to see that "slid back" or back-sliding is the opposite of "stand firm" or perseverance,
which is a definite lifelong need. Thanks!
 
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As long as you approach your concerns the way you have, you will always get the responses that you are getting. I believe you have more introspection to go through before you know how to ask the things you are asking.

Your audience is the people you are suspicious of. They are stuck in the perception that "There is no such thing as the perfect church"; therefore, there is a tone of self-satisfaction. I have a lot I've written on the attitude that the church is a hospital for sinners rather than a body that should be united. Dissenters need to get their ducks in a row as they explore the Bible for answers and deal with professing Christians.

Perhaps ask those satisfied with the status quo of the organized churches and denominations specific questions:

How does your church deal with cliques and favoritism?
Does your church address grievances and dissent?
Do they ever see sin in their church and decline addressing it?
How do they explain 1 Corinthians 3:4 regarding dividing the body of Christ by using denominations? I have never had that answered. How do they follow Matthew 18 with the body divided like that?

The people you are asking probably don't understand the standards you are looking for, and perhaps you yourself are unclear in your own mind.

In your own personal time with God, definitely evaluate your own sin. Be clearer on your anecdotes as to why you have these concerns. Make your examples more unimpeachable.

Here is one of mine:
I went to the pastor of the church my wife and I went to when she was in decline for dementia. I asked if it would be possible if we could appeal to its members in order for us to have short visits so that my wife could experience mental stimulation and shake the cabin fever we were experiencing in our apartment. He said his members weren't like that, and he was right.

I did a similar rant here and was told I was blaming others for my own personal problems.
So good luck. For all I know, you are the problem, but if you want to hash it out and think I could help, let me know.
 
Most of us are aware of the Falling Away the church is going through. It has been going on for at least half a century now.
But.... do we see that the true church is in the middle of backsliding also?
Just last night I prayed before bed & realized (convicted) that at the begnning of my prayer I was going through the motions.
God had revealed to me in about mid 2025 during church prayer time something about His grace & it lifted me up spiritually. My life was better & I was happy for the first time in a while.
Last night I had realized (convicted) that feeling was no longer there. So I stopped my regular prayer & asked the Lord about it. Needless to say, I found myself needing to confess my sin & repent. I still am not where I was, but I'm better.
Another thing I've noticed: because we are in the Falling Away, it's easier to backslide, because the church has spiritually declined. As christians, we must press on harder or we will be left behind. I'm not saying that to scare anybody, it's just a fact. I'm concerned about those no longer going to church because they may be backsliding without even knowing it. I get it, I'm now looking for a church myself because my pastor stumbles thru her sermons & isn't prepared. Neither does she respect me as a minister to let me preach every now & then. In the past 3-4 years, nothing, not even when she's on vacation or sick.


Another thing Ive noticed: It seems to me that the moving of the Spirit has declined overall everywhere. There's not much in the gifts being exercised by the church or anyone caring about it. Maybe that's just me, but in every church I've visited, I don't discern much. Not much worship in the singing, neither much prayer or no one going up for prayer unless there's a medical emergency. Yes, there's some still faking it for we know them by their fruit.

Does anyone else see what I see, or am I alone?

I did a quick search of the KJV on the word "backslid*". All occurrences of the word are in the old testament. I can't find any occurrences of "church*" in the old testament. So instead of thinking about a "backsliding church", per se., it might be helpful to you to search the new testament for the descriptions that it uses for the church in order to better assess the church you're dealing with under light of Scripture.

Also you might want to avoid Pastor Suzi Q's. (1 Tim. 2:11-15, 1 Cor. 14:34-35)
 
I did a quick search of the KJV on the word "backslid*". All occurrences of the word are in the old testament. I can't find any occurrences of "church*" in the old testament. So instead of thinking about a "backsliding church", per se., it might be helpful to you to search the new testament for the descriptions that it uses for the church in order to better assess the church you're dealing with under light of Scripture.

Also you might want to avoid Pastor Suzi Q's. (1 Tim. 2:11-15, 1 Cor. 14:34-35)

Yes, we need to look for synonyms or descriptions as well as for the word itself.
What OT word did you find for "backslid"? Stiff-necked?

The OT equivalent to NT church would be the Jewish tribes or Israelites.
Right?
 
Does anyone else see what I see, or am I alone?
I'm hoping to find an actual answer. Some helped but most couldn't wait to blame as they usually do.
I'm done here, because I told you, That's all I'm supposed to do. The rest is up to you.
 
I'm hoping to find an actual answer. Some helped but most couldn't wait to blame as they usually do.
I'm done here, because I told you, That's all I'm supposed to do. The rest is up to you.

Well, you could not wait to want me banned,
so I see what you don't see.

Regarding the moving of the Spirit declining, one of the main gifts needed today is applying GW to politics
before we lose the blessings of living in the USA. IOW, worship needs to be per Rom. 12:1-2.
Do you agree or am I alone?
 
What OT word did you find for "backslid"?
backslid* = equals anything that begins with those letters; backslide, backslider, backsliding, backslidings, etc. I think there were 16 verses, mostly in Jeremiah.
 
backslid* = equals anything that begins with those letters; backslide, backslider, backsliding, backslidings, etc. I think there were 16 verses, mostly in Jeremiah.

Yes, as in Jer. 2:19, 3:22, 5:6, 14:7, 15:6 and Ezek. 37:23 per my NIV concordance.
Thanks.
 
I'm hoping to find an actual answer. Some helped but most couldn't wait to blame as they usually do.
I'm done here, because I told you, That's all I'm supposed to do. The rest is up to you.

I guess you didn't read my post.
I'm the only one who understood the context of when you talked about your desire to share your insights from the pulpit.

This is what I would call evidence of your sincerity.

I even spoke of my own experience with being found at fault for what I see in the church.

But you're done? If so, you are exemplifying what you are complaining about.