Why are you single?

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i wish for you great patience with the ingredient of peaceful & joyful waiting & resting in Jesus' answer. Lamentations 3:22-25 & Psalm 27:14. i asked the Lord for a wife & the Holy Spirit said to me, "in about 3 to 4 years". sure enough, 204 weeks later, my wife arrived. think about this, 4 years is 208 weeks, so i waited nearly the maximum time. Merry Christmas to you.
Yesterday I learned I might have an aggressive cancer, so right now the thought of waiting or searching for a wife feels not relevant. I mean, if I would date someone, I would just cause her grieving.
 
Yesterday I learned I might have an aggressive cancer, so right now the thought of waiting or searching for a wife feels not relevant. I mean, if I would date someone, I would just cause her grieving.
sorry to hear this. all manner of blessings to you. i'll pray for you.
 
Yesterday I learned I might have an aggressive cancer, so right now the thought of waiting or searching for a wife feels not relevant. I mean, if I would date someone, I would just cause her grieving.

I am so sorry to hear this, truly. I will pray but please let us know if there is anything we can pray for specifically.

Try to stay positive, I know it's really hard to but it's not a solid diagnosis and even if it was these things can turn around with prayer and treatment, I've seen it happen!🙏
 
I am so sorry to hear this, truly. I will pray but please let us know if there is anything we can pray for specifically.

Try to stay positive, I know it's really hard to but it's not a solid diagnosis and even if it was these things can turn around with prayer and treatment, I've seen it happen!🙏
Thank you for your kind words. There are of course several specific things I wish prayers for... but at the same time I feel a bit selfish for wishing all these things.

Number one is of course full healing and recovery. I have two 18 year old boys, and I know they will still need my help with many things. And I truly love children, so it would be so wonderful if I could be around if they one day find partners and give me grandchildren. I would so love to take care of grandchildren.

I also really hope I could be a blessing for somebody. I have many times asked God to sharpen me as a tool so I can be used by him. Also I am worried for all the persons I am praying for. Who will pray for them in case I would pass away? I wish God would show me what he wants me to do.

And as a third wish, I really wish for a good friend. Since I lost my closest friend during the fall, I have been very alone. I hope to get someone who would truly appreciate me as a friend. Somebody who would have a little bit of contact with me most days, and not out of pity, but because they truly want me as their friend. I know this is something that would help me stay positive. If I know my existing is important to someone, then that gives me more strength to fight on.
 
Thank you for your kind words. There are of course several specific things I wish prayers for... but at the same time I feel a bit selfish for wishing all these things.

Number one is of course full healing and recovery. I have two 18 year old boys, and I know they will still need my help with many things. And I truly love children, so it would be so wonderful if I could be around if they one day find partners and give me grandchildren. I would so love to take care of grandchildren.

I also really hope I could be a blessing for somebody. I have many times asked God to sharpen me as a tool so I can be used by him. Also I am worried for all the persons I am praying for. Who will pray for them in case I would pass away? I wish God would show me what he wants me to do.

And as a third wish, I really wish for a good friend. Since I lost my closest friend during the fall, I have been very alone. I hope to get someone who would truly appreciate me as a friend. Somebody who would have a little bit of contact with me most days, and not out of pity, but because they truly want me as their friend. I know this is something that would help me stay positive. If I know my existing is important to someone, then that gives me more strength to fight on.
May God notice your situation, provide for you and your family, support you in amazing ways, and have honor in your situation, engblom.
 
Seriously I don't know. Dated sometimes ago and they all have a closing remark for breakup, "you are a good girl but I have to go" All the men are from a tribe we call Bamileke. They are very tribalistic. I know for sure it was because I was not from their tribe. They needed a girl from their tribe. They worship human skulls there so it will be difficult for outsiders to adhere to that form of worship. they were all Christians who practiced syncretism.


Now I am single because I need a Christian man who would love God deeply and love me too. but so many Christian men like being single
 
I have no idea why I am single.
I wanted to be a double like my brothers who are twins. But it didn't turn out that way.

I thought it would be cool to have a Lanolin 2. Double trouble. People would call us the Lanolins. As long as people didn't get us mixed up with Lindsey Lohan, I would be cool with that.
 
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Yesterday I learned I might have an aggressive cancer, so right now the thought of waiting or searching for a wife feels not relevant. I mean, if I would date someone, I would just cause her grieving.
I'm very sorry to hear that from u , please keep us informed of how u get along . At the end of 2013 I was diagnosed with stage four , triple negative breast cancer . I had 3 tumours in my left breast . I had it removed then 6 chemotherapies and 15 radiotherapies , been all clear since ❤️ so , try to stay positive , stick close to your God and do what the doctor's tell u to . Please , let us know how u r doing 🙏 .
 
When I was single I was single because I wanted to b . I was happy then and I'm happy now , coming up to 25 years married . Both lifestyles have their pros and cons . If hubby dies b 4 me I shall b single again until I die . I shall stop dying my hair and put on several pounds , c , I told u , pros and cons 😆 .
 
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I’m single because I am sick and don’t even have a job. No one would want to be with me. Why are you single?
Well , I'm ill / disabled and unable to work , so is my hubby , we were both in this state when we met each other , God brought us together I'm sure of that . Pray to God , pour out your heart to Him , ask for His help . There may b a lovely unemployable ill lady out there who is also looking for a nice Christian guy such as yourself .
Get yourself out and about as much as u possibly can , don't let your illness define u , just b a person , multi faceted and cheerful in tough circumstances . Try not to come across as too needy , allow the love and the joy of the Truth to shine through u . Imagine the kind of lady u want to attract and b the kind of man that a lady like that would want to b with . Please trust your God and talk to Him about this ❤️ He is your Father and He loves u and He will always give u what u need , trust Him and b patient !
 
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Thank you for your kind words. There are of course several specific things I wish prayers for... but at the same time I feel a bit selfish for wishing all these things.

Number one is of course full healing and recovery. I have two 18 year old boys, and I know they will still need my help with many things. And I truly love children, so it would be so wonderful if I could be around if they one day find partners and give me grandchildren. I would so love to take care of grandchildren.

I also really hope I could be a blessing for somebody. I have many times asked God to sharpen me as a tool so I can be used by him. Also I am worried for all the persons I am praying for. Who will pray for them in case I would pass away? I wish God would show me what he wants me to do.

And as a third wish, I really wish for a good friend. Since I lost my closest friend during the fall, I have been very alone. I hope to get someone who would truly appreciate me as a friend. Somebody who would have a little bit of contact with me most days, and not out of pity, but because they truly want me as their friend. I know this is something that would help me stay positive. If I know my existing is important to someone, then that gives me more strength to fight on.
U have many friends on here , u can talk to us every day , we would all b happy to hear from u ❤️