Also, I recall the story of a Calvinist who whole heartedly believed in Calvinism for a good number of years, and later came to the conclusion that he was not one of the Elect. So here he was believing and defending the faith only to find out later he was not of God's chosen elect. How sad. This is what this theology does. It bars men from the Kingdom of God.
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It certainly tells them they are barred unless they are one of the
divine "favored ones" .. must be something to sit in church for years to find out you are not one of them.
I was wondering about the children sitting in Sunday School waiting and wondering if they are one of the
divine favorites.
Heartbreaking.. I mean they have to be "poofed" aka regenerated without warning, just happens like a blink, no thinking, if they do think it will only be to deny of the Good News, they cannot understand it, it is all gibberish, like a foreign language or something.
And we know

God created them that way, He created them to reject Him at every turn unless they are a
favored one.
Children will hear but that is all ..it is spiritual has no earthly counterpart for them to grasp and believe, unless they are on the favorite list ... all of it falls on ears that cannot respond positively.
Little children born with evil, with chains around them, hearts of stone, born slaves to sin, wicked evil children, Satan has them captive before birth actually.... he is omnipotent you know,..... blind children worse than Hitler if not for common grace Paul Washer tells us, hated by God according to some.
Yup heartbreaking.