(Potentially) Profound Thoughts

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Lol, now that you point that out , ya… I can see that…
On the ohter hand, I suspect that if the focus is upon 'expectations', while we will often interact with all walks of life where some tend to be more contentious than others - I read it as a 'be prepared to do good in everything' - but don't expect everyone to respond as positively as you would hope... ie having 'no expectations' of others prepares us for the inevitable negative interactions... But or by having no expectations - we might be better inclined to not take those negative responses personally...

When I read it I am reminded of the ol' Mother Teresa quote:

"People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered.
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies.
Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you.
Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight.
Build anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous.
Be happy anyway.
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough.
Give the best you've got anyway.
You see, in the final analysis it is between you and God;
it was never between you and them anyway."
Personally experienced or agree with literally everything in your lovely comment. Did have a strange, quite troubling childhood but i wouldn't wish it away for anything, because it taught me so much.

One of the most true adages to me is walk a mile in my shoes. Sure we can judge/condemn an action but not people, point the finger and it's guaranteed many have the right to point at you. Which doesn't mean we should tolerate wicked behaviour, if you aren't the type to get angry easily, it's usually possible to find a solution, even if it's just walk away. I think holding grudges is really harmful and that the world is now a very angry, frightened place. I'm a pretty new Christian and so appreciate that the problems which made me fear for my children's future, are in the hands of the LORD, only he can and will sort the nightmare out.

Grrr! Waiting for the humidity to drop before running my bath :cautious:
 
Personally experienced or agree with literally everything in your lovely comment. Did have a strange, quite troubling childhood but i wouldn't wish it away for anything, because it taught me so much.

One of the most true adages to me is walk a mile in my shoes. Sure we can judge/condemn an action but not people, point the finger and it's guaranteed many have the right to point at you. Which doesn't mean we should tolerate wicked behaviour, if you aren't the type to get angry easily, it's usually possible to find a solution, even if it's just walk away. I think holding grudges is really harmful and that the world is now a very angry, frightened place. I'm a pretty new Christian and so appreciate that the problems which made me fear for my children's future, are in the hands of the LORD, only he can and will sort the nightmare out.

Grrr! Waiting for the humidity to drop before running my bath :cautious:
Having the ability to conduct genuine self reflection while growing and learning along the way, is indeed a blessing of itself…. Trust that our Lord has a masterful plan for you and it is HE that has led you to your place of discernment today…
Striving to follow HIS Will and not our own is the steadfast ambition…
 
Having the ability to conduct genuine self reflection while growing and learning along the way, is indeed a blessing of itself…. Trust that our Lord has a masterful plan for you and it is HE that has led you to your place of discernment today…
Striving to follow HIS Will and not our own is the steadfast ambition…
Have tears in my eyes, that's a beautiful, truly uplifting reply Solemateleft. It was only the end of March '24 i began my walk with the Lord, in my mid '60s so pretty late to begin but thankfully, not too late.

Think you're right, it's new thinking to me but HE definitely seems to train us without us knowing and activate us when the time is right. Last March i just quit binge drinking, which is actually a more dangerous problem than alcoholism, as just one drink can lead to a life threatening binge. Also, i was a chain smoker of rolling tobacco, woke up after a binge session and just stopped doing both. I do believe God intervened, that just doesn't seem humanly possible to me and obviously, getting old radically increased the danger of binge sessions.

It's lovely waking up with a clear head and feeling so thankful to the Lord, cheers for your lovely comment again, blessings and hugs
too 🤗
 
Why is it either ruling or submitting?

The couples I have seen that worked well, he and she always worked together and communicated a lot.
 
Why is it either ruling or submitting?

The couples I have seen that worked well, he and she always worked together and communicated a lot.
I think the ruling side of it speaks for itself…
You are absolutely correct… when it comes to living a day to day existence together as partners…
Ephesians 5:22 is often controversial with many interpretations… my favorite interpretation is from my spiritual leader…
When I prepared and delivered my daughter’s ‘father of the bride’ speech I boiled it down based upon my personal experience… and the interpretation I was taught with an emphasis upon keeping a marriage together during times of struggle, hardship and verge of divide…
As the husband and father of a family is intended to serve as the spiritual leader…
It is during these times of difficulty that rather than take the responsibility of making a rash decision to break apart a
marriage or keeping a family together in her on hands… it is then when a wife should submit to the spiritual leadership of her husband to help guide them with their faith to keep their family together…
 
I still struggle to try to be good to certain people who have wronged me...
But I don't regret trying...
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This is a place for any profound thoughts we might have. Anybody is welcome to post any profound thoughts you might have had recently, or any not so profound thoughts. It may be updated daily or maybe not a post for two months, depending on how much thinking we have done lately...
If you stand in the rain, you get wet, whether you understand water or not.
 
I was listening to some material from Emmet Fox's The Mind of Christ today and it germinated a potentially profound thought: the body has influence, and the mind has influence, and the spirit has influence, and so the soul has influence according to the part of the soul that has primary influence.
 
Near a year and five months since belief in the LORD hit me like a bolt from the blue. It's been an amazing, oft troubling journey to where i am now.

Makes me smile i now see the LORD so differently to the strongly Calvinist perspective i started out with, which is around 85/90% right in my opinion. However the flawed 10/15% is crucial and obviously heavily influenced by the spiritual corruption of the time. The main difference is i no longer see Him as predominantly judgemental, i actually think he's rooting for us to defy the evil ones and make his heart proud. No doubt in my mind that snatching souls out of the wicked ones hands, is to His glory. There are an abundance of scriptures where He literally pleads with people to turn from doing evil, so he won't have to destroy them. We are absolutely incapable of obtaining our own salvation, however, i think it's possible we might think, say or do something which interests the LORD enough, to give us a helping hand. Think Ezekiel 6:9 is pretty good for getting across what i mean:

https://biblehub.com/commentaries/ezekiel/6-9.htm

Think we all probably can see aspects of our own personality types in what He tells us about Him, His creative/inventive/adventurous aspects seriously gel with me. Think He mentions walking on the seabed in a scripture, i can imagine Him planet and star hopping etc for sheer joy/delight. He doesn't need us but i think He heavily invests in and loves His creations, which are an expression of the adventurousness and wonder i think are fundamental to him. So no, i can't imagine him as being like the big, bad i said NO! The bbisn! was a character from a kids cartoon series of the '80s called Stop It and Tidy up! Which i loved, having children helped keep my inner child alive and kicking for sure.

Would love to hear other people's thoughts if my comment makes sense to/interests you.
 
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I have found that keeping track of what a person finds funny is even more important than knowing what makes him angry. If I know what a person's sense of humor is like, I can tell a lot about whether I should avoid that person or cultivate a stronger friendship with him.

I have subconsciously known this for some time, I think, but only just today have I realized it consciously to put it in words.
 
“but i want to smoke!!” is how i woke up today

then i started to thank God it was only a dream 💭

no one can even pressure you for such things i guess

@tourist and @Lynx are cool in my opinion