Can We Really Exercise Free Will?

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If I decide of my own free will to control myself and not sin based on what scripture says and my desire to not piss off God is that fruit unto death?

Until you are saved you are not free except to sin. This is what Romans 7 is all about. You can see what is right, because the grace of God ensures you see it, but try as you might, you cannot not sin. Eventually you will succumb to the desires of your flesh.
 
You couldn't answer with a simple yes or no, which takes me back to your post which stated the following:
The above poster thinks we think that we don't believe we are saved by God's grace alone. He/she thinks we save ourselves.

And again, I say that the poster was spot on!
The FW crowd, including yourself, seem to have and inward desire to rob God of His glory. They all have a need to believe that they in some way contribute to their salvation. That a work, on their part, is required to help God reach His decision.
Therefore, I agree with that poster, because that certainly is not my idea of God's grace alone....

I suggest you read my posts again with some effort to try understand everything I'm saying and not just the parts that suit your agenda.
 
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To me this question suggests the concept of being a member of the predestined elect and waiting for the revelation of its reality.

Yes, you seem to add in an need of choice at some point, as a means of verifying what was already in place.

To God, you have always been known. Your repentance and belief did not take the Lord by surprise.

No-one is predestined for salvation, we are predestined because we are saved, a salvation known to God before time. The doctrine of predestination is based on God's foreknowledge meaning He knew something before He decided to elect you for something.

I think the question begs asking. What did He know?

Also, the fact is, we are a member of the predestined elect, that cannot be denied. It's what that means where I and others disagree with the Tulip/Calvies/Reformed mob (or whatever term that is used).
 
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And Jesus never said it was his will or his Father's that everyone in Jerusalem believe in Him.
Luke 7:30 But the Pharisees and the experts in the law rejected God’s purpose for themselves, because they had not been baptized by John.)
 
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natural men believe ... the issue is that they either haven't heard the gospel of Christ which is the power of God unto salvation to those who believe in order for God to bring them to salvation ... or ... if they have heard the gospel of Christ and they suppress the truth in unrighteousness, they remain unsaved ... or ... someone tells them something that is not the gospel while claiming it is the gospel and they believe the lie.
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I'm not sure what that has to do with what I said. Yes, natural men can believe because God manifests the truth in grace ( Rom.1:19 ) just as demons can believe God exists because He graciously allowed them to live face to face with Him until their rebellion.

The Gospel is the end of the road when it comes to salvation (unless you think you can lose your salvation, then you might think differently). There are things that must be believed prior to believing the Gospel.

Hebrews 11:6
But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.

One must first believe He exists. Demons have no problem with that one, the Romans 1 mob didn't even get that far. Then one must believe God is good. Most probably the biggest hardship for humanity due to the level of suffering in the world, especially of "innocents". It certainly is generally always the first and largest argument I hear from unbelievers. I'm sure you've heard it many times.

It's the drawing through these states that John 6 is talking about. When they get to the end of the road they find Christ is there because He is God and that is who they have been heading toward even though they did not know it was Him. They have been learning from the Father.
 
i know you believe you are saved by grace. you are just inconsistent in your beliefs. you will pray for God to save someone, but you should be praying to people, not God. God cant do anything about it remember, it has to be people's free will decision to believe the gospel.

this idea doesnt work anywhere else in this life either. i cannot believe the sky is green no matter how much i try. i just cannot believe it. you dont believe the things you dont believe.

I'm not inconsistent. I don't pray for God to save someone. For one thing I don't need to because He has already decided to save believers and secondly because I pray He has mercy on them because He is merciful, I pray He presents them with His truth, I pray He guards them against the enemy but I never pray He saves them because neither one of us can make a person believe without violating that person's freedom to believe.
 
Why is it that these demons, who certainly are not atheistic as you have correctly implied, don't ever repent and believe the gospel?

However I disagree with what you wrote that I bolded in red. If Satan didn't believe that Christ was the Son of God and Good, why would he have tempted Christ to get Him to sin -- to become evil? Didn't the evil one tempt the woman after God proclaimed that all his creation was "very good"?

Also, the demons know full well what their eternal destiny is (Mat 8:29), AND the demons knew full well who Jesus was and that he had the power to do the very thing they feared.

So again...with all this knowledge they have, why don't the demons repent and believe the gospel?
Oh and BTW, no created being fully comprehends the greatest of the 11 mysteries.

[1Ti 3:16 KJV] 16 And without controversy great is the mystery of godliness: God was manifest in the flesh, justified in the Spirit, seen of angels, preached unto the Gentiles, believed on in the world, received up into glory.

And NO, Satan DEFINITELY did not fully comprehend God's plan at the cross.

[1Co 2:8 KJV] 8 Which none of the princes of this world knew: for had they known [it], they would not have crucified the Lord of glory.

And something else.....Judas-Satan desperately tried to abort his plan upon realizing that Jesus was in fact going to be crucified. Though his knowledge was still murky and incomplete. Because of course the NT had yet to be written. Buuuutttt....too late. The clueless Pharisees went ahead anyways.

[Mat 27:4 KJV] 4 Saying, I have sinned in that I have betrayed the innocent blood. And they said, What [is that] to us? see thou [to that].
 
The people OF this world have always been filled with "faith" -- faith in any object but the one true God who they hate.

Faith pleases God so it is not biblical faith they have is it. I have made it quite clear throughout my posts that I see our believing and saving faith as not being the same thing therefore I don't see your comment really adds anything to the discussion.
 
I'm not sure what that has to do with what I said.
I may have replied to your post in error ... oops ... :)




sawdust said:
Yes, natural men can believe because God manifests the truth in grace ( Rom.1:19 ) just as demons can believe God exists because He graciously allowed them to live face to face with Him until their rebellion.

The Gospel is the end of the road when it comes to salvation (unless you think you can lose your salvation, then you might think differently).
I do not believe a born again believer can become un-born ... the born again believer can miss out on close fellowship with the Father in his or her walk in this life, but he or she is still a child of God.




sawdust said:
There are things that must be believed prior to believing the Gospel.

Hebrews 11:6
But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.

One must first believe He exists. Demons have no problem with that one, the Romans 1 mob didn't even get that far. Then one must believe God is good. Most probably the biggest hardship for humanity due to the level of suffering in the world, especially of "innocents". It certainly is generally always the first and largest argument I hear from unbelievers. I'm sure you've heard it many times.
yup




sawdust said:
It's the drawing through these states that John 6 is talking about. When they get to the end of the road they find Christ is there because He is God and that is who they have been heading toward even though they did not know it was Him. They have been learning from the Father.
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I do not believe a born again believer can become un-born ... the born again believer can miss out on close fellowship with the Father in his or her walk in this life, but he or she is still a child of God.

I think we are not fully born until the adoption at the resurrection of the body.

For we know that the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now. And not only [they], but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, [to wit], the redemption of our body. For we are saved by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for? But if we hope for that we see not, [then] do we with patience wait for [it]. Romans 8:22-25

The word born means procreate or conceive.

G1080 γεννάω gennao (ǰen-naō') v.
1. (properly, of the father) to procreate.
2. (by extension, of the mother) to conceive.
3. (figuratively) to regenerate.

So a fetus has been conceived, but isn't fully born for 9 months. Something born in the womb can die. The born cannot be unborn idea has shades of gnosticism. They believed once they received gnosis they could never perish no matter what they did because they were spiritual beings that could never die

 
I think we are not fully born until the adoption at the resurrection of the body.

For we know that the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now. And not only [they], but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, [to wit], the redemption of our body. For we are saved by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for? But if we hope for that we see not, [then] do we with patience wait for [it]. Romans 8:22-25

The word born means procreate or conceive.

G1080 γεννάω gennao (ǰen-naō') v.
1. (properly, of the father) to procreate.
2. (by extension, of the mother) to conceive.
3. (figuratively) to regenerate.

So a fetus has been conceived, but isn't fully born for 9 months. Something born in the womb can die. The born cannot be unborn idea has shades of gnosticism. They believed once they received gnosis they could never perish no matter what they did because they were spiritual beings that could never die

[Jhn 10:28 KJV] 28 And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any [man] pluck them out of my hand.
 
Oh and BTW, no created being fully comprehends the greatest of the 11 mysteries.

[1Ti 3:16 KJV] 16 And without controversy great is the mystery of godliness: God was manifest in the flesh, justified in the Spirit, seen of angels, preached unto the Gentiles, believed on in the world, received up into glory.

And NO, Satan DEFINITELY did not fully comprehend God's plan at the cross.

[1Co 2:8 KJV] 8 Which none of the princes of this world knew: for had they known [it], they would not have crucified the Lord of glory.

And something else.....Judas-Satan desperately tried to abort his plan upon realizing that Jesus was in fact going to be crucified. Though his knowledge was still murky and incomplete. Because of course the NT had yet to be written. Buuuutttt....too late. The clueless Pharisees went ahead anyways.

[Mat 27:4 KJV] 4 Saying, I have sinned in that I have betrayed the innocent blood. And they said, What [is that] to us? see thou [to that].
[Mat 27:4 KJV] 4 Saying, I have sinned in that I have betrayed the innocent blood. And they said, What [is that] to us? see thou [to that].

Yes, at this point Satan realized that he had been outplayed and had been duped. He was little more than a flailing hapless buffoon.

And everything Satan did was in accordance with his own will and desire, yet despite this, God's will had been accomplished.

And God stands blameless and justified and holy all the while.

Which of course is why the Pharaoh of the Exodus is a type of Satan. Similar conflict, similar result. Pharaoh gets the blame God gets the glory.
 
can you rephrase the question? ... are you asking for Scriptural support for the fact that the dominion conferred to Adam and Eve was delivered to the devil?
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Yeah I am.

God is in control, not the devil <- that is what I would claim.

I do believe 1 John 5:19 could be one proof text.
 
But all of Adam's progeny are not merely drowning. They're already DEAD! You need to come up with a better analogy.

And, yes, Christ died for all people w/o distinction -- but not for all w/o exception. Besides, why would Christ die for people he knew in eternity would never believe in Him? Isn't God's "foreknowledge" all about Prescience? Did God misinterpret his cosmic crystal ball?
Okay. No analogy is perfect I recognize that. Foreknowledge yes, but the Bible teaches that God knowing people will reject the gospel, Jesus still died for those people:

1 John 2:2
He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world.

2 Peter 2:1
But there were also false prophets among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you. They will secretly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the sovereign Lord who bought them—bringing swift destruction on themselves.

Why I cannot say. Perhaps to show how graceful He is that even those who tread on His Son and even the false prophets, Jesus still died for them. Making their salvation a real possibility if they turn to Christ.

2 Cor 5:19-20 that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God.
 
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No-one is predestined for salvation, we are predestined because we are saved, a salvation known to God before time. The doctrine of predestination is based on God's foreknowledge meaning He knew something before He decided to elect you for something.
2 Thessalonians 2:13 But we are bound to give thanks to God always for you, brethren beloved by the Lord, because God from the beginning chose you for salvation through sanctification by the Spirit and belief in the truth,

Ephesians 1:4 just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love

Ephesians 1:11 In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to the purpose of Him who works all things according to the counsel of His will,

look up the word for foreknowledge, God knows His elect prior to the foundation of the world.

I think the question begs asking. What did He know?
everything that can be known. God did not choose us based on foreseen faith. that is not true. that would mean we elect ourselves and then God chooses those who choose Him.

Romans 9:15-16 For he saith to Moses, I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion. So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy.


Also, the fact is, we are a member of the predestined elect, that cannot be denied. It's what that means where I and others disagree with the Tulip/Calvies/Reformed mob (or whatever term that is used).
im glad you agree with that. i by no means think being a calvinist means you are saved. salvation isnt a theology puzzle to solve and there are vast numbers of lost calvinists in this world. i used to be so against calvinism and i still wouldnt like to be called one. i just believe what the bible says, and people before calvin figured this out too, he got most of his stuff from st. augustine
 
This is an excellent point concerning prayer. What exactly is one praying for concerning the lost. Do they ask God to intervene in their lives? Unilaterally?
they do but remember thats not allowed, that is changing the rules. it has to be free will remember. if God appears in a dream to one man and not another, thats "not fair" and its making the other person more likely to use his free will to believe.

the free will is such a golden calf to christendom. its unbelievable how far people are willing to go to hold on to it. they dont think about the consequences.

God wants to save all, God can be prayed to and He will then show people Himself in a dream or some miracle or something. but if God truly wants to save all He could just appear to everyone tonight in a dream, every single person in the world. why doesnt He do it?
 
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they do but remember thats not allowed, that is changing the rules. it has to be free will remember. if God appears in a dream to one man and not another, thats "not fair" and its making the other person more likely to use his free will to believe.

the free will is such a golden calf to christendom. its unbelievable how far people are willing to go to hold on to it. they dont think about the consequences.

God wants to save all, God can be prayed to and He will then show people Himself in a dream or some miracle or something. but if God truly wants to save all He could just appear to everyone tonight in a dream, every single person in the world. why doesnt He do it?

It'll be interesting to see the continuation of this line of reasoning and argument when you get to this post. (linked)

You (and others) are misrepresenting the thinking of others hopefully because you just don't understand it. The problem with some here is that it seems more tactical than misunderstanding.

God did show Himself to His people and some chose to intensely reject Him which He allowed and lamented. You underestimate God's revelation of Himself to all men, the power of human will He's designed and allows to reject Him, and His desire for willful submission to Him by all men.

Re: His fairness, I doubt anyone here thinks God is unfair. It's rather what we think is unfair, would God actually do what we think is unfair, are we understanding unfairness correctly.
 
It'll be interesting to see the continuation of this line of reasoning and argument when you get to this post. (linked)

You (and others) are misrepresenting the thinking of others hopefully because you just don't understand it. The problem with some here is that it seems more tactical than misunderstanding.

God did show Himself to His people and some chose to intensely reject Him which He allowed and lamented. You underestimate God's revelation of Himself to all men, the power of human will He's designed and allows to reject Him, and His desire for willful submission to Him by all men.

Re: His fairness, I doubt anyone here thinks God is unfair. It's rather what we think is unfair, would God actually do what we think is unfair, are we understanding unfairness correctly.

7. Romans 2:11 teaches that “God does not show favoritism” (cf. Eph. 6:9, Col. 3:25, 1Pet. 1:17), which is how God judges people justly,
so the fact that some sinners ignore God’s Gospel indicates that His will or leading is resistible because of MFW.
 
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I'm not inconsistent. I don't pray for God to save someone. For one thing I don't need to because He has already decided to save believers and secondly because I pray He has mercy on them because He is merciful, I pray He presents them with His truth, I pray He guards them against the enemy but I never pray He saves them because neither one of us can make a person believe without violating that person's freedom to believe.

Question: How do you read Paul's prayer for the salvation of Israel in Rom10:1?

Doesn't the continuing context reveal that his prayer includes his understanding that the necessity of choosing to believe Jesus is Messiah underlies his prayer? IOW, if we pray for the salvation of all men with the understanding that this means we're praying that all men believe Jesus is the Christ, aren't we praying according to God's will and likely even His good pleasure?

One of the interesting things to me about Rom10:1 is that Paul doesn't say it's his will that Israel be saved, rather he uses a word that means good pleasure and he ties it to his heart. It's the same word at times attributed to God's good pleasure and the same word proclaimed by the angelic host at Christ's first advent Luke2:14.