About men stealing women!

[GaryA]

Apparently, you missed what I posted earlier in this thread.
I deliberately mentioned other threads so that nobody would mistakenly think that my comments here pertained only to what was written in this thread.

Anyhow, as always, I am calm as can be as I type. You interjected emotion into my response which does not truly exist.

You can have the last word, but I do not retract a single word that I said about this poster. Of course, that includes what I said about me be willing to help him sort through some of his issues. Apparently, that will not be happening...especially since he has convinced himself that I am not even a Christian. Whatever. God knows better, so I am good.

Bye...

Okay. Whatever. Carry on...

 

[HeIsHere]

Marry a woman who fears GOD, problem solved.

Kinda like train wreck which one cannot look away from, but after reading the thread and other posts by the OP, I would say the woman

who loves and fears God is not going to be in proximity ..... generally speaking people are attracted to other people who are in the same

vicinity of their maturity level spiritually, emotional and mentally.

 

[HeIsHere]

The hypocritical crybaby you are defending on a thread entitled "About men stealing women!" has already admitted to having sexual relations with another man's wife, and he fathered a child through that adulterous relationship.

Kinda puts things in a different perspective for sure.

 

[Kainos]

The hypocritical crybaby "About men stealing women!" has already admitted to having sexual relations with another man's wife, and he fathered a child through that adulterous relationship.

Reaping what he sowed, and casting aspersions rather being repentant.

Your displeasure is justified.

 

[keepingthingsreal]

Reaping what he sowed, and casting aspersions rather being repentant.

Your displeasure is justified.

You have repeatedly shown yourself to be rational, so I will say something to you that I would not even bother saying to certain people on this forum who seemingly have no discernment whatsoever. I have a bit of history with this poster, and I have not only repeatedly tried to encourage him in certain areas, but I have also prayed for him several times. If you want examples of what I am talking about, then just click on any of these links to see some of our past interactions.

https://christianchat.com/prayer-requests/getting-distracted-from-my-calling.217938/#post-5445787

https://christianchat.com/prayer-requests/severe-attacks-last-2-weeks.217935/#post-5445982

https://christianchat.com/prayer-requests/severe-attacks-last-2-weeks.217935/#post-5446516

https://christianchat.com/prayer-requests/severe-attacks-last-2-weeks.217935/#post-5446658

When I was encouraging him, while telling him that I was praying for him, this was his response.

I know your words are true keepingthingsreal. Yes, I think your right about something.

In stark contrast, when I suggested to him that he ought to be praying for God to fashion him into the type of prospective husband or father that God requires a man to be, then I received responses like these.

NO, I am going to continue, I am not going to sit and wait while everyone takes them all. I am going to keep fighting, I am not going to lay there doing nothing.

OK, so you don't what to hear what I am telling you. So now your trying to hurt me, and attack me, and judgement. You are now trying to destroy me anyway you can, one of those ways is by my public image.

"keepingthingsreal" You name suggest you are a none believer. And your words against me show that too.

Suddenly, in his mind, I went from being someone who speaks true words to being someone who is out to destroy him any way that I can, and I am now allegedly a non-believer as well.

Anyhow, as I said to our resident detective recently, I do not retract a single word that I said to this poster because he needs some serious renewing of his mind when it comes to the topics of women, children, and marriage. He even recently went so far as to say this to a brother here who was repenting for several months of sinful behavior with his girlfriend.

Know that some of God's rightoues men had concubines (girlfriends). And some of them had more than just one. It's possible that you having her could be a blessing from God.

In his mind, sin is a potential blessing from God, and I am just supposed to sit here and say nothing to someone who needs some serious help in the areas that I just mentioned? Sorry (not really), but I will tell people what they need to hear...whether they want to hear it or not.

 

[Brasspen]

Your own words betray you.

This is more proof of what GaryA is saying.

The hypocritical crybaby you are defending on a thread entitled "About men stealing women!" has already admitted to having sexual relations with another man's wife, and he fathered a child through that adulterous relationship.

I did say that, but I now know I only have 1. And concerning him, there is no reason I should be judged for it. This thing that happen with me and he's mother was not my fault. And even if it was, I should not be judged for it.
As far as the adultery is concerned, the man's wife told me to take her, and was teasing me with her. I then found out how to get her. Her husband cheated on her.

GaryA is right on it. I have no disagreement in anything he said about my posts.

 

[Kainos]

You have repeatedly shown yourself to be rational, so I will say something to you that I would not even bother saying to certain people on this forum who seemingly have no discernment whatsoever. I have a bit of history with this poster, and I have not only repeatedly tried to encourage him in certain areas, but I have also prayed for him several times. If you want examples of what I am talking about, then just click on any of these links to see some of our past interactions.

No worries, brother. Your love and affectionate concern for God's children is not in question.

I already reasoned that your stern criticism of Brasspen must've been a last resort. He's negligent in attitude and action. Seeking validation, not correction.

Proverbs 12:1 (ESV)
Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but he who hates reproof is stupid.

Proverbs 29:1 (ESV)
He who is often reproved, yet stiffens his neck, will suddenly be broken beyond healing.

Nothing more you can do, as it stands. But God bless you for leaving no stone unturned.

 

[Brasspen]

Whats wrong with you right now, Keepingsthingsreal, is the devil is using you against me.

 

[keepingthingsreal]

This thing that happen with me and he's mother was not my fault

Really? Let me guess. Somebody pulled your pants down and then forced you to have sexual relations with her?

And even if it was, I should not be judged for it.

I am not seeking to judge you or anybody else. It is your own lack of remorse/repentance that could very easily bring God's judgment upon you, and any real Christian who cares for your soul would tell you the same for your own potential good.

As far as the adultery is concerned, the man's wife told me to take her, and was teasing me with her. I then found out how to get her. Her husband cheated on her.

Poor you. The "victim" once again (in your hardened impenitent heart and deluded mind). You would do well to take heed to the wisdom of Solomon.

Pro 28:13
He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.

Whats wrong with you right now, Keepingsthingsreal, is the devil is using you against me.

Not even close. Instead, God is using me to try to bring you to a place of repentance and a much needed renewing of your mind.

 

[Brasspen]

Not even close. Instead, God is using me to try to bring you to a place of repentance and a much needed renewing of your mind.

I also am starting to you think you know it too. From your last judgment against me. You don't know nothing about me keepingthingsreal. You lack discernment, even in the flesh.

 

[Brasspen]

Really? Let me guess. Somebody pulled your pants down and then forced you to have sexual relations with her?

What I am talking about is our separation. There was nothing wrong with our joining. And I am not going to tell you about, it's none of you business.

 

[keepingthingsreal]

What I am talking about is our separation. There was nothing wrong with our joining.

There you have it, folks. Straight from the proverbial horse's mouth. There was nothing wrong with him having sexual relations with another man's wife. Frightening. And let us not forget the child who was conceived of this sinful union who does not even know who his biological father is. Yep. According to him, "There was nothing wrong" with any of that.

And I am not going to tell you about, it's none of you business.

You already told us (not just me) about it by posting it on a public forum. Also, as a Christian, it is plenty of my business. In other words, Christians are called to warn those who are in sin so that they might have godly sorrow which works repentance unto salvation. Far from showing even the slightest bit of remorse, you have repeatedly sought to justify your sin while playing the victim card. You are not a victim. You are an offender. Forgiveness is available to you, if you are willing to repent and to bring forth fruits worthy of repentance.

Anyhow, it is rather obvious that you prefer your sin over godly counsel, so I will leave you in it.

 

[Kainos]

Whats wrong with you right now, Keepingsthingsreal, is the devil is using you against me.

The devil doesn't keep things real.

Your enemy hates the truth, and will keep you in the dark about those who'll try to tell you the truth.

 

[Lynx]

It is getting hard to keep track of who hates who in this thread, and who considers who to be an enemy.

I'm going to go back to shooting sheep with a bow and arrow in this video game. When y'all figure out who is on which side, let me know.

 

[keepingthingsreal]

It is getting hard to keep track of who hates who in this thread, and who considers who to be an enemy.

When it comes to things like hate vs. love and enemies vs. friends, I believe that Solomon said it best.

Pro 27:5
Open rebuke is better than secret love.
Pro 27:6
Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

If we truly love people, and if we truly are their friend, then there are going to be times when open rebuke or faithful wounding need to take place. The alternative is the deceitful kisses of an enemy. Personally, I am not a kiss-up. Believe me, I used to be the ultimate kiss-up, but God had to lovingly beat that out of me. Not only for my own sake, but also for the sakes of those who I might deceive while kissing up to them.

Ironically, the OP started a thread not too long ago about people pleasers.

A problem christians have today, is they are people pleasers.
The apostles where not.
The word of God tells us to not fear man, but fear God.

I knew, before I posted on this thread, that I would receive pushback for actually trying to help somebody. I can only speak for myself, but I can assure you and others here that I do not hate anybody.

I'm going to go back to shooting sheep with a bow and arrow in this video game. When y'all figure out who is on which side, let me know.

Is there really a video game where you shoot sheep with a bow and arrow, or were you being facetious? I have seen games where deer are shot, but sheep?

 

[Lynx]

When it comes to things like hate vs. love and enemies vs. friends, I believe that Solomon said it best.

Pro 27:5
Open rebuke is better than secret love.
Pro 27:6
Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

If we truly love people, and if we truly are their friend, then there are going to be times when open rebuke or faithful wounding need to take place. The alternative is the deceitful kisses of an enemy. Personally, I am not a kiss-up. Believe me, I used to be the ultimate kiss-up, but God had to lovingly beat that out of me. Not only for my own sake, but also for the sakes of those who I might deceive while kissing up to them.

Ironically, the OP started a thread not too long ago about people pleasers.
I knew, before I posted on this thread, that I would receive pushback for actually trying to help somebody. I can only speak for myself, but I can assure you and others here that I do not hate anybody.
Is there really a video game where you shoot sheep with a bow and arrow, or were you being facetious? I have seen games where deer are shot, but sheep?

Kingdom come.

In the prologue you can shoot sheep over and over to power level your bow skill. They respawn once you get far enough from their field.

Actually I'm past that now. Currently I am sneaking around in a field at night, trying to find marigold to treat a wound while I try to not get killed by the Cumans.

 

[Brasspen]

There you have it, folks. Straight from the proverbial horse's mouth. There was nothing wrong with him having sexual relations with another man's wife.

I am not talking about the adultery. I am talking about my son. You can't even focus on the topic. Or was that deliberate.

You lack discernment. Because of this, you need to stop judging people. Don't Make Any Judgements about people until you have discernment, because what you are doing is messing things up for them and other people who see it. Without discernment, you cannot make a right judgement.

And Now I am going to tell you. LEAVE ME ALONE, STOP TALKING TO ME.
GET OUT OF MY THREAD.

 

[HeIsHere]

I am not talking about the adultery. I am talking about my son. You can't even focus on the topic. Or was that deliberate.

You lack discernment. Because of this, you need to stop judging people. Don't Make Any Judgements about people until you have discernment, because what you are doing is messing things up for them and other people who see it. Without discernment, you cannot make a right judgement.

And Now I am going to tell you. LEAVE ME ALONE, STOP TALKING TO ME.
GET OUT OF MY THREAD.

The onus is on you to be as clear as possible in your written communication, if you are not clear you cannot really be upset if someone misunderstands you.

Since I tend to be less into details myself typically on CC, depending on time restraints ..... sometimes best just to clarify.

Here are some sentence starters for you..

"Let me clarify....
"Oh yes, I see that I was not clear on that part....
"Yes, I missed adding in that detail.....

In this way we can avoid resorting to all caps.

 

[Kainos]

Whats wrong with you right now, Keepingsthingsreal, is the devil is using you against me.

Listen, Brasspen. You won't find a single guy who hasn't suffered the sting of a woman choosing some guy other than him.

The most painful branches the Lord has selectively cut away in my own life have been female. Women, who I wanted to fight for and keep a hold of. When my loyalty has been misplaced, God has taken sharp action, because He knows I ain't the best at walking away.

Remaining bitter is a choice. Letting go is a choice. Forgiving is a choice. The old man (flesh) has its way, but those who put on the new man (spirit) will do what the old man was and is powerless to do. You need to commit the keeping of your soul to God, and stop allowing old wounds to dictate your thinking.

Our unity in the body of Christ is not obtained through human compromise but by Holy allegiance. Don't make an enemy out of those who refuse to compromise God's standard.

 

[HeIsHere]

Listen, Brasspen. You won't find a single guy who hasn't suffered the sting of a woman choosing some guy other than him.

The most painful branches the Lord has selectively cut away in my own life have been female. Women, who I wanted to fight for and keep a hold of. When my loyalty has been misplaced, God has taken sharp action, because He knows I ain't the best at walking away.

Remaining bitter is a choice. Letting go is a choice. Forgiving is a choice. The old man (flesh) has its way, but those who put on the new man (spirit) will do what the old man was and is powerless to do. You need to commit the keeping of your soul to God, and stop allowing old wounds to dictate your thinking.

Our unity in the body of Christ is not obtained through human compromise but by Holy allegiance. Don't make an enemy out of those who refuse to compromise God's standard.

As someone once asserted, not sure who, and I am too lazy to ask ChatGPT, it is very true indeed.....

"Bitterness is the pill you take, expecting the other person to suffer."