About men stealing women!
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How to stop men from stealing your women?
Be a better man. Live for God, first. Stop sexually abusing yourself. Be the kind of man a woman would want to spend her life with. Continue praying for a wife. Keep in mind that God might have called you to be single for a reason and, if that is the case, learn to be content and live life for Him.
I'm pretty sure most everyone in this thread HAS given an answer, mixed in with opinion, but the answer is there. Even if it's not the answer you were hoping for.
You say we're having problems and need to get it together but you're the only one complaining about the issue.
Your numbers are a little bit off there. Wherever you are getting your facts and figures, they are not facts and they don't figure.
Some of those "traditions" you are complaining about were set up by God. You can try things a different way if you want, but there's a reason God said to do some things the way he said to do them.
Of course that was the same God who gave us free will. You are free to do things your way if you want. Good luck with that. I can tell you now it will never turn out well, but good luck with that.
You said it's from God? But where does it line up with the word of God? It's not in the bible anywhere. No Nothing like it is in there.
When you get a word or a prophecy from God, you check the bible to see if it lines up, see if it's true. This tradition is not true. It does not line up with the word.
But enough of it, I have done all I can do, is show you what it is. I have put light on it so you can see it's many thorns, and how bitter it is. That tradition causes, shame, guilt, regret, remorse, bitterness, for the men who practice it.
When you get a word or a prophecy from God, you check the bible to see if it lines up, see if it's true. This tradition is not true. It does not line up with the word.
But enough of it, I have done all I can do, is show you what it is. I have put light on it so you can see it's many thorns, and how bitter it is. That tradition causes, shame, guilt, regret, remorse, bitterness, for the men who practice it.
You all know that if you get a word or the church gets a word from God, that you check to see if it lines p with the bible. And you all can see right now, that this does not line up.
You are all hanging onto really tight, with fist wrapped around it, like a monkey with a nut in he's hand. You will not let go of it even though there is a hunter with a machete standing next to you.
Think to yourself for a minute, why do you put such a tight death grip on it for? Is it because you get to have something? Is it making you rich? Like the monkey?
You are all hanging onto really tight, with fist wrapped around it, like a monkey with a nut in he's hand. You will not let go of it even though there is a hunter with a machete standing next to you.
Think to yourself for a minute, why do you put such a tight death grip on it for? Is it because you get to have something? Is it making you rich? Like the monkey?
Just because you're "sexually activated" that doesn't mean you can't become deactivated. I was a sex addict all my life. I had lost all control and I had given up on ever being able to be sexually sober. But God did help me gain self-control. It was nothing less than a miracle, something I never thought could happen. If you're out of control, you'll never be able to have or maintain a healthy relationship with a woman. You're gonna have to do something to get it under control bro; ask God to help you and mean it. I'll pray you'll remember what I've said, even if you reject it right now; maybe it'll help you in the future.
I know it's true.
But I also believe this one here, the one I would rather do,
KJV 1 Corinthians
{7:8} I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is
good for them if they abide even as I. {7:9} But if they
cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than
to burn.
That right there is what I am doing, BURNING.
Under that tradition in the church me and all the other loser boys lay on the floor and pews bleeding out our feelings we had for her to God, after she rejects everyone of us for that one. And, we find out they just met each other, didn't wait. And then we bleed even more and deeper when they take the vows in front of us. Then it's gets even worse after that, because we know they are doing it.
The suffering from it lasts for years and years. Is this really from God?
Yeah I know, it does't matter to you girls, because you win no matter who gets it.
I am telling you right now, it don't matter how much time you spend together before joining, your relationship is no more secure than it was the other way.
Who's hanging on to it? I'm still single and ain't looking for nobody at all.
What exactly is the tradition you are so hung up about? I thought you were talking about marriage, and that is definitely biblical. Which one are you talking about?
If you want to marry because you're burning, that would be a good thing if you marry for the right reasons. If the only reason you want to marry is because you think it will cure your lust problem you're very mistaken. That's not what Paul had in mind. Uncontrolled lust will cloud your thinking and cause you to make bad decisions. I'm telling you, you need to deal with your lust issue before you even think about getting married. If you don't, marriage alone won't fix it. I think I've said all I can say about it, now it's up to you.
The married who seek sexual gratification elsewhere, do so because sex with a lawful spouse cannot satisfy their sin nature. Sin will always want what God does not permit or allow.
Marriage can appease the libido, but it won't temper a man or woman's desire to sin. Only Christ can change that.
If you can't be faithful to God, you've got no chance of being a faithful husband.
You don't.
As a christian(I hope you are), don't seek out & put a ring on the first girl you meet.
If anything, you ought to shake the man's hand & thank him for taking her off your hands. She made the decision proving she's not worth having.
Who wants a woman bouncing around from man to man?
So God said to me. "Come out of her my people."
My problems I have had my whole life, is because I have been in the world. It has made me paranoid.
That's what I have to do, is I need to get it together, and come out of the world. That has been where all my mistakes happen. Every sin I told you guys about, has been because of that reason.
Yes if the girl is christian, I should be able to depend on the last verse in proverbs.
But something scares me, is my girlfriend was rapped in front of me.
Most people where I live carry razor blades, which is legal. I am not allowed to have a concealed gun. But they can.
I can have a muzzle loader, but I have to keep it at home.
"But something scares me, is my girlfriend was rapped in front of me." Half of the police where I live support that type of life, and protect those men.
My problems I have had my whole life, is because I have been in the world. It has made me paranoid.
That's what I have to do, is I need to get it together, and come out of the world. That has been where all my mistakes happen. Every sin I told you guys about, has been because of that reason.
Yes if the girl is christian, I should be able to depend on the last verse in proverbs.
But something scares me, is my girlfriend was rapped in front of me.
Most people where I live carry razor blades, which is legal. I am not allowed to have a concealed gun. But they can.
I can have a muzzle loader, but I have to keep it at home.
"But something scares me, is my girlfriend was rapped in front of me." Half of the police where I live support that type of life, and protect those men.
Hi Brasspen, I'm glad you are realizing this!
I wish there was some way I could tell you how different a Christian romance is from a worldly one. But I'm not sure I could do it justice. Just focus on God right now so you'll be able to recognize His leading when the time comes. Having a sweet Godly lady is a huge responsibility, best to start preparing now. The right lady will be worth the wait!
Also, very sorry about what happened to your girlfriend. That must have been very traumatic for you both
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Firstly, listen to what most people are saying about finding a woman who fears and loves the Lord. Secondly, hitting the gym certainly won't hurt.
Yes I now they are all right about it. I suffer from being paranoid, so it can be hard to reason some times. Jesus Christ just chastised me recently. And, I am now going in a different direction I was going.
I have started exercising so I can build endorphin. I just now finished a daily schedule for myself to follow.
I have started exercising so I can build endorphin. I just now finished a daily schedule for myself to follow.
God chastens those He loves..... this is great news and I am proud of you!
Good job on the exercising too!
