What makes you think I don't understand what you are saying? I simply disagree with what you are saying.
And while the Spirit can reveal whether someone has accurate doctrine and even if a person may or may not be saved, are you prepared to say
@CHARLIE is not saved or will ever be saved? If not, you are unqualified to judge.
And since you rendered the charge, can you show me where I defended his position or actions? This is evidence of your bias because I did neither. I expect heathens to be heathens. I also expect those who call themselves by the Lord's name to act accordingly. There was opportunity to exercise love and mercy. But like what generally happens on this site, rather than actually minister to an individual, people are made to feel unwelcome. Rather than bringing wandering ones to Jesus, people here alienate those who most need compassion. Little mercy and love is shown and opportunities are squandered for real ministry.
This was my original objection and I have stated it several times. You are more concerned to find fault in others than lighten yokes and loosen bonds. You have mischaracterized my words and intentions because it is you who don't understand what love really is. I doubt this will make a difference to you, but it would be in your interest to learn what it means that...I desire mercy and not sacrifice.