So, your gonna ignore what the Scriptures state?
I'm ignoring seeing only one understanding of scripture,.and so are you.
So don't call me by your own measure
1Tim. 2-
14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
You say here Adam was not deceived, with the thought and measure it means one thing only.
Adam was not deceived and neither was eve because they believed God and corrected the snake.
Adam was there the whole time the serpent was delivering deceiving measures, which means Adam and eve would have been eye balling each other.
Eve would have went of expression and replied upon guidance. So at some point they where bewildered
He never ate out of disobedience as in willful . He ate believing he would live.
So he did not eat on the act of disobeying God as he was not deceived that way .
But he still Disobeyed God.