This is not true, God absolutely poured out every bit of His wrath for our sins on His head. On Jesus head. This was the cup Jesus was praying be passed, but not His will but Gods be done. This was the price that had to be paid for His prefect justice to be appeased, the absolute emptying of Gods wrath on mans sin. If Jesus didn't take His wrath in full for you on that cross, then you still have it coming.(I mean this generally towards everyone, not just "you") Do you think Jesus cried "My God, My God, why have you forsaken Me" because He wasn't forsaken on our behalf? I don't know why one would want to shy away from the completely radical nature of what went down on that cross to reconcile us back to our Creator, but is wasn't some small thing nor an easy thing, and it wasn't sinful mans blood lust for their Creator that needed to be appeased in order to reconcile us to Him again.
It was His perfect justice and love, God's perfect justice had to be upheld, forever. there's NO room for any compromise on this at all. The only way God is justice is if ALL sin is punished for all time, perfectly. This is our God. We all had it coming anyway, but God is perfect in every way. So not born of sin/Adam but of the Spirit, Jesus is born connected to God as we were created to be. But unlike Adam, Jesus is always in God's will, perfectly obedient in every way and in the Fathers will He chose to lay down His life so that we might be reconciled to Him again. The thing is that God's wrath abides on all of us who sin, it has to if He's perfect. That means that every sin that has it coming, HAS to have it coming. So how does a just and loving God uphold both perfectly? Only the cross, and only by Jesus taking the "punishment" only He didn't deserve. There's no other logical way for perfect justice and forgiveness to meet in a non-contradictory way. I blush at the misunderstanding that thinks this makes God "bad" or I've heard it said "I'd never worship a God like that, He'd be a monster". We never give any thought to how hard hard it was for the Father in this role, to not only take our punishment, but to dish it out to His own Son to complete His glorious plan. All praise to our God who is love on an incomprehensible level.