I'm an abused husband in the physical and verbal categories, and my wife has had at least a few affairs. I chose to stay married even though I could divorce Biblically. Because I can doesn't mean I should. My wife pretended to be a Believer before I married her. I'll leave that to the Lord as to whether or not she's saved. She's got a lot of issues and as my knowledge grew it became easier to forgive. I reckon everything I've been through in my marriage will have helped to develop me into the person I'll be in all of eternity, so I thank God for everything that has happened in my life. I won't go into more detail on this Board as the population seems quite mixed here.
I have enjoyed the authenticity you put into your posts and am glad you're here with us. I feel very sorrowful that you have endured, and continue to bear, this situation, and for so long. It surely speaks volumes to your character that you chose to remain committed to your wedding vows.
I hope that in some small way, we can add a little light to your days and a regular dose of encouragement.
Thank you for courageously sharing your story.
May God bless you for all you have gone through and continue to bravely face.
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